To foster a positive atmosphere, discuss, don’t debate
You can use conversations to learn and have fun. Seek first to understand and connect.
If someone says something you don’t agree with, find out why they think that way instead of trying to convince them of your own ideas and philosophies.
“Gather all the information you can before jumping to conclusions about someone, or a situation. Often, misunderstandings occur between people when they do not seek to clarify and understand the others experience,” says Dr. Nikki Martinez, Psy.D., LCPC
It’s okay to say you don’t agree — aim to learn more about why they think that way. Also, try to remember that the point of many ordinary conversations is to get to know the other person better. Avoid judging others and always aim to respect different points of view.
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