We Are Who We Decided To Be

We master anger, envy, and other negative behaviors, and they slowly become who we are.

The same way we have mastered these negativities, we have to master love.

Still, many find it ha...

Relationships must have their foundation in true love, and not in the need to get someone to validate our actions or to make us happy.

We will only love a person that we don’t feel the need to change.

Therefore, we must identify the strengths and the flaws of our partner, and accept them.

Also, do not project our sadness on our spouse. Realize that everyone has our own baggage, and so, carry...

Study ourselves deeply and determine what works for us.

Understand how we can break free of our past hurts.

If someone keeps draining our energy, find a way to remove ourselves from that situation.

When we start loving yourself more, it is easier to see the truth.

It also becomes easy to block those lies that people keep telling us.

We should uncover the truth to those lies we have always used to limit our growth.

As a person grows older, they lose their innocence, and hence, always try to follow societal beliefs.

This distorts a person’s capacity to love.

The same mind–limiting framework governs the way we relate with others.

If an individual had an abusive rela...

People is addicted to love because they go into relationships for the wrong reasons.

They know what loneliness and rejection mean. Therefore, as soon as they get a sniff of love, they jump at it.

This will spur them to become obsessive. They are scared of ret...