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Acknowledge your default position

Gary Vaynerchuk's natural tendency is to lead with trust: He is confident to give trust instead of having it earned. That comes with giving people the benefit of the doubt, and it connects and grows trust.

However, there is a difference between giving people the benefit of the doubt and making excuses for them.

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