Perfectionism Test
- You want the "honeymoon" to last forever
- You try to please your partner and have their needs met all the time
- After a fight, you are worried that they will change their mind about you or that the relationship is falling apart
- You view conflict as a failure
- You work really hard to make the relationship work
- You place a lot of expectations on yourself and you exhaust yourself trying to meet them
- You are hyper-vigilant, always looking for mistakes
- You overanalyse the significance of small setbacks in your relationship
- You have a lot of rules and theories on "how to be a perfect partner"
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