“Our ability to look into the future and think about what will make us most happy is the way that we get to a present that pleases us.”
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We get preoccupied with things that make us busy in the present and often forget about our future selves. Here are some ways we can help remind ourselves:
We all like to feel good about ourselves in the moment, even if it interferes with our long-term goals.
But instead of letting our present self make the decision, we need to bring our future self into the decision-making process to help us think about the future consequences.
Desire is a contract you make with yourself to be unhappy until you get what you want. We go about desiring things all day long and then wonder why we’re unhappy. Anticipation for our vices pulls us into the future. Eliminating vices makes it easier to be present.
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