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A man is not hurt so much by what happens, as by his opinion of what happens.

Laughter is the antinode to Fear

Understand yourself and those around you.

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Psychology

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Life & Success

Just like how it is important to have self esteem and confidence, Having self respect is a very crucial aspect in life as well a.

Self Respect

Self respect enables you to set, raise and stick to standards whether in relationships, career ,jobs and so on. It enables you to set boundaries in every aspect in life.It enables your actions to align with your values and principles and it allows you to not let people work all over you.

Importance Of Self

However, there are times where your self-respect is tested.I have an example of this ,a friend of mine, while she was in highschool she got in a relationship with a boy but she had strong self respect which enabled her to set her boundaries in the relationship. But after some time the boy wanted to break those boundaries, she indeed loved him but her self respect was on the line. Thankfully she did the right thing at the end, she stopped the relationship, This was hard for her ,but she had to do it so as to not regret in the future.

Many of us , our self respect is tested but we have to remember and do the right thing which aligns with our values and principles and integrity. So as to conserve it.

In essence,self respect should be catered for in our daily life.It is us to respect our selves first, for others to respect us as well.Lots of love💞

Self respect is crucial in today's world and the future, Let's embrace it and showcase .it .

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Self Respect 

<ul><li>Stress Relief : Writing down thoughts can help clear your mind.</li><li>Clarity of Thoughts : Organizing your thoughts on paper can lead to better decision-making.</li><li>Emotional Processing : Helps in understanding and managing your emotions.</li><li>Personal Growth : Encourages self-reflection and growth.</li></ul>

Benefits of Journaling:

<ul><li>Gratitude Journaling : Focusing on things you're thankful for.</li><li>Reflective Journaling : Reflecting on daily events and emotions.</li><li>Goal-Setting Journaling : Setting and tracking personal goals.</li></ul>

Types of Journaling

<ul><li>Choose a Journal : Pick a notebook or digital app that you like. I prefer a physical notebook over app but it's totally upto you to choose that you are comfortable with.</li><li>Set Aside Time : Dedicate a specific time each day for journaling. </li><li>Find a Quiet Space : Create a distraction-free environment. </li></ul>

Getting Started

Journaling is like whispering to one's self and listening at the same time.

<ul><li>Start Small : Begin with just a few minutes each day.</li><li>Be Honest : Write truthfully about your thoughts and feelings.</li><li>Don’t Worry About Perfection : Focus on the process, not the quality of writing.</li><li>Review Regularly : Look back at your entries to see your progress and gain insights.</li></ul>

Practical Tips

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Welcome to Day 1 of our Journaling for Personal Growth course! It will be a 7 Day course on you can improve yourself through Journaling. I'll post everyday explaining everything in detail, so don't forget to follow! Let get started!

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Journaling For Personal Growth : Day 1

📺 Watching endless content leads to wasted time and missed opportunities. Here's how to break the cycle and take back your productivity:
<ol>
 <li>🔔 Subscribe only to your favorite content</li>
 <li>🙊 Turn on silent notifications </li>
 <li>🚫 Avoid algorithm-generated content on the Home Page </li>
 <li>⏰ Schedule browsing time and limit it </li>
 <li>🌳 Ditch your TV for more active hobbies </li>
</ol>
💡 Be intentional with your media consumption and regain control of your time and energy. 👀

Limit Passive Content Consumption

Your attention is valuable and can run out quickly. It's important to take breaks that don't require your full attention. Next time you need a break, try one of these activities:<ol><li>Look out of the window 🌳</li><li>Drink some tea ☕</li><li>Stretch your body 🧘‍♂️</li><li>Take a walk outside 🚶‍♀️</li><li>Clean your room 🧹</li><li>Practice meditation 🧘‍♀️</li><li>Talk to a friend 🫶</li></ol>

Your Attention Currency

Don't aim for perfection, just start. Instead of studying everything in theory, focus on the 20% that gives 80% of the results.🎯Divide your work into smaller parts and challenge yourself with tasks that are manageable yet challenging.<ul><li>If it feels too easy, make it more challenging.</li><li>If it feels too difficult, make it easier.</li></ul>Starting is the most important step, don't let the fear of not being good enough stop you.Remember, perfect is the enemy of good.

Tips for Getting Started

Being bored may feel unappealing, but it's actually beneficial! It helps you pay attention, be aware, and remember better. Plus, it's a break from all the clutter in your mind. So don't be afraid to relax and let yourself get bored. 🧘🏼‍♂️Next time you're bored, embrace it. It's the perfect time to be present and recharge. Use your attention wisely and let it wander. You'll be amazed at what you discover. 🌳

Learn to Be Bored

- Don't go through life on autopilot.- Be aware of your daily habits.- Notice when you pick up your phone instinctively.- Create a big widget on your home screen for your top 4 tasks of the day.👀 Be mindful and intentional in your actions 🌟

Live Intentionally

Sucking at something is the first step to being good at it.

Lessons I learned from a 'Time Management' course.

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Beat Procrastination With Practical Tips

The Power of Thinking Without Thinking (Snap Judgments)	2.	Thin-Slicing (Rapid Cognition)	3. Adaptive Unconscious (Automatic Processing)	4. Role of Experience (Intuition Development)	5.	Priming Effects (Subconscious Influences)	6. Dark Side of Snap Judgments (Biases and Errors)	7.	Expertise and Intuition (Skilled Intuition)	8. Warren Harding Error (Judgment Flaws)	9. Influence of First Impressions 	10. Importance of Context 	11. Art of Reading People (Nonverbal Cues)	12.Delicate Balance of Deliberation and Instinct 	13.	The Power of Immediate Decisions

Topics You Will Master Today

Truly successful decision-making relies on a balance between deliberate and instinctive thinking

Our brains often make split-second decisions without conscious thought. Gladwell explores how these snap judgments, though seemingly instantaneous, are informed by deep-seated knowledge and experience. “We are innately equipped to make good decisions quickly.”

The Power of Thinking without Thinking

Thin-slicing refers to the ability to find patterns in narrow slices of experience. Gladwell demonstrates how people can make accurate judgments based on limited information. “Thin-slicing is the process of finding patterns in events based only on narrow windows of experience.”

Thin-Slicing

Our unconscious mind processes vast amounts of information swiftly and efficiently. Gladwell highlights how this adaptive unconscious guides our instant reactions and decisions. “The adaptive unconscious does an excellent job of sizing up the world.”

The Adaptive Unconcious

Experience hones our intuitive abilities. Gladwell explains that seasoned professionals often rely on intuition developed through years of practice and exposure. “Intuition is the product of experience and expertise.”

The Role of Experience

Priming can subtly influence our perceptions and decisions. Gladwell discusses how exposure to certain stimuli can shape our subsequent thoughts and behaviors. “Priming affects our reactions to situations, often without our awareness.”

Priming Effects

Not all snap judgments are accurate. Gladwell examines the pitfalls of relying on intuition, including biases and errors that can lead to flawed decisions. “Snap judgments are often vulnerable to biases that distort reality.”

The Dark Side of Snap Judgements

True intuition is rooted in deep knowledge and practice. Gladwell emphasizes that experts make quick decisions based on extensive, internalized information. “The power of intuition is most evident in those with vast experience.”

Expertise & Intuition

Our snap judgments and first impressions can be astonishingly accurate, but they can also be disastrously wrong.

Named after the U.S. president, this error occurs when superficial traits influence our judgments. Gladwell warns against letting irrelevant factors sway our decisions. “We must be cautious of superficial characteristics that cloud our judgment.”

The Warren Harding Error

First impressions can be remarkably accurate but also misleading. Gladwell explores how these immediate assessments can shape our perceptions and interactions. “First impressions are formed quickly and can be hard to change.”

The Influence of First Impressions

Context heavily influences our decisions. Gladwell explains how surroundings and situational factors can alter our judgments and behaviors. “Our decisions are deeply affected by the context in which they are made.”

The Importance of Context

Nonverbal communication plays a crucial role in our judgments. Gladwell discusses how subtle cues like body language and facial expressions impact our perceptions. “We are constantly interpreting nonverbal signals in our interactions.”

The Art of Reading People

Effective decision-making involves balancing intuition with analysis. Gladwell suggests that knowing when to trust our gut and when to deliberate is key. “Balancing instinct with careful thought leads to better decisions.”

The Delicate Balance of Deliberation& Instinct

Immediate decisions can be surprisingly effective. Gladwell highlights instances where snap judgments outperform prolonged deliberation. “Sometimes, quick decisions are the best decisions we can make.”

The Power of Immediate Decisions

We are constantly interpreting the world around us, even in the blink of an eye.

Discover the hidden power of thinking without thinking with Malcolm Gladwell’s “Blink.”

From the #1 bestselling author of The Bomber Mafia, the landmark book that has revolutionized the way we understand leadership and decision making. In his breakthrough bestseller The Tipping Point, Malcolm Gladwell redefined how we understand the world around us. Now, in Blink, he revolutionizes the way we understand the world within. Blink is a book about how we think without thinking, about choices that seem to be made in an instant--in the blink of an eye--that actually aren't as simple as they seem. Why are some people brilliant decision makers, while others are consistently inept? Why do some people follow their instincts and win, while others end up stumbling into error? How do our brains really work--in the office, in the classroom, in the kitchen, and in the bedroom? And why are the best decisions often those that are impossible to explain to others? In Blink we meet the psychologist who has learned to predict whether a marriage will last, based on a few minutes of observing a couple; the tennis coach who knows when a player will double-fault before the racket even makes contact with the ball; the antiquities experts who recognize a fake at a glance. Here, too, are great failures of "blink": the election of Warren Harding; "New Coke"; and the shooting of Amadou Diallo by police. Blink reveals that great decision makers aren't those who process the most information or spend the most time deliberating, but those who have perfected the art of "thin-slicing"--filtering the very few factors that matter from an overwhelming number of variables.

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Mindfulness

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Leadership & Management

Malcolm Gladwell is the author of five New York Times bestsellers—The Tipping Point, Blink, Outliers, What the Dog Saw, and David and Goliath. He is also the co-founder of Pushkin Industries, an audio content company that produces the podcasts Revisionist History, which reconsiders things both overlooked and misunderstood, and Broken Record, where he, Rick Rubin, and Bruce Headlam interview musicians across a wide range of genres. Gladwell has been included in the TIME 100 Most Influential People list and touted as one of Foreign Policy's Top Global Thinkers.

Malcolm Gladwell

Blink

No one finds happiness in a world where people attack each other.

<ol><li>Don't be kind to those who aren't kind to you. Injustice hapoens because we give them the power.</li><li>Don't worry about being miserable. Don't compare to others.</li><li>Be proud of who you are. Be proud of what you have gained and how you gained them. </li></ol>

Live With Respect

The person that you have to respect is no one else but yourself.

<ol><li>Strengthen your self-esteem.</li><li>Live as you are.</li><li>Don't delay your questions about life.</li><li>Question the obvious.</li><li>Don't live to meet the expectations of others.</li><li>Don't be anyone else but yourself.</li><li>Don't succumb to the prescribed answers.</li><li>Develop discernment.</li><li>Decide for yourself.</li><li>Have personal taste.</li><li>Face the true you.</li><li>Stay where you can shine.</li></ol>

In Order To Live Like Myself

What we need when looking back isn't regret, but assessment. what we need when looking forward isn't worry, but judgement.

The best that we can do is to do our best at this very moment.

The sole savior of our society is an individual who does not ignore it.

The million-copy Korean phenomenon on how to find the strength to be yourself. As seen being read by BTS's Jungkook on Bon Voyage, the hit reality TV show following K-pop sensation BTS! Don’t be kind to those who aren’t kind to you. Remember that no one lives a perfect life. Don’t be swayed by what others say. Don’t try too hard to get along with everyone. As soon as Kim Suhyun graduated into the adult world, she faced a harsh reality. Everywhere she looked people stepped on each other to get ahead, obsessed over money, and judged others based on the unrealistic standards they saw on social media. It seemed impossible not to compare herself to others and feel that she was ever good enough. With words of comfort and charming illustrations throughout, Kim Suhyun will inspire you on your own journey of self-love, self-acceptance and self-compassion. Blending self-help and memoir, I Decided to Live as Me will help you free yourself from the pressures of living up to other people’s expectations and focus on what truly matters: living not for anyone else, but for yourself.

Kim Suhyun

I Decided to Live as Me

The average office worker checks their email 74 times per day,The average person picks up their phone 352 times per day.The average American spends approximately 2.5 hours on social media per day. You think you have a lack of time when really you have - lack of focus. <a href="https://elevatedpath.beehiiv.com/subscribe">The Art of Habits</a> (It's free)

Ever feel like you don’t have enough time?

Do you use your phone or does it use you?Create a modern dumb phone with these steps:<ol><li>Remove unnecessary apps from home screen</li><li>Put your device in grayscale</li><li>Turn off non-emergency notifications</li><li>Use an app like Opal to add friction</li></ol>

Turn Your Smart Phone Into a Dumb Phone

Allocate specific time slots for your tasks throughout the day. By dedicating focused periods to each task, you can minimize distractions and stay on track.

Time Blocking

Using a visual timer in tandem with your time-blocked schedule is a powerful reminder to stay on task. It also leverages Parkinson's Law: work expands to fill the time allotted for its completion.

Visual Timer

The biggest waste of time is working hard on something that doesn't matter. Focus on the 20% of tasks that yield 80% of your results.Prioritize these activities to make the most of your time and effort.

The 80/20 Rule

Attention Residue: When your attention is shifted, there is a "residue" that remains from the prior task and impairs your cognitive performance on the new task.Avoid this by batching similar tasks together

Batch Processing

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Do you ever get caught up in a haze of thinking only about your future? Or past interactions clogging up your brain? If so, you are not alone. People all around the earth struggle with that consistently. The way to lift yourself out from that is to take in where you really are. Look around you and let yourself be enmeshed in the moment. Find ways to love where you are. Look around at the people, notice the birds singing, and take every opportunity to do something you adore.

Take life moment by moment

When you feel bored or lost in nothingness, create your own happiness. Paint a rock instead of scrolling. Go on a walk rather than mindlessly watching tv. Cook a new recipe instead of reaching for the chips. Life is a gift from god, and we can use it to the best potential. Stop waiting for the perfect moment and just create it yourself.

Make your own memories

The purpose of life, after all, is to live it, to taste experience to the utmost, to reach out eagerly and without fear for newer and richer experience.

See opportunity for fun everywhere you roam. Use that opportunity to do the things your heart desires, even if you look silly doing it. Never let fear of embarrassment or change stop you from having your full potential’s best interests.

Keep Childlike Wonder And Confidence

Make the best out of your time. Live like it’s the only chance you’ll get.

<ul><li>Continuous learning is the ongoing, voluntary pursuit of knowledge.</li><li>It keeps your mind sharp, enhances your skills, and fosters personal growth.</li><li>In a rapidly changing world, staying curious and open to new knowledge is essential.</li></ul>

Embracing Lifelong Learning

<ul><li>Adaptability : Helps you stay relevant and adapt to new challenges.</li><li>Confidence : Boosts self-esteem by expanding your knowledge and skills.</li><li>Opportunities : Opens doors to new career prospects and personal achievements.</li><li>Innovation : Fuels creativity and problem-solving abilities.</li></ul>

Benefits of Continuous Learning

<ul><li>Set Clear Learning Goals : Identify what you want to learn and why. Set specific, measurable, achievable, relevant, and time-bound (SMART) goals. Example: "Set a goal to learn basic coding within three months to enhance your tech skills."</li><li>Create a Learning Plan : Break down your goals into actionable steps. Schedule regular learning sessions and stick to them. Example: "Allocate 30 minutes daily for online courses and practice exercises."</li></ul>

Key Strategies for Continuous Learning

<ul><li>Leverage Multiple Resources : Use a variety of learning materials such as books, online courses, podcasts, and videos. Explore different perspectives and sources of information. Example: "Combine reading industry books, taking online classes, and listening to expert podcasts."</li><li>Join Learning Communities : Engage with others who share your learning interests. Participate in forums, study groups, or professional associations. Example: "Join a local book club or an online community related to your field of interest."</li></ul>

<ul><li>Seek Feedback and Reflect : Regularly ask for feedback on your progress from mentors or peers. Reflect on what you’ve learned and how you can apply it. Example: "After completing a project, seek feedback from a mentor and identify areas for improvement."</li><li>Embrace Challenges and Mistakes : View challenges as opportunities to grow. Learn from mistakes and use them to improve. Example: "When faced with a difficult task, see it as a learning opportunity and analyze what went wrong if you don’t succeed."</li></ul>

<ul><li>Stay Curious : Cultivate a mindset of curiosity and always ask questions.</li><li>Be Consistent : Make learning a daily habit.</li><li>Apply What You Learn : Implement new knowledge and skills in real-life situations.</li><li>Stay Updated : Keep up with trends and advancements in your field.</li></ul>

Tips for Effective Continuous Learning

The beautiful thing about learning is that nobody can take it away from you.

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Welcome to the final day of our Personal Development Course! Today, we emphasize the importance of continuous learning and provide strategies to keep growing throughout your life. Reflect on the knowledge you’ve gained over the past week and commit to a lifetime of learning and self-improvement.

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Personal Development Course : Day 7

Find  Self Improvement Tips - Curated from popular Books like Atomic Habits, 48 Rules of Power, Deep Work, Rich Dad Poor Dad and way more!

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Self Respect

Journaling For Personal Growth : Day 1

Beat Procrastination With Practical Tips

Blink

I Decided to Live as Me

5 Systems to Help You Get 8 Hours of Work Done In 4

Make the best out of your time. Live like it’s the only chance you’ll get.

Personal Development Course : Day 7

It's time to Read like a Pro.

It's time to
Read like a Pro.