Pressure Doesn't Have to Turn into Stress

Stand or sit up, clap your hands, and move your body. Connect with your senses by noticing what you can hear, see, smell, taste, and feel. The idea is to reconnect with the world.

Most of the rumination happens when you are in a state called “waking sleep": when you are doing things, but you aren't really paying attention to them.

When you ruminate, your attention gets caught in an unproductive loop.

So step up and redirect your attention to areas in which you can take useful action.

Try these techniques:

• Contrasting (comparing past stress to the current one, i.e., a major illness versus a missed sale)
• Questioning (asking yourself “How much will this matter in three years’ time?”)
• Reframing (looking at your challenge from a new angle: “What’s an opportunity in this situation?”)

Try these techniques:

• Acceptance: Acknowledge that whether you like the situation or not, it is the way it is.
• Learn the lesson: Your brain will review events until it feels you’ve gained something from them.
• Action: Do something about your situation. Ask yourself, “What action is required here?"