<ol><li>Smile</li><li>Exercise</li><li>Get plenty of sleep</li><li>Eat with mood in my mind</li><li>Be grateful</li><li>Give a compliment</li><li>Breathe deeply</li><li>Acknowledge the unhappy moment</li><li>Keep a journal</li><li>Face stress head-on</li><li>Declutter</li><li>See friends</li><li>Plan your week</li><li>Ditch your phone</li><li>Get into nature</li><li>Explore meditation</li><li>Consider therapy</li><li>Find a slef-care ritual</li><li>Give back</li><li>Take yourself out</li><li>Create a thought list</li><li>Take time to reflect</li><li>Reevaluate your goals</li><li>Take care of your body</li><li>Let go of grudges</li></ol>

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Happiness can feel impossible, but it's always within reach. We'll break down 25 science-backed habits to help you get you mood on track.

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Happiness looks different for everyone. For you, maybe it’s being at peace with who you are. Or having a secure network of friends who accept you unconditionally. Or the freedom to pursue your deepest dreams.

Regardless of your version of true happiness, living a happier, more satisfied life is within reach. A few tweaks to your regular habits can help you get there.

<a href="https://www.healthline.com/health/5-benefits-healthy-habits">Habits matter </a>. If you’ve ever tried breaking a bad habit, you know all too well how engrained they are.

Well, good habits are deeply engrained, too. Why not work on making positive habits part of your routine?

Here’s a look at some daily, monthly, and yearly habits to help kickstart your quest. Just remember that everyone’s version of happiness is a little different, and so is their path to achieving it.

If some of these habits create added stress or just don’t fit your lifestyle, ditch them. With a little time and practice, you’ll figure out what does and doesn’t work for you.

You tend to smile when you’re happy. But it’s actually a two-way street.

We smile because we’re happy, and smiling causes the brain to release dopamine, which makes us happier.

That doesn’t mean you have to go around with a fake smile plastered on your face all the time. But the next time you find yourself feeling low, crack a smile and see what happens. Or try starting each morning by smiling at yourself in the mirror.

Exercise isn’t just for your body. Regular exercise can help to reduce stress, feelings of anxiety, and symptoms of <a href="https://www.healthline.com/health/depression/exercise">depression </a>while boosting self-esteem and happiness.

Even a <a href="https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s10902-018-9976-0">small amount </a>of physical activity can make a difference. You don’t have to train for a triathlon or scale a cliff — unless that’s what makes you happy, of course.

The trick is not to overexert. If you suddenly throw yourself into a strenuous routine, you’ll probably just end up frustrated (and sore).

Consider these exercise starters:

<ul><li>Take a walk around the block every night after dinner. </li><li>Sign up for a beginner’s class in yoga or tai chi. </li> </ul>

Remind yourself of any fun activities you once enjoyed, but that have fallen by the wayside. Or activities you always wanted to try, such as golf, bowling, or dancing.

No matter how much modern society steers us toward less sleep, we know that adequate sleep is <a href="https://www.nhlbi.nih.gov/health-topics/sleep-deprivation-and-deficiency">vital </a>

to good health, brain function, and emotional well-being.

Most adults need about <a href="https://www.healthline.com/health/science-sleep-why-you-need-7-8-hours-night">7 or 8 hours of sleep </a>every night. If you find yourself fighting the urge to nap during the day or just generally feel like you’re in a fog, your body may be telling you it needs more rest.

Here are a few tips to help you build a better sleep routine:

<ul><li>Write down how many hours of sleep you get each night and how rested you feel. After a week, you should have a better idea how you’re doing. </li><li>Go to bed and wake up at the same time every day, including weekends. </li><li>Reserve the hour before bed as quiet time. Take a bath, read, or do something relaxing. Avoid heavy eating and drinking. </li><li>Keep your bedroom dark, cool, and quiet. </li><li>Invest in some good bedding. </li><li>If you have to take a nap, try to limit it to 20 minutes. </li> </ul>

If you consistently have problems sleeping, talk to your doctor. You may have a <a href="https://www.healthline.com/health/sleep-disorders-warning-signs">sleep disorder </a>requiring treatment.

You already know that food choices have an impact on your overall physical health. But some foods can also affect your state of mind.

<ul><li>Carbohydrates release <a href="https://www.healthline.com/health/mental-health/serotonin">serotonin </a>, a “feel good” hormone. Just keep simple carbs — foods high in sugar and starch — to a minimum, because that energy surge is short and you’ll crash. <a href="https://www.healthline.com/health/food-nutrition/simple-carbohydrates-complex-carbohydrates">Complex carbs </a>, such as vegetables, beans, and whole grains, are better. </li><li>Lean meat, poultry, legumes, and dairy are high in protein. These foods release dopamine and norepinephrine, which boost energy and concentration. </li><li>Highly processed or deep-fried foods tend to leave you feeling down. So will skipping meals. </li> </ul>

Start by making one better food choice each day.

For example, swap a big, sweet breakfast pastry for some Greek yogurt with fruit. You’ll still satisfy your sweet tooth, and the protein will help you avoid a mid-morning energy crash. Try adding in a new food swap each week.

Simply being grateful can give your mood a big boost, among other <a href="https://www.healthline.com/health/depression/giving-thanks">benefits </a>. For example, a <a href="https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/abs/10.1080/17439760.2018.1424924?journalCode=rpos20">recent two-part study </a>found that practicing gratitude can have a significant impact on feelings of hope and happiness.

Start each day by acknowledging one thing you’re grateful for. You can do this while you’re brushing your teeth or just waiting for that snoozed alarm to go off.

As you go about your day, try to keep an eye out for pleasant things in your life. They can be big things, such as knowing that someone loves you or getting a well-deserved promotion.

But they can also be little things, such as a co-worker who offered you a cup of coffee or the neighbor who waved to you. Maybe even just the warmth of the sun on your skin.

With a little practice, you may even become more aware of all the positive things around you.

<a href="https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/abs/10.1080/00224540903365554">Research </a>shows that performing acts of kindness can help you feel more satisfied.

Giving a sincere compliment is a quick, easy way to brighten someone’s day while giving your own happiness a boost.

Catch the person’s eye and say it with a smile so they know you mean it. You might be surprised by how good it makes you feel.

If you want to offer someone a compliment on their physical appearance, make sure to do it in a respectful way. <a href="https://www.healthline.com/health/making-body-comments-online-how-to-be-human">Here are some tips to get you started. </a>

You’re tense, your shoulders are tight, and you feel as though you just might “lose it.” We all know that feeling.

Instinct may tell you to take a long, deep breath to calm yourself down.

Turns out, that instinct is a good one. According to <a href="https://www.health.harvard.edu/mind-and-mood/relaxation-techniques-breath-control-helps-quell-errant-stress-response">Harvard Health </a>, deep breathing exercises can help reduce stress.

The next time you feel stressed or at your wit’s end, work through these steps:

<ol><li>Close your eyes. Try to envision a happy memory or beautiful place. </li><li>Take a slow, deep breath in through your nose. </li><li>Slowly breathe out through your mouth or nose. </li><li>Repeat this process several times, until you start to feel yourself calm down. </li> </ol>

If you’re having a hard time taking slow, deliberate breaths, try counting to 5 in your head with each inhale and exhale.

A positive attitude is generally a good thing, but bad things happen to everyone. It’s just part of life.

If you get some bad news, make a mistake, or just feel like you’re in a funk, don’t try to pretend you’re happy.

Acknowledge the feeling of unhappiness, letting yourself experience it for a moment. Then, shift your focus toward what made you feel this way and what it might take to recover.

Would a deep breathing exercise help? A long walk outside? Talking it over with someone?

Let the moment pass and take care of yourself. Remember, no one’s happy all the time.

A journal is a good way to organize your thoughts, analyze your feelings, and make plans. And you don’t have to be a literary genius or write volumes to benefit.

It can be as simple as jotting down a few thoughts before you go to bed. If putting certain things in writing makes you nervous, you can always shred it when you’ve finished. It’s the process that counts.

Not sure what to do with all the feelings that end up on the page? <a href="https://www.healthline.com/health/mental-health/developing-self-awareness">Our guide to organizing your feelings can help. </a>

Life is full of stressors, and it’s impossible to avoid all of them.

There’s no need to. <a href="https://news.stanford.edu/2015/05/07/stress-embrace-mcgonigal-050715/">Stanford psychologist Kelly McGonigal </a>says that stress isn’t always harmful, and we can even change our attitudes about stress. <a href="https://www.healthline.com/health/eustress">Learn more about the upside of stress. </a>

For those stressors you can’t avoid, remind yourself that everyone has stress — there’s no reason to think it’s all on you. And chances are, you’re stronger than you think you are.

Instead of letting yourself get overwhelmed, try to tackle the stressor head-on. This might mean initiating an uncomfortable conversation or putting in some extra work, but the sooner you tackle it, the sooner the pit in your stomach will start to shrink.

Decluttering sounds like a big project, but setting aside just 20 minutes a week can have a big impact.

What can you do in 20 minutes? Lots.

Set a timer on your phone and take 15 minutes to tidy up a specific area of one room — say, your closet or that out-of-control junk drawer. Put everything in its place and toss or give away any extra clutter that’s not serving you anymore.

Keep a designated box for giveaways to make things a little easier (and avoid creating more clutter).

Use the remaining 5 minutes to do a quick walk through your living space, putting away whatever stray items end up in your path.

You can do this trick once a week, once a day, or anytime you feel like your space is getting out of control.

Humans are social beings, and having close friends can make us happier.

Who do you miss? Reach out to them. Make a date to get together or simply have a long phone chat.

In adulthood, it can feel next to impossible to make new friends. But it’s not about how many friends you have. It’s about having meaningful relationships — even if it’s just with one or two people.

Try getting involved in a local volunteer group or taking a class. Both can help to connect you with like-minded people in your area. And chances are, they’re looking for friends, too.

Companionship doesn’t have to be limited to other humans. Pets can offer similar benefits, according to <a href="https://www.apa.org/pubs/journals/releases/psp-101-6-1239.pdf">multiple studies </a>.

Love animals but can’t have a pet? Consider volunteering at a local animal shelter to make some new friends — both human and animal.

Feel like you’re flailing about? Try sitting down at the end of every week and making a basic list for the following week.

Even if you don’t stick to the plan, blocking out time where you can do laundry, go grocery shopping, or tackle projects at work can help to quiet your mind.

You can get a fancy planner, but even a sticky note on your computer or piece of scrap paper in your pocket can do the job.

Turn off all the electronics and put those ear buds away for at least one hour once a week. They’ll still be there for you later. If you still want them, that is.

If you haven’t unplugged in a while, you might be surprised at the difference it makes. Let your mind wander free for a change. Read. Meditate. Take a walk and pay attention to your surroundings. Be sociable. Or be alone. Just be.

Sound too daunting? Try doing a shorter amount of time several times a week.

Spending 30 minutes or more a week in green spaces can help lower blood pressure and depression, according to a <a href="https://www.nature.com/articles/srep28551">2016 study </a>

Your green space could be anything from your neighborhood park, your own backyard, or a rooftop garden — anywhere you can appreciate some nature and fresh air.

Better yet, add some outdoor exercise into the mix for extra benefit.

There are many <a href="https://www.healthline.com/health/mental-health/types-of-meditation">methods of meditation </a>to explore. They can involve movement, focus, spirituality, or a combination of all three.

Meditation doesn’t have to be complicated. It can be as simple as sitting quietly with your own thoughts for 5 minutes. Even the deep breathing exercises mentioned earlier can serve as a form of meditation.

We’re certainly happier when we learn how to cope with obstacles. When you’re faced with a problem, think about what got you through something similar in the past. Would it work here? What else can you try?

If you feel like you’re hitting a brick wall, consider speaking with a therapist on a weekly basis. You don’t need to have a diagnosed mental health condition or overwhelming crisis to seek therapy.

Therapists are trained to help people improve coping skills. Plus, there’s no obligation to continue once you start.

Even just a few sessions can help you add some new goodies to your emotional toolbox.

How to Be Happy: 25 Habits to Help You Live a Happier Life

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