Loathing others
Think of someone that pisses you off. You will find that whatever is most annoying about them is also true of you. Exceptionally aggravating people are often unusually similar to you.
You may be right that they behave badly. But you are not essentially different—you differ only in how you choose to express or suppress that trait. Become aware of it.
When you have swallowed your own monstrosity, it is easier to allow monstrosity in others.
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