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Lack of boundaries

Lack of boundaries

The abillity to create boundaries is often established early in life.

  • People who don't value themselves can have a difficult time setting boundaries with other people.
  • They may feel guilty or fear that people will stop liking them if they try to establish or maintain a boundary.
  • This can create problems when people don't respect a person's space and time. The lack of respect not only adds to stress but may make a person feel less valued.

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