It can be awkward to ask for what you want. One way to make the situation less of a tug-of-war and more of a collaboration: try using "caretaking" statements, like "I appreciate you being patient with me as we figure this thing out."
You're not losing focus on the problem at hand, but you're also signalling the work they're doing to help you. This kind of language can preemptively keep tension low so you and the representative can focus on problem-solving together.
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