Recent events have a bigger impact on happiness than earlier events, so it can be a good strategy to save a couple of things that have a chance of a big positive surprise for the last few days of your trip.
Do you think outside influences tend to push us toward having too high expectations for future experiences?
If you have low expectations all of the time, you may not be motivated to try new things or take risks, because you don't expect things to go well.
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But we have to temper our expectations and keep in mind that no matter the degree in which we can dream up detailed scenes of things yet to come,
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