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WILL ROGERS

You never get a second chance to make a first impression.

WILL ROGERS

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1. First Impressions are Important

1. First Impressions are Important

The book explains how people judge us quickly when they first meet us, so it's important to make a good impression.

Tips include:

The Flooding Smile: Smile warmly and slowly to make others feel welcome.

Sticky Eyes: Keep eye contact to show you’re listening and care about the conversation.

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PETER DRUCKER

The most important thing in communication is hearing what isn’t said.

PETER DRUCKER

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2. Body Language is Key

2. Body Language is Key

How you move and stand says a lot about you. Confident body language can make you seem more friendly and trustworthy.

Tips include:

Big Baby Pivot: Turn your body completely toward the person you're talking to, showing they have your full attention.

Hansel and Gretel Strategy: Drop small "breadcrumbs" like nodding or smiling to subtly make people like you more.

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DEBORAH TANNEN

Small talk is the biggest talk we do.

DEBORAH TANNEN

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3. Mastering Small Talk

3. Mastering Small Talk

Small talk helps you connect with others. The trick is to be genuinely interested in what people are saying.

Tips include:

Never the Naked Thank You: When thanking someone, add a nice comment to make the moment more meaningful.

Parroting: Repeat the last few words the other person says to show you’re paying attention and want them to keep talking.

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STEPHEN R. COVEY

Most people do not listen with the intent to understand; they listen with the intent to reply.

STEPHEN R. COVEY

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4. Building Strong Connections

4. Building Strong Connections

Beyond small talk, you need to learn how to create deeper relationships. Listening carefully and showing empathy can help build trust.

Tips include:

Echoing: Copy the other person’s tone or gestures to create a bond.

Exclusive Smile: Smile when the other person is talking to show you’re engaged.

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WILLIAM JAMES

The deepest principle in human nature is the craving to be appreciated.

WILLIAM JAMES

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5. How to Win People Over

5. How to Win People Over

Being likable can help you persuade others and get them on your side. The key is to be respectful and show genuine interest.

Tips include:

Never Ask, “What Do You Do?”: Start with more interesting questions, like asking about their passions or hobbies.

The Big Score: Bring up things that the person cares about to make them feel valued.

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It's not what you say, it's how you say it

ANONYMOUS

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6. Dealing with Tough Situations

6. Dealing with Tough Situations

The book also offers advice on how to handle awkward or difficult moments in conversations. Staying calm and using humor can help.

Tips include:

Broken Record: Repeat your point calmly to keep control of the conversation.

Big Bang Technique: Use a bold but light-hearted comment to ease tension.

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