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CONTROL YOUR EMOTIONS WITH 7 STOIC LESSONS (STOIC SECRETS)

CONTROL YOUR EMOTIONS WITH 7 STOIC LESSONS (STOIC SECRETS)

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Understand what's in your control

Understand what's in your control

Focus on what you can control and accept what you can't.

For example:

  • Instead of worrying about the weather, focus on bringing an umbrella if it's predicted to rain.
  • Rather than stressing about traffic, choose a route that is less likely to be congested.
  • Instead of getting upset about a missed flight, focus on finding alternative transportation or accommodations

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Reflect before reacting

Reflect before reacting

Take a moment to pause and reflect before responding to any situation.

For example:

  • Take a deep breath before responding to an email that upsets you.
  • Count to ten before saying something you might regret in an argument.
  • Step away from a stressful situation for a few minutes to collect your thoughts.

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Practice dispassion

Practice dispassion

Observe your emotions without being overwhelmed by them

For example:

  • Observe your feelings of anger without letting them control your actions.
  • Acknowledge your sadness without getting overwhelmed by it.
  • Notice your fear without letting it paralyze you.



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Ask yourself "Will this matter in five years?"

Ask yourself "Will this matter in five years?"

Gain perspective on your problems by considering their long-term significance

For example:

  • When you're upset about a minor disagreement with a friend, ask yourself if it will still be important in five years.
  • If you're stressed about a presentation at work, consider whether the outcome will still matter in five years.
  • When you're worried about a negative comment online, ask yourself if it will still bother you in five years.

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Keep a Stoic journal

Keep a Stoic journal

Reflect on your thoughts, emotions, and experiences through journaling

For example:

  • Write about your thoughts and feelings each day.
  • Reflect on your experiences and what you can learn from them.
  • Track your progress in practicing Stoicism.

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See obstacles as opportunities

See obstacles as opportunities

View challenges as chances for growth and learning

For example:

  • View a job loss as a chance to find a career you're more passionate about.
  • Consider a health challenge as an opportunity to improve your overall well-being.
  • Look at a relationship breakup as a chance to learn and grow.

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Practice gratitude

Practice gratitude

Focus on the positive aspects of life and appreciate what you have

For example:

  • Focus on the positive aspects of your life, such as your health, family, and friends.
  • Appreciate the small things, like a beautiful day or a delicious meal.
  • Keep a gratitude journal to remind yourself of all the good things in your life.

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Epictetus

It is impossible for a man to learn what he thinks he already knows.

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Stoicism has so many lessons and it can be overwhelming. If you want to start somewhere, here are 7 stoic lessons for you

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