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Maladaptive Cascade
The vicious cycle of narcissism or as Pascall Wallisch likes to call maladaptive cascade has three phases:
- A vulnerable narcissist fears that they're not perceived in a certain way;
- They self-aggrandize to alleviate that fear; then
- Others are put off by their behavior thus putting the narcissist back to square one -- which makes this all a vicious and repetitive cycle.
Many narcissists don't actually realize that they are the problem because they are resistant to change.
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Two Types of Narcissists
- Vulnerable - they have low self-esteem and crave affirmation
- Grandiose - they have a genuinely overinflated sense of self
A study done by New York University researchers suggests that those who fall under the grandiose type of narciss...
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When Self-Enhancement Becomes Narcissism
Seeking positive reinforcement is never a bad thing because we all do something to make ourselves better but when self-enhancement becomes the predominant goal in nearly all circumstances and how they resort to seeking it out may become precarious and inappropriate.
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Narcissists and Their Behavior
Narcissists are people who behave in ways that many belief is driven by self-love but it isn't. Most of their behaviors are actually driven by self-hatred.
They are crippled by insecurity and shame. Their life is an attempt to regulate their image and this can manifest in behaviors like f...
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Dealing With Narcissists
Much of narcissists' behavior comes from deep-seated insecurities and with that thought in mind, we can show compassion towards them instead of getting into a competition with them.
For narcissists to change they must be motivated to change for themselves.
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"Having someone wonder where you are when you don't come home at night is a very old human need." — Margart Mead
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