Why we need to be right
The need to be right is part of our culture. Often, we don't just want to be right, we want to be "more right" than someone else. The need to be "more right" is mostly based on fear, uncertainty, our desire to be socially connected, and misplaced intellectualism.
- Anxiety of abandonment. They unconsciously worry that people close to them will leave.
- Fear of failure. Researchers found a link between parent's high expectations and children's fear of failure.
- Avoiding disappointment.
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