We all know people who seem to attract fun. They’re the friends whose presence at a dinner party guarantees that everyone is going to have a good time. They exude warmth, playfulness and self-confidence, and people always appear happy to have them around.

People Who Seem To Attract Fun Are Everywhere

• They’re spontaneous. • They’re at ease with themselves and comfortable in their own skin. • They’re not afraid to be silly. • They’re not afraid to try new things and to be a beginner. • They’re not afraid to be vulnerable. • They’re appreciative of the small things. • They find joy in being alive. • You never feel judged by them. • They make everyone feel included. • They’re considerate of others’ feelings. • They get excited with you. • They create wonderful, shared memories.

Traits People That Attract Fun Have

What might not have occurred to you is that it’s possible for you to become one of those people yourself, even if you think of yourself as shy or introverted.Very few of the characteristics mentioned were genetically determined and you don’t need to be extroverted to be considered fun. In fact, many of the qualities people mentioned — such as being considerate of other people’s feelings — are things that introverts do naturally.

Introverts Can Also Be One

What’s more, many of the traits that make people seem fun are the result of choices and habits practiced over days and years. This means that, counterintuitive though it may seem, being a “fun” person is a skill we can develop. The primary thing that separates people who attract fun from their peers is their attitude. They approach life in general with what I call a “fun mindset”

Being A Fun Person Is A Habit

Having a fun mindset refers to the habit of intentionally approaching and reacting to your life in a way that is attractive to fun — or, more specifically, true fun, which I define as the confluence of playfulness, connection and flow.The secret to developing a fun mindset is to deliberately seek out as many opportunities as you can in order to create or appreciate playfulness, connection and flow.

Fun Mindset

Here are some specific suggestions for how to do so.<ol><li>Be easy-to-laugh</li><li>Say “yes, and”</li><li>Sprinkle playfulness, connection and flow into your days</li><li> </li></ol>

4 Ways To Develop A Fun Mindset

Being “easy-to-laugh” is one of the most powerful ways to nurture a fun mindset.We all enjoy spending time with people who make us laugh and who laugh a lot themselves. The easier you are to laugh (and the more things you can find to laugh about) the more attractive you’ll be, both to other people and to fun. And, to point out the obvious, you’ll also spend more time laughing, which in itself will make you feel good.

Be Easy-to-Laugh

“Yes, and” is a technique (and philosophy) derived from improv comedy in which you respond to new ideas and suggestions by agreeing with them (the “yes”) and building on them (the “and”).You are supposed to agree and then add something of your own. If I start a scene with ‘I can’t believe it’s so hot in here,’ and you just say, ‘Yeah … ’ we’re kind of at a standstill. But if I say, ‘I can’t believe it’s so hot in here,’ and you say, ‘What did you expect? We’re in hell.

Say "Yes, And

It's about deliberately choosing not to shoot down ideas, but instead to affirm and build on them — as a way to strengthen your fun mindset by opening yourself to spontaneity, making other people feel included, and becoming more adaptive (and, for that matter, less of a wet blanket).

Do Not Shoot Down Ideas But Build On Them

Another way to develop a fun mindset is to regularly — and explicitly — ask yourself, “How could I add a bit of playfulness, connection or flow to whatever I’m doing or experiencing right now?”You can do this whether you’re with other people or alone, and your ideas don’t have to be earth-shattering to be effective. Approaching life with a fun mindset can affect your moment-to-moment experience and improve your mood. Figuring out ways to add even teensy bits of playfulness, connection and flow to your everyday activities can also help objectively non-fun activities feel more tolerable.

Sprinkle Playfulness, Connection And Flow Into Your Days

In every job that must be done, there is an element of fun. You find the fun and, snap! The job’s a game.

One of the play signals dogs use is the bow they perform when they try to get another dog to play with them — they lunge onto their front elbows, stick their bottoms in the air, and wag their tails. An example of a play signal in humans would be brief eye contact combined with a smile or a comment that invites conversation. Even a playfully sarcastic line can work, such as “Nice weather we’re having” when you’re in the midst of a snowstorm.

Examples Of Play Signals With Dogs And Humans

This is one of the many ways in which our interactions with our devices are getting in the way of fun: Instead of sending play signals, we’re all staring down at our screens. With no signals, there are no invitations to play, and no play happens. Making a point to look up from your phone and send play signals is a wonderful way to invite more playful interactions — and ultimately, more fun — into your life.

Devices Interaction Are Killing The Play Signals

And if you’re still feeling insecure or apprehensive about putting yourself out there, remember that anything you do to attract fun is a gift to the people you’re with. As bestselling author Michael Lewis points out, “People don’t want to have a boring life, or even a boring conversation. They’re just risk averse. If you create an environment where there’s no reason to be afraid, all of a sudden, things loosen up.” In other words, everyone wants to have fun; they just don’t know how.

Anything You Do To Attract Fun Is A Gift For People You're With

The more you cultivate your own fun mindset, the more fun you’ll attract — and the better equipped you’ll be to invite others to join you.

Understand yourself and those around you.

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We all know people who seem to attract fun — here’s how you can do it too

"Knowing your own darkness is the best method for dealing with the darknesses of others."

Definition: Having or showing a wish to do evil to others.15.000.000 Adults struggle with PTSD each year, meaning that people encounter something malevolent and it breaks them.Experiencing suffer is horrible, but having any other human acting malevolent on purpose against you is another level of horrible. Not only due to the suffer experienced, also because that means if another human can do that you've got part of that same malevolent essence within you as a human being.

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If you've been naive and victimized the ay out of that is to no longer be naive and neither be victimized.F.e. Harry Potter can withstand Voldemort because he's got a piece of him.You should learn The Philosophy of Malevolence and Learn to Become Dangerous.

Stop being naive and victimized

"Develop your inner psycopath, so you know when you see one."

Despite being hard on realizing you should become a monster volunterily. Otherwise you'll become a monster by possession.<ul><li>From suffering you'll become bitter.</li><li>From bitter you'll become resentful.</li><li>From resentful you'll become vengeful.</li><li>From vengeful you'll come to an end having malevolent thoughts and instincts.</li></ul>

Become a Monster

When looking for a victim predators always look for victims who won't fight back.This can be seen in pedophiles choices f.e.The main victims tend to be those who don't know what they are, thus being easier to manipulate, naive and fragile.

Predators and Victims

Discover what Jordan Peterson thinks about developing our Inner Psychopath.

When looking at PTSD, Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder, we find out many things about humans. A huge reason why PTSD is so terrible and life altering is because people experience evil and malevolence. It's hard to wrap one's head around that a human can do terrible things to another human being. In this video Jordan Peterson explains that we must develop our dark side willingly, or else it can take control of us unwillingly. This is a problem many of us have, but are too scared to face. Develop Your Inner Psychopath Before It's TOO LATE! - Jordan Peterson LIKE AND SUBSCRIBE FOR MORE! Buy Jordan Peterson's Books! 12 Rules for Life: https://amzn.to/3oQm42x Beyond Order: https://amzn.to/3Bn4xDW Maps of Meaning: https://amzn.to/3gLfw0u Speaker: Jordan Peterson Follow Jordan Peterson: https://www.youtube.com/c/JordanPeter... https://www.youtube.com/c/JordanBPete... Art on thumbnail by: BeaGifted Videos: Music/Videos/Animations are licensed through Envato Elements Some Via Pexels.com and Pixabay.com ►FAIR-USE COPYRIGHT DISCLAIMER * Copyright Disclaimer Under Section 107 of the Copyright Act 1976, allowance is made for "fair use" for purposes such as criticism, commenting, news reporting, teaching, scholarship, and research. Fair use is a use permitted by copyright statute that might otherwise be infringing. Non-profit, educational or personal use tips the balance in favor of fair use. - This video has no negative impact on the original works (It would actually be positive for them) - This video is also for teaching purposes. - It is transformative in nature. - I only used bits and pieces of videos to get the point across where necessary. I do not own the rights to these audio clips. They have been use, in accordance with fair use, been repurposed with the intent of educating and inspiring others. For any questions contact: themoneymotiveyt@gmail.com

When looking at PTSD, Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder, we find out many things about humans. A huge reason why PTSD is so terrible and life altering is because people experience evil and malevolence. It's hard to wrap one's head around that a human can do terrible things to another human being. In this video Jordan Peterson explains that we must develop our dark side willingly, or else it can take control of us unwillingly. This is a problem many of us have, but are too scared to face.

Develop Your Inner Psychopath Before It's TOO LATE! - Jordan Peterson

LIKE AND SUBSCRIBE FOR MORE!

Buy Jordan Peterson's Books!
12 Rules for Life: https://amzn.to/3oQm42x
Beyond Order: https://amzn.to/3Bn4xDW
Maps of Meaning: https://amzn.to/3gLfw0u

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- This video has no negative impact on the original works (It would actually be positive for them)
- This video is also for teaching purposes.
- It is transformative in nature.
- I only used bits and pieces of videos to get the point across where necessary.

I do not own the rights to these audio clips. They have been use, in accordance with fair use, been repurposed with the intent of educating and inspiring others.

For any questions contact: themoneymotiveyt@gmail.com

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Develop Your Inner Psychopath Before It's TOO LATE! - Jordan Peterson

Nearly everything has a potential risk or shadow side. Even the hazards of predominantly beneficial things like yoga or having a positive attitude (so-called toxic positivity) have made headlines. Knowing the potential dangers can help us view things more wholly - containing both shadow and light. Like Disney's latest film Encanto so beautifully illustrates, any gift can help but then at some point harm us.

Does Resilience Have A Dark Side?

1. Resilience can be used dismissively2. Resilience can carry the expectation of ever bouncing back3. Resilience can convey self-judgment4. Resilience can be used to push people harder and harder

Unhealthy Forms And Applications Of Resilience

A parent who may have difficulty tolerating the discomfort of a child’s distress may use resilience as a broad brush to gloss over the hurts that children endure in an adult world. “Oh, but kids are so resilient” is dismissive at best and could lead to inaction when protection is called for.Telling someone that they are resilient can highlight a personal strength but could also be misunderstood as “You should be able to handle this. Don’t show us how much you are suffering.”

1. Resilience Can Be Used Dismissively

Resilience is, by definition, bouncing back or returning to a former state. When this is not possible or even probable, we may find ourselves stuck trying to go back in time. For example, if we have suffered a major health setback and are now pushing ourselves to return to how we used to be, we may not move forward fully in the new reality of our situation. Rehabilitation to a “new normal” can be frustrating to people who still want the old normal.

2. Resilience Can Carry The Expectation Of Ever Bouncing Back

Our expectations of how things should be can blind us to what all of our options are. A more realistic and more hopeful approach may acknowledge how we exist in perpetual change over a lifespan. Acceptance of reality can help us continuously adapt our minds and bodies even if they are not as we ideally envisioned.

How It Should Be And What It Is

A myth of resilience is that if we are not able to adjust and adapt quickly, there is something wrong with us. The expectation that we should be stronger, more resilient, or more anything may not be the supportive self-talk we need to be resilient. A paradox, but one that should not be dismissed.Perfectionism can sneak in and set our expectations to be ever-resilient, forgetting we are human and may need time to adjust to life’s inevitable changes. If resilience simply becomes another way for us to point out how we have missed the mark, it is no longer helpful.

3. Resilience Can Convey Self-judgment

Teaching health and resilience in the workplace can come with the expectation that if proper support is provided, employees will produce more and improve the bottom line. While this is true, especially for companies who want to keep employees long-term, it can distract from the more important bottom line of supporting people just because they are people with product and productivity coming in second.Many employees are left feeling frustrated and burnt out after their improved performance led only to ever-increasing productivity expectations.

4. Resilience Can Be Used To Push Employees Harder

A healthy relationship with resilience considers that we are by our nature ever-adapting to change, and in this way, resilient. While resilience is something that can be practiced, it’s best not pushed.In The Lakota Way, Joseph Marshall III writes about the 12 core qualities of the Sicangu Lakota Sioux for living well. The first two of these qualities, perseverance and humility, capture building healthy resilience.To persevere is to persist and strive despite difficulties. To be humble is to be modest, unpretentious and respectful. Let’s all be healthy resilient: let’s all humbly persist.

Healthy Resilience: To Humbly Persist

You cannot forget [the words people called you] anymore than you cannot feel the wind when it blows. But if you learn to let the wind blow through you, you will take away its power to blow you down. If you let the words pass through you, without letting them catch on your anger or pride, you will not feel them.

Words can hurt, but only if you let them. They called you bad names. Were you changed into the things they called you? No.

“Let the wind blow through you.” What resilience is and what it is not.

Four potential pitfalls of building resilience.

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The roots of philosophy, or the Greek Tradition, can be traced back to one of the most profound questions posed by mankind: what is the quintessential characteristic of all things in this world? What is the common trait that we can identify in any object, creature, element or force? That has been a persistent question throughout our history, all the way back from the naturalistic explanations proposed by Thales of Miletus, and is still the driving force of scientific inquiry today.

What Is The Quintessential Characteristic Of Everything?

Many different answers have been proposed throughout history, and two of these answers were very prominent during the pre-Socratic period in Ancient Greece: the flux of Heraclitus and the stasis of Parmenides.The confrontation of these two great minds and their theories, and the conclusion of this confrontation was immeasurably important to philosophy as a whole.

Flux Vs Stasis

In order to fully understand the discussion between Heraclitus and Parmenides, it is important for us to understand the pre-Socratic period as a whole.The pre-Socratic period, or early Greek philosophy, encompasses all the philosophers between Thales of Miletus (c. 624/623 – c. 548/545 BC) and Socrates (c. 470 – 399 BC). It was a period marked by an intense interest in cosmology, that being the study of the origin and substance of the universe.

Heraclitus and Parmenides: Pre-Socratic Philosophers

Many philosophers from the pre-Socratic period made their own cosmological systems and theories, and their work was foundational for Western philosophy, paving the way for the development of what we now call the scientific method, therefore leading to the creation of science as we know it today.Some of the most influential minds of the pre-Socratic period were the aforementioned Thales and his fellow Milesians Anaximander and Anaximenes; the Ionians Heraclitus, Xenophanes and Pythagoras; the Eleatic of Parmenides, Melissus and Zeno, among many others.

Pre-Socratics And The Creation Of The Scientific Method

Heraclitus, born in the year of c.535 BC, was a native of a city called Ephesus, which was located inside the territory of the Persian Empire, and not much is known about his life. Some of the stories and registered recollections about him are now proven to be fabricated; however, it is believed that he was a man who gave up on his privileged life in order to become a misanthrope hermit and self-taught philosopher. He was a scholar in the matters of materialism, cosmology, empiricism, rationalism, metaphysics, mysticism and logic.

Heraclitus and the Doctrine of Flux

Heraclitus wrote only one work, a scroll of papyrus that has been lost, although many fragments of said work have been quoted by a plethora of other authors, proving his undeniable influence not only on contemporary thinkers (notably Plato and Aristotle), but also to the philosophic tradition as a whole, being extensively mentioned by authors such as Nietzsche and Montaigne.

Heraclitus: Fragments

Τὰ πάντα ῥεῖ  (ta panta rhei, everything flows) is an ancient Greek phrase that summarizes “the philosophy of flux” proposed by Heraclitus. Otherwise called “the theory of impermanence” and illustrated by the element of fire, the philosophy of flux is a system that seeks to explain how the nature of all things is precisely change. In other words, the common trait which we can universally identify in all things is the fact that they are subject to constant transformation, as exemplified by the process of aging in living beings, or the ever flowing nature of a river.

The Nature Of All Things Is Impermanence

It is not possible to step into the same river twice. (No man ever steps in the same river twice, for it's not the same river and he’s not the same man.)

Parmenides was a pre-Socratic philosopher from the city of Elea in Magna Graecia. It is believed that he lived during the late sixth or early fifth century BC, and he is considered the father of metaphysics, having founded the very prominent Eleatic school of philosophy. He originated from a wealthy family, being a well known and influential person in Elea.

Parmenides and the Philosophy of Stasis

Such as Heraclitus, Parmenides only wrote one known work, often referred as On Nature, and only some fragments of this work have survived the test of time as well. The writings of Parmenides are credited for containing the first sustained argument of philosophy and one of the first digressions into the concept of being. The influence of Parmenides is undeniable, his views are still relevant to this day, and the rivalry between him and Heraclitus is still brought up in many philosophical discussions and studies.

Parmenides: On Nature

The philosophy of Parmenides is based around the concept of stasis, which means that the universe is in constant balance, that things either exist or do not exist, and they cannot change. Everything exists as part of an unchanging nature, and what we may observe as transformations are merely illusory appearances. The nature of the universe is, therefore, permanence.

The Nature Of All Things Is Permanence

Whatever is is, and what is not cannot be.

The direct confrontation between the two opposite lines of thought happened in a dialogue recorded by Plato called Sophist.This dialogue’s objective is to define through dialectic the difference between sophists and philosophers, being and not being, and to determine the nature of all things through the juxtaposition of the ideas of Heraclitus and Parmenides. Sophists were pre-Socratic teachers who were criticized by philosophers because they earned money for their teachings, while philosophers believed that knowledge should be spread for free.

Heraclitus And Parmenides’ Face-Off In Plato’s Sophist

After presenting both the philosophy of flux and the philosophy of stasis, Plato then claims that they are, in fact, not mutually exclusive at all. If according to Parmenides everything has an innate and immutable essence, and according to Heraclitus all things are subject to constant change, we may conclude that the immutable essence of all things is change itself.

Illusory Appearance And True Form, Imperfection And Perfection

This conclusion became the origin of Plato’s philosophy of Forms or the Theory of Ideas, which explores the concept that the world exists in two separate spheres: The Physical Realm and the Realm of Forms. The Physical Realm is how we perceive things, constantly changeable, imperfect. On the other hand, the Realm of Forms is perfect, its nature is immutable and unchangeable.

The Physical Realm And The Realm Of Forms

Whenever we see a river, taking the example from Heraclitus, it is never the same river, because the water keeps ever flowing, changing, moving. However, our perception of that river is guided by the unchangeable concept of a river. Our changeable perceptions are guided by the unchangeable forms of what we perceive. The nature of the universe is both immutable and ever changing.

Changeable Perceptions And Unchangeable Forms 

The juxtaposition between the views of Heraclitus and Parmenides and its later conclusion marks a transition in the ancient Greek tradition, from the pre-Socratic period to the Platonic era, and offers a bridge between cosmology and metaphysics.It provides us with two incredibly insightful explanations about the nature of the universe and an even smarter synthesis of these two apparently opposite systems.

Cosmology And Metaphysics, Science And Philosophy

To philosophy’s oldest question, Greek philosophers Heraclitus and Parmenides answered with opposing views. Or did they?

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Most people are paralyzed by fear.But elite performers aren't.Here's how to overcome your fear like the best in the world:

How To Overcome Fear Like A Pro 

• Every successful person feels fearStart by realizing everyone faces fear.It may seem like some are “fearless.”They’ve just learned to move through it.No successful person is immune from fear.And nothing great is possible without it.Remember this.

Everybody Feels Fear 

Most fear exists in the future.You worry, and it gets worse.The solution: stay present.Be where your feet are.Focus on what you see.Stop worrying and act.The fear will fade.

Fear fades in the present

On the surface, fear looks daunting.Crack the facade + you see its shallowness. Reality is rarely worse than our imagination.Our minds build up obstacles + enemies.Fear wants us to feel overwhelmed.See it for the illusion it is.

Fear is a facade

There’s a popular acronym: F.E.A.R.False Evidence Appearing Real.Our mind and emotions trick us.They make us think feelings = truth.Logic is the remedy. Ask:What are the facts?What’s the worst case?Calm, rational logic defeats fear.

Face fear with logic

The SEALs have a saying: “full benefit.”Things that suck make you better.Hiking + it pours rain? Full benefit.Writing + lose a draft? Full benefit.Driving + tire goes flat? Full benefit.Fear provides the same opportunity.Welcome it.

Fear provides full benefit

Fear is often rooted in what others think.We use that as an excuse not to do.But every great triumph carried risk.Every one had people casting doubt.Where would we be if the greats let this stop them?Release your fear of judgment.

Let go of opinions

Feeling scared is out of your control.Living in a state of fear is fully within it.Temporary scares come and go in life.But don’t accept fear as a way of life.You have the power to choose:Will I move forward through this?

Being afraid is a choice

All growth is a leap into the unknown.No one can tell you how to do it.No one can tell you if it will work.If they could, it wouldn’t be scary.If it wasn’t scary, everyone would do it.Fear is an opportunity.Embrace the growth within it.

Fear is growth disguised

If you’re not willing to leap, you’ll never do anything worthwhile in life.Fear is the great separator. You remember those who faced it.You’ve never heard of those who didn’t.

Anything worth doing is scary

Most people see fear as a red light.They stop and wait until it’s safe.Reframe your mind to see green.The fear you feel is a signal.You’re doing something meaningful.GO.

Fear is a green light

Preparation defeats fear.Visual it, feel it, anticipate it, explore it.The vagueness of fear is what’s scary.When we prepare, its power crumbles.Fear is a thief in the night.Run from it, and it’s emboldened.Anticipate it, and its grip loosens.

Anticipate fear

Facing fear is a muscle like anything else.The more we do it, the easier it becomes.Don’t wait for fear to come. Go find it.Accept this will be hard. Do it anyway.Hard things deter cowards and strengthen the courageous.This is how you train for life.

Do hard things

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Even tho I was making more money in comparison to the beginning of my career, enough to get by at least, I couldn't reduce my workload. 
I was worried that I would've lost pace, I would've fallen behind. I wouldn't take any day off, I needed to work or it would've been the street again for me.

I grew up very poor

I started meditating and working out . Boring, I know, but it worked wonders

I divided my room into fixed compartments and designated one for work only

I implemented boot-up and shut down routines to clearly separate my work time from personal life

I tried to schedule me-time for proper rest, even if it was just for gaming, for a walk or to grab a drink at the corner pub I would still put it in my calendar

Or what I learned working, eating, sleeping and trying to relax in the same confined spaces for prolonged periods of time

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Burning out in the same room for six years

Read these simple tips for not giving up till you achieve what you want to.

How Not To Give Up?

The answer is simple and the reason is obvious: Having no proper and sophisticated plan in mind before starting something.

Why We Give Up

<ul><li>Before even thinking about how to start, you must know how to end.</li><li>The plan must involve simple steps. </li><li>Start with something you can do easily and add a 5%-10% effort daily. </li><li>For example to loose a weight of 5 kg in a month, let's assume that we should run for 4 km daily. Don't run 4km straight away. Start with something small. Run 500 m for first day, then 550 m for second, 600 for third, 700 for 4th and 1 km for 5th and so on.</li><li>In this way, you'll never get tired and running daily will soon become your habit.</li></ul>

What Does A Plan Look Like

Always keep in mind the benefits of achieving your goals. That's going to be your biggest motivation. For example, tell yourself that if you run daily, your health will improve, your physique will get better, you'll have less chances of getting a cardiovascular disease, you'll become more self-disciplined, etc.

Motivate Yourself

Swear and say to yourself that if I complete my daily goal, I deserve and reward. E.g., if I am able to finish my target of running for a 2 km distance, I'll eat an ice cream, I'll watch something I like to watch, I'll go for an outing, I'll buy myself a new Tshirt, etc. And If I give up, I don't deserve to eat Pani puri today.

Give Yourself A (Reward & Punishment) Daily 

There are a lot of ways to do it: Praying to God, Going to a Holy Place, Chanting Verses from a holy scripture, reciting something spiritual, focusing on something heavenly, etc.

Meditate 

You should read these tips because I believe they are a source of great motivation and help us how to achieve our goals without giving up.

Why We Give Up Easily?

A psychology thread from <a href="https://twitter.com/PsyPapers/status/1552956133480046592?t=hg8h1l5yNACYyd5rlvOgVw">@PsyPapers</a> shared about several things that you MUST remember if you are in a relationship.

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Say nice things to your partner like, "I'm proud of you, I love you, You're doing your best, Thank you, You are amazing!"

Learn to ask and listen, COMMUNICATE stop mind-reading in a relationship it won’t work.

Always make time for each other. If you're busy, send short text messages to inform him/her..It is very important

Embrace the good and try to fix the bad in your relationship, No one is perfect. All relationships go through things if you can get through it move past it do so but if you feel you can’t leave peacefully and heal and move on .

Unhealthy love is when two people expect each other to solve the other's problems. Healthy love is when two people acknowledge and address their own problems with each other's support.

Best thing ever is being in a relationship where you don’t have to worry about anything. no cheating, no lying, and no secrets.

Don't EVER tolerate any form of abuse in the name of Love.

No two minds were molded the same. Don’t try to change that person into what YOU think is ideal for your convenience. Let that person grow and love you their way.

Surprises, gifts, forehead kisses, romance are important in a relationship.

Remember once you're in a relationship, you hold a person's heart in your hand. You need to always care for it & careful not to break it.

Many of us are already in a relationship but to be in a mature relationship is whole new story. Remember these things if you are in a relationship.

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Things You Have to Remember If You Are in A Relationship

Most of us find it difficult to judge our own social behavior. Because we cannot see ourselves as we really are, we can use feedback from others to adjust our behavior.However, many people find it hard to accept compliments. This is especially true of people who are not very assertive.

Receiving Positive 

Compliments get tossed in the wastebasket in a number of ways. Here are a few :

How Are Compliments Not Accepted ?

The person may ignore the compliment altogether, pretending that it was not heard. Compliment: “That hat looks good on you.”Response: “Where do you want to eat lunch?” Or, the remark may not be recognized as a compliment.Compliment: “I’d like you to head the new department.”Response: “Don’t you like the work I’m doing in my current position?”

Ignoring

The person may void the compliment by contradicting it. Compliment: “You look great today.”Response: “No, I don’t. I look awful.”

Denial

Receiving positive feedback is a underrated social skills. Sometimes, accepting a compliment can be seen as being arrogant while it is not. Refusing compliment on the other hand is rude. Here are some ideas to overcome this fear.

Effective communication is a critical skill that influences your professional success, the stability of your family life, and your personal happiness. Your ability to communicate effectively is seriously hampered if you can't assert yourself constructively. If you've ever felt paralyzed by an imposing individual or strongly argued opposing point of view, you know that a lack of assertiveness can leave you feeling marginalized and powerless. The Assertiveness Workbook contains effective, cognitive behavioral techniques to help you become more assertive. Learn how to set and maintain personal boundaries without becoming inaccessible. Become more genuine and open in relationships without fearing attack. Defend yourself when you are criticized or asked to submit to unreasonable requests. This book has been awarded The Association for Behavioral and Cognitive Therapies Self-Help Seal of Merit — an award bestowed on outstanding self-help books that are consistent with cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) principles and that incorporate scientifically tested strategies for overcoming mental health difficulties. Used alone or in conjunction with therapy, our books offer powerful tools readers can use to jump-start changes in their lives.

The Assertiveness Workbook

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