What About Adolescents And Solitude?

During the 10-day study that mimicked real-life social dynamics, participants were exposed to 4 different settings: 1) choosing to be alone, 2) choosing to be with others, 3) forced (no choice) time with others, and 4) forced (no choice) alone time. 

Notably, the re...

Recently published research (Uziel & Schmidt-Barad, 2022) highlights how being able to choose when we spend time with others or spend time alone increases happiness. On the flip side, being forced to socialize or not being able to choose "self-determined solitude" makes p...

"Solitude serves the same positive functions in introverts and extroverts. Introverts just need more of it," Thomas said. "Our culture is pretty biased toward exyroversion. When we see any sign of shyness or introversion in children, we worry they won't be popular. But we overloo...

Virginia Thomas, currently an assistant professor of psychology, conducted this research when she was a graduate student. "We got clear results that are pretty reliable indicators of adaptive versus maladaptive solitude," she said in a statement. "These results increase our aware...

1. I feel anxious when I'm with others.
2. I don't feel liked when I'm with others.
3. I can't be myself around others.
4. I regret things I say or do when I'm with others.
5. I feel uncomfortable when I'm with others.
6. I feel like I don't belong when I'm with others....

The original MSS, published in 2006 by Cara Nicol, was a 56-item questionnaire designed to measure varying degrees of "self-determined solitude" (SDS) and "not self-determined solitude" (NSDS) on a four-point scale.The prompt question for MSS survey takers: "When I spend time alone, I do ...

When it comes to motivations for seeking solitude, the key factors in the equation are choice and an individual's positive or negative motivation for wanting to be alone. Those who choose to be "let alone" probably know what’s best for their psychologic...

1. It sparks my creativity.
2. I enjoy the quiet.
3. Being alone helps me get in touch with my spirituality.
4. It helps me stay in touch with my feelings.
5. I value the privacy.
6. I can engage in activities that really interest me.
7. It helps me gain insight ...

The researchers found that people who choose to spend time alone for mostly positive, "self-determined" reasons are at a much lower risk of viewing solitude as “social isolation” or suffering the negative consequences associated with feelings of loneliness than th...

1. It sparks my creativity.
2. I enjoy the quiet.
3. Being alone helps me get in touch with my spirituality.
4. It helps me stay in touch with my feelings.
5. I value the privacy.
6. I can engage in activities that really interest me.
7. It helps me gain insight ...

Depending on someone’s reasons for wanting to be alone, the Motivation for Solitude Scale (MSS) shows that alone time can have countless potential upsides. Seeking solitude is not necessarily a red flag that something is wrong. According to the researchers, choosing solitude can help peop...

Although this study didn't look at the impact of mandated Covid-19 lockdowns, one could speculate that the loss of choice made it harder for even the most gregarious and extraverted among us to enjoy being surrounded by housemates or family members 24/7.

Stay-at-ho...