Step 3: Replace the victim thinking with something more helpful.
What is one small step we can take to move forward or out of this situation today?
Gratitude.
Does someone on the planet have it worse than me right now?
Learn and take action.
What is one small step I can take to move forward or out of this situation today?
Ask yourself: How can I give value to one person in my life right now?
By doing so you’ll feel more powerful again. You’ll create more happiness for the other person and you’ll feel better about your day too.
Forgive
You don’t have to forgive just because it is something you “should do”.
Release yourself from the agony and focus your limited time and energy on things that will make you happier.
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