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Dance of Anger

Dance of Anger

Harriet Lerner

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"...the pain of our anger preserves the very integrity of our self."

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Venting anger may serve to maintain, and even rigidify, the old rules and patterns in a relationship, thus ensuring that change does not occur.

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Rather, I speak here of “response-ability”—that is, the ability to observe ourselves and others in interaction and to respond to a familiar situation in a new and different way.

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Many of our problems with anger occur when we choose between having a relationship and having a self.

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Making a long-term relationship work is a difficult business because it requires the capacity to strike a balance between individualism (the “I”) and togetherness (the “we”).

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empty-shell marriage

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The Dance of Anger is a book any woman should read to change the patterns of their toxic relationship.

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