What Is Ok

It should not be a surprise that most people do not agree with each other.

• We often judge others due to lack of context, or lack of information about what is really happening. 
• Things begin to make sense given enough information.
• Everyone has had a diff...

If there’s nothing to discuss, it’s ok to cancel. People, too often, view 1:1s as mandatory, but it’s refreshing when you both acknowledge that things are ok for now, or the time may be better spent other ways.

When talking with people, we should never begin with the points on which we disagree. We should start by emphasizing the things on which we agree, and be sure to convey that we’re both striving for the same result - our differences are in method, but not purpose....