Esther Perel's Blog - 5 Myths We Tell Ourselves When We’re Dating - Deepstash
"There’s Only One Person Out There For Me"

Dating to find “The One” is extremely limiting—and often leads to major disappointment. There is never going to be one perfect person whose love is so powerful that it checks every...

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Esther Perel's Blog - 5 Myths We Tell Ourselves When We’re Dating

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People we love are not necessarily the same people we can make a life with. Life stories are not the same as love stories. It’s a different set of ingredients, different aspiration...

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Love, desire, connection—all of the things that make us want to stay and go deeper with someone—are not induced by another person. They are co-created.

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We have a tendency to respond to disconnection by gripping tighter, even when we see that our behavior isn’t yielding our desired outcome. But there is a difference between trying harder and self-d...

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This is the voice of heartbreak. It conveniently highlights the good parts and disregards the shortcomings. Being realistic with ourselves about the shortcomings, however, can help...

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