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Five Secure Principles for Resolving Conflict
- Show basic concern for the other person's well-being.
- Maintain focus on the problem at hand.
- Refrain from generalizing the conflict.
- Be willig to engage.
- Effectively communicate feelings and needs.
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Attachment Theory
Attachment theory is a psychological, evolutionary and ethological theory concerning relationships between humans. The most important tenet is that young children need to develop a relationship with at least one primary caregiver for normal social and emotional development.
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Insecure Conflict Strategies to Avoid
- Getting sidetracked from the real problem.
- Neglecting to effectively communicate feelings and needs.
- Reverting to personal attacks and destructiveness.
- Reacting "tit for tat" to the other's negativity with more negativity.
- Withdrawing.
- Forgetting to f...
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Secure
A securely attached adult will appear in the following ways:
- excellent conflict resolution,
- mentally flexible,
- effective communicators,
- avoidance of manipulation,
- comfortable with closeness without fearfulness of being enmeshed,
- quickly for...
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Resolving conflict
- Talk together. Each person should have adequate time to say what he or she believes the other party needs to hear.
- Listen carefully to gain understanding. Give your complete attention to the person who is talking without interrupting.
- Resolution is possible on...
Steps of Conflict Transformation
- View conflict as opportunity. Learn to see conflict as a valuable look beneath the surface of your organization.
- Respect your adversary. Pride is the primary obstacle to transforming conflict.
- Identify primary issues. Always look beyond the presenting is...
The Secure Attachment Style
It’s likely your primary caretaker was able to stay engaged with you as an infant and effectively manage their own stress as well as calm and soothe you when you were distressed. Having a secure attachment style might look like this:
- You’re able to be yourself in an intimate relation...
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