Disagreeableness is a trait often expressed through argumentativeness. Disagreeable people are determined to squash the competition. When you want them to change their mind, you become the competition.
Because disagreeable people are energized by conflict, they don't want you to bend to their will immediately. They want you to fight for your ideas.
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