7 Tips for Co-Parenting Your Children

It's important to talk to your children about different parenting styles and household rules, respecting that each is okay as long as the child is safe.

• Recognize if fear of letting children stay with the other parent overnight is due to legitimate safety concerns or the need for control.
• Ask yourself if being with the other parent is harmful or just different routines. 
• Avoid fighting and broken relationships by letting them go if safe.

Be a positive role model for your children. Show them how to handle change and unexpected events by staying calm and composed, even when things don't go according to plan. 

Encourage connection with their other parent by having photos, phone calls, and responding positively to their stories. Your children are watching and taking cues from you, so lead by example and focus on connecting with them when they are with you.

Routines bring stability and improved resiliency to families during uncertain times. 

Determine your family's specific needs and prioritize 2-3 morning, afternoon, or evening routines to anchor the day and keep it on track.

Having a plan for parenting responsibilities and care arrangements is essential for a successful co-parenting relationship. Putting the needs of the children first and using common sense decision making can help navigate the new relationship between parents and minimize miscommunication. 

The plan should include a schedule for:

• Visitation
• Education
• Medical needs
• Financial support
• Special occasions
• And guidelines for decision making and conflict resolution.

• Be flexible in co-parenting arrangements
• Use common sense to solve challenges
• Give notice and communication options to other parent
• Be open to conversations and adjustments
• Practice mutual understanding, as it may be your turn to request adjustments.

When your co-parent refuses to be flexible, the best course of action is to Seek a Court Order to ensure the health and safety of your children. If the other parent is uncooperative, this may be the only way to resolve any issues.

Regardless of the situation, it is important to do your best as a parent and prioritize the well-being of your children.

1. Co-parenting can be done in different ways, so think creatively to find solutions that benefit everyone.
2. Finding the right balance in co-parenting takes time, patience and good communication.
3. Both parents should work together and put aside their differences to create a positive environment for their children's growth and development.