Despite his negative reputation, Severus Snape from Harry Potter is a hero in his own right because of:• His unwavering love and loyalty towards his childhood friend, Lily.• His constant protection and care for her, and her son even in secret.• The sincerity and depth of his love for her, even after her death.One of Snape's most defining moments is when he reveals his true feelings for Lily, saying, "always." This shows that he will always remember her, even after she gets married to another person and even after her death, making him a truly genuine and complex character.﻿

1. Severus Snape

- A loyal friend who showed great love and sacrifice for his loved ones- His unwavering loyalty and love for friends was admirable. -He was a true well-wisher, even at the cost of his own life.

2. Sirus Black

Dobby was a loyal house-elf who always followed his master's orders, even if they were cruel. - Despite this, he yearned for true love and freedom in his heart. - In the end, he made the ultimate sacrifice for the one he truly cared for. 💔

3.Dobby, The loyal house-elf:

- Hagrid is a loyal and supportive friend.- He is kind and protective towards his loved ones.- Hagrid's passion for animals is truly inspiring.- His whole heart belongs to magical creatures like dragons, unicorns, and hippogriffs.He is often seen in Hogwarts with his half-giant stature, and his love for animals is pure and admirable.Hagrid never keeps secrets, which became an advantage for Harry and his friends and always stands up for what's right. He is a wonderful friend to have by your side.

4.Hagrid:

What We Can Learn from Harry PotterLesson 1: True Friendship -Harry Potter is a true friend who is willing to sacrifice anything for his loved ones. -His friendship with Ron and Hermione teaches us the importance of loyalty and selflessness.Lesson 2: Patience and Emotional Stability-Throughout his journey, Harry faces numerous challenges and setbacks.-However, he remains patient and emotionally stable, which helps him overcome these obstacles.

5.Harry Potter:

List of my most favourite characters in Harry Potter.

Understand yourself and those around you.

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Harry Potter 

Rule #1: They already hate you, changing that can be trickyRule #2: No matter what, DO NOT stop petting them

Rules

Technique #1: Chin scratches. Scruff roght under their chin. Try not to scratch their throat. If this doesn't work, move on.Technique #2: Undercollar scratches. Under a cats collar is where they don't usually get pet, and a collar makes them itchy. If not, move on.Technique #3: First, lightly scratch their upper back, then, pet their full back for a few strokes. Repeat. If this doesn't work, try to make your own Technique that your cat likes.

Petting

Get some treats for your cat. With these, you can also train them better. Cats typically love treats, so maybe if you give them some, they'll extend that love out to you.

Treats

Spend time with your cat. Bandwidth them, train them, pet them, play with them, etc. It will make a special bond between the two of you if you just take some time to even just sit with your cat.

Time

Don't be afraid to discipline them. They need to know where the line is. They won't hate you for that

Discipline

Give your cat a REASON to build a bond. Give them a reson to trust you, to care about you, to love you. Show them.

Why?

Treat your cat like they are the King/Queen of the house. They probably already think so.

Treatment

<ul><li>Taco </li><li>Crouton</li><li>Tater</li><li>Tot</li><li>Cookie</li><li>Cheeto-Cheeto puff</li><li>A name with a story</li><li>A famous name</li><li>Ash</li><li>Shadow</li><li>Pistachio</li></ul>

Cat Name Ideas

How to make a cat not hate you

"Cats, as you know, are quite impervious to threats.”

"Meow means woof in cat"

"What greater gift than the love of a cat.”

“I have lived with several Zen masters—all of them cats.”

"My dear, I'm a cat. Everything I see is mine.”

"Never try to outstubborn a cat"

Kitty Quotes

🌹 The most hurtful thing in life is losing the one who understands and speaks your silence 🌺

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Philosophy

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Parenting

The silence 

"The issue is not about how the world is, but about how you are"...With this touchy line introduction helps us to understand that this book is all about Adlerian Psychology. We all know that All problems are interpersonal problems. There is always a cause before an effect, so there is always a psychological issue behind each and every action of ours. That means Who we are now (the effect) is determined by occurances in the past (the causes). So let's deep dive.

Why Should You Read This Book ?

We are not determined by our experiences, but the meaning we give them is self-determiningWe determine our own lives according to the meaning we give to those past experiences. Your life is not something that someone gives you, but something you choose yourself, and you are the one who decides how you live

Trauma does not exist.

People are not controlled by emotion. They are not controlled by the past People are not driven by past causes, but more toward goals that they themselves set. You should arrive at answers on your own, and not rely upon what you get from someone else. Answers from others are nothing more than stopgap measures ; they are of no value.

Live without being controlled by past

Its fine to be 'Just as you are'The important thing is not what one is born with, but what use one makes of that equipment.

Be ok just as you are.

Unhappiness is something you choose for yourself. One might say you are lacking in the courage to be happy. When we try to change our lifestyle, we put our great courage to the test. There is the anxiety generated by changing, and the disappointment attendent to not changing Unhappiness can not be blamed on your past or your environment. And it isn't that you lack competence. You just lack courage.

People always choose not to change.

The issue is really what sort of meaning I attribute to the problem(height) ; what sort of value I give it. The feeling of inferiority we're suffering from are subjective interpretations rather than objective facts Value is something that's based on a social context. An inferiority complex is an excuse. The condition of having a feeling of inferiority is a condition of feeling some sort of lack in oneself in the present situation

Feeling of inferiority are subjective assumptions.

Pursuit of superriority - There's a tendency to think of it as the desire to try to be superior to other people; as the desire to climb higher It is the mindset of taking a single step forward on one's own feet, not the mindset of competition of the sort that necessitates aiming to be greater than other people It's enough to just keep moving in a forward direction, without competing with anyone. There is no need to compare oneself with others

Life is not a competition.

Everyone is different. Do not mix up that difference with good and bad, superior and inferior. Whatever differences we may have, we are all equal  We do not walk in order to compete with someone. It is in trying to progress past who one is now that there is value. Do not think about gaining status or honour. When one is trying to be oneself, competition will inevitably get in the way.

Everyone is different here.

When one is conscious of competition and victory and defeat, it is inevitable that feelings of inferiority will arise. Because one is constantly comparing oneself to others and thinking, I beat that person or I lost to that person. The inferiority complex and the superiority complex are extension of that.This is what is so terrifying about competition. Even if you're not a loser, even if you're someone who keeps on winning, if you are someone who has places himself in competition, you still never has a moment's peace. You do not want to be loser. So you can't trust other people.

You're the only one worrying about your apperance

The feeling of inferiority is an issue of value judgement Why is it that people seek recognition from others ? In many cases, it is due to influence of rewards and punishment education. We are not living to satisfy other people's expectations

Do not live to satisfy the expectations of others

If you are not living your life for yourself then who is going to live it for you ? You are living only your own life. When it comes to who you are living it for, ofcourse its you.

A single book can change your life. Already an enormous bestseller in Asia, with more than 3 million copies sold, The Courage to be Disliked demonstrates how to unlock the power within yourself to be the person you truly want to be. Using the theories of Alfred Adler, one of the three giants of 19th century psychology alongside Freud and Jung, it follows an illuminating conversation between a philosopher and a young man. The philosopher explains to his pupil how each of us is able to determine our own lives, free of the shackles of past experiences, doubts and the expectations of others. It's a way of thinking that's deeply liberating, allowing us to develop the courage to change, and to ignore the limitations that we and those around us can place on ourselves. The result is a book that is both highly accessible and profound in its importance. Millions have already read and benefited from its wisdom. Now that The Courage to be Disliked has been published for the first time in English, so can you

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Mental Health

Ichiro KISHIMI Philosopher, Adlerian psychologist and translator of English and German languages. Born in 1956.M.A.in philosophy from Kyoto University. Director of the Japanese Society of Adlerian psychology. Former counselor at Maeda Clinic in Kyoto and has taught philosophy and ancient Greek at various institutions such as Kyoto University of Education and Nara Women's University. He presently teaches educational psychology and clinical psychology at Meiji School of Oriental Medicine in Suita, Osaka. Kishimi now has his own private counseling office in Kameoka, Kyoto, and devotes his time to giving lectures on Adlerian Psychology and child education.

Ichiro Kishimi

Fumitake Koga is an accomplished writer whose work has resonated with readers around the world. Fumitake Koga has published several books that explore a range of topics, from fiction to nonfiction, and has received critical acclaim for the ability to weave compelling narratives. Fumitake Koga's writing style is known for its depth and authenticity, and has earned quite a loyal following of readers.

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The Courage to Be Disliked

A mistake repeated more than once, is a pattern. And an apology without change,is manipulation.

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Mindfulness

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Honest Mistakes And Honest Apologies

𝐀 𝐩𝐞𝐫𝐬𝐨𝐧 𝐰𝐡𝐨 𝐭𝐫𝐮𝐥𝐲 𝐥𝐨𝐯𝐞𝐬 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐢𝐬 𝐬𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐨𝐧𝐞 𝐰𝐡𝐨 𝐬𝐞𝐞𝐬 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐩𝐚𝐢𝐧 𝐢𝐧 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐞𝐲𝐞𝐬, 𝐰𝐡𝐢𝐥𝐞 𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐲𝐨𝐧𝐞 𝐞𝐥𝐬𝐞 𝐛𝐞𝐥𝐢𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐬 𝐢𝐧 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐬𝐦𝐢𝐥𝐞 𝐨𝐧 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐟𝐚𝐜𝐞.

𝐀𝐦𝐚𝐳𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐅𝐚𝐜𝐭 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐬𝐡𝐨𝐮𝐥𝐝 𝐤𝐧𝐨𝐰...

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True Love Sees Beyond the Smile

True value and beauty lie beneath the surface; to understand someone or something fully, one must look beyond appearances.

1. What Is Essential Is Invisible To The Eye.

Building and maintaining relationships require effort, responsibility, and care. The connections we form shape our lives and give them meaning.

2. You Become Responsible, Forever, For What You Have Tamed

Retaining a sense of wonder, curiosity, and openness from childhood can enrich our lives and help us see the world in a more meaningful way.

3. Childhood And Child Perspective

Grown-ups never understand anything by themselves, and it is tiresome for children to be always and forever explaining things to them. Many adult concerns and pursuits, such as the accumulation of wealth and power, are often trivial and distract from what truly matters in life.

4. Absurdity of Adult Preoccupations

Love involves dedication and sacrifice. The effort and care we invest in others make our relationships precious and meaningful.

5. Love and Sacrifice

"It is the time you have wasted for your rose that makes your rose so important."

"The Little Prince" teaches us to value what is truly important: love, relationships, and seeing beyond appearances. These lessons guide us to lead richer, more meaningful lives with compassion and wonder.

Conclusion

Five of the most impactful lessons from "The Little Prince" by Antoine de Saint-Exupéry

A pilot stranded in the desert awakes one morning to see, standing before him, the most extraordinary little fellow. "Please," asks the stranger, "draw me a sheep." And the pilot realizes that when life's events are too difficult to understand, there is no choice but to succumb to their mysteries. He pulls out pencil and paper...Thus begins this wise and enchanting fable that, in teaching the secret of what is really important in life, has changed the world forever for its readers. Often seen as a symbol of childhood innocence, Antoine de Saint-Exupery's best-selling book The Little Prince is cherished by children and adults alike across the globe. It is ideal for children aged 7 and up. This beautiful edition contains the definitive translation and all the original illustrations. The Little Prince joins the ranks of A Little Princess, The Secret Garden & Peter Pan as a genuine children's classic of the twentieth century. Antoine De Saint-Exupery was born in 1900 in Lyon. In 1921, he began his training as a pilot By 1926, he had became one of the pioneers of international postal flight. In 1945 he embarked on a record-breaking attempt to fly from Paris to Saigon. Nineteen hours into the flight, his plane crashed in the Sahara desert. He survived the crash but spent three days battling dehydration, limited food and hallucinations. On the fourth day, the was rescued. In part, this experience was the inspiration for 'The Little Prince'. He continued to fly until World War II, during which he took self-imposed exile. On 31 July 1944, he disappeared over the Mediterranean while flying a reconnaissance mission.

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Antoine Marie Jean-Baptiste Roger, comte de Saint-Exupéry, simply known as Antoine de Saint-Exupéry, was a French writer, poet, journalist and pioneering aviator. He became a laureate of several of France's highest literary awards and also won the United States National Book Award.

Antoine de Saint-Exupéry

The Little Prince

Being a people pleaser disables one from taking conflict of any form. The idea about going into a conflict situation is so hyper to these people, that "you're wrong" is something they would never say unless they know the person too well.The very first step for change in pleasing personality is to learn to take on conflicts. And to take on conflicts there's nothing better than "Blame the game and not the player". It is an effective way to indirectly communicate people their faults without being a pain in the ass.

Blame The Game And Not The Player

It's allows you to get your point across with least or no amount of resistance from the opposition, as you don't directly point towards a person saying "you did this or that wrong" instead you divert all that attention to the situation saying that it's usual for people to behave this way in these kind of scenarios. Afterwards communicating that there are far better options available to tackle such situations.

Why "Blame The Game And Not The Player"?

Let's say your close knit family member has lied, or has a fight, or doesn't accept his mistake in a certain situation. What will you do?Instead of saying you never learn and it's all your mistake, you need to firstly highlight the good things about what has happened and then say that at this certain age or in this certain circumstance everyone feels the need to do this same thing but these small scenarios need this kind of resolution mindset and set of actions to solve the conflict situation.

How To Use Blame The Game And Not The Player

Most probably no, the idea about others realising and accepting their mistake is flawed, nobody will ever whole heartedly accept their mistakes. Thaty just how things are, most people learn from their own mistakes and not from others mistake. Your job is to inform them the decision at the end lies with them.Better to make a friend than make an enemy.

Will They Understand And Realise Their Mistake?

"Better to make a friend, than make an enemy."

Conflicts cannot avoided in life, especially the ones you face in daily lives . These situation may arise anytime with anyone be it colleagues, juniors, boss, friends and family members etc etc. The article below highlights one of the best ways to resolve such situations.

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Problem Solving

Solving Small Daily Life Conflicts with Ease 

We create our own happiness.

Everything is fleeting. Everything must pass.

Every day is a new day.

Life is a magical and fleeting moment, and we must hold onto it with all our strength. But one day, we must let go.

The Fragility and Beauty of Life

Real love takes time.Real people aren’t puzzle pieces.We don’t find someone who is our perfect match. We have to bend a little to accommodate each other. That doesn’t happen at first sight.<ul><li class="ql-align-justify">Love needs time to develop</li><li class="ql-align-justify">Don’t expect someone to complete you</li><li class="ql-align-justify">You both have to make compromises</li><li class="ql-align-justify">It’s not an instant connection</li></ul>We are all unique and different, so it takes patience and understanding to build a successful relationship. Don’t rush it, the right person will come along in due time. ❤️

The True Meaning of Love

Just keep breathing 😉

The Secret to living forever

Life is wonderful, even when things don't go as planned. Remember, with every disappointment, you become stronger. So, embrace them just like your successes. <ul><li class="ql-align-justify">Don't believe that the end of the world is the end of everything.</li><li class="ql-align-justify">Stay strong and keep moving forward.</li><li class="ql-align-justify">Remember, the sun still rises even when the world seems to be falling apart.</li></ul>

Enjoy Life and Stay Strong!

A story about humanity, the important things that hold us together, and how hope can be found, even at the end of the world.

Previously published as NOT FORGETTING THE WHALE THE INTERNATIONAL BESTSELLER 'A gentle and uplifting tale of warding off apocalypse in a remote corner of Cornwall . . . charming' Financial Times For fans of ELEANOR OLIPHANT, THE ROSIE PROJECT & THE UNLIKELY PILGRIMAGE OF HAROLD FRY. It all began with the whale. When a young man washes up on the sands of St Piran in Cornwall, it is clear to the villagers that this is not a regular day. What has brought him here? And what is the crisis only he understands, that threatens not only their community but all of civilisation? With a global pandemic on the horizon, and a whale lurking in the bay, the villagers of St Piran must band together to survive. Intimate, funny and heart-warming, John Ironmonger tells a compelling story about the important things that hold us together, and how hope can be found, even at the end of the world. 'Fun, uplifting, charming' Financial Times 'A warm-hearted book crammed with ideas . . . very, very good' Emerald Street 'A tremendously enjoyable book' Independent on Sunday

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Teamwork

John Ironmonger

The Whale at the End of the World

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