Conflict Resolution - Deepstash
Conflict Resolution

Conflict Resolution

Interpersonal conflict is almost always due to people:

  1. Not fully sharing their thoughts and feelings
  2. Not feeling heard

Prove to people that you have heard them by summarizing what you just said back to you until they say “that’s right!” Once you assure them that you’ve heard them, then, and only then, will they be open to what you have to say in response.

123

283 reads

CURATED FROM

IDEAS CURATED BY

matclar

Diplomatic Services operational officer

What to do when you are CEO.

The idea is part of this collection:

The Art of Leadership

Learn more about business with this collection

How to build trust and respect with team members

How to communicate effectively

How to motivate and inspire others

Related collections

Similar ideas to Conflict Resolution

A Trick To Get Out Of A Bad Conversation That Does Not End

A Trick To Get Out Of A Bad Conversation That Does Not End

You can use the white flag, as in car racing, to indicate “they have one more lap and then it’s over."

Acknowledge what you’ve heard — “Gosh, it sounds like you really have a passion for skiing,” and then give someone a warning that the conversation is almost over. For exa...

Resolving conflict

  • Talk together. Each person should have adequate time to say what he or she believes the other party needs to hear. 
  • Listen carefully to gain understanding. Give your complete attention to the person who is talking without interrupting. 
  • Resolution is possible on...

Reflect on what you’re hearing

Paraphrase what the person has said back to you.

When we reflect back what another person is saying, we are making them feel heard and understood. When people feel genuinely heard, they feel connected.

Read & Learn

20x Faster

without
deepstash

with
deepstash

with

deepstash

Personalized microlearning

100+ Learning Journeys

Access to 200,000+ ideas

Access to the mobile app

Unlimited idea saving

Unlimited history

Unlimited listening to ideas

Downloading & offline access

Supercharge your mind with one idea per day

Enter your email and spend 1 minute every day to learn something new.

Email

I agree to receive email updates