5. "How can I encourage you?" - Deepstash
5. "How can I encourage you?"

5. "How can I encourage you?"

This question is especially important to ask when you know your spouse is going through a difficult or frustrating time.

  • Perhaps it's a challenge your spouse is facing alone, or it could be a life obstacle you're facing together.
  • Find out what your spouse needs to feel nurtured and supported at this time, and then do that for them as much as you can.


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