“What you do every day matters more than what you do once in a while.”

Most people do not stick to their New Year's resolutions because they focus on the entire task.By just focusing on the daily small steps, one is able to create a successful daily routine.

One Step Daily

Dial back your goal for the New Year to be a more practical, pragmatic one, and your chances of success will rise dramatically.Don't be too hard on yourself.

Keep It Practical

Don't have vague resolutions with no direction for the New Year. Have clear, specific goals for your daily routine like "run around the park for 10 to 20 minutes every morning."

Be Specific

A ten-minute commitment to keeping a habit going can work wonders if done every day and is easier to maintain.

10 Minutes

If committing to a new habit for a whole year seems overwhelming, have a 30 Day Trial and see if you stick to it.

Trial Period

If you miss a day or two in your daily habit forming a routine, it's ok. Get back to it.

Be Nice to Yourself

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My Unscientific 5-Step Recipe 
<a href="https://medium.com/@jakek?source=post_page-----962ccb7ff3c4----------------------"><img src="https://miro.medium.com/fit/c/96/96/1*qjDK60yIk7jZmfS0hXaNDA.png"> </a> My New Year's Resolutions used to fail every time.
For example, I set a resolution to "Exercise more." I vaguely imagined running marathons and wearing headbands. Then in January, I took a two or three long runs and forgot about the resolution. It was sorta like that every year.
Then one year I read <a href="http://amzn.to/2iOOhlH">The Happiness Project</a>by Gretchen Rubin, and was quite taken by this line: "What you do every day matters more than what you do once in a while."
Huh, I thought.
The next January, I made a resolution to " Run every day." To exercise daily, I had to change my mindset. I couldn't be too hard on myself - if there were only ten minutes, then a ten minute run had to be okay. In other words, I had to be a bit of a slacker.
<h2>It worked!</h2>
Building a small daily habit was way easier than a big sometimes habit. Don't get me wrong, it wasn't like magic. I fell off the wagon several times, but each time I managed to get back on. Since the goal was doable, if I missed a day or two, I didn't have to break the ice when I resumed. It worked, and the habit stuck!
Next, I tried a New Year's Resolution for writing. Previously, I'd only bothered writing if I had at least 90 minutes of uninterrupted time (which is pretty rare). Using my new slacker method, I resolved to " Write every day, even just ten minutes."
Again, it was easier to stay in rhythm, and the habit stuck. (Although I had to get a little <a href="https://medium.com/time-dorks/how-i-used-a-vacation-timer-to-write-a-book-or-why-i-shut-off-the-internet-at-9pm-31df082e26ba">creative</a> to stay focused.)
I even tried this approach with meditating, which always seemed like The Hardest Thing In The World. To make it a daily habit, I downgraded my expectations. I didn't wake up early. I didn't meditate for 60 minutes. I didn't force myself to sit in silence on a zen pillow.
Instead (nerd alert!) I just used <a href="https://www.headspace.com/">Headspace</a> for every day, on the bus or even while I was falling asleep. And I decided that even ten minutes of meditation "counted." The habit stuck.
Sometimes the magic doesn't work. Sometimes I'll keep the same resolution two or three years in a row before it sticks. ( This year I'll finally stretch my hamstrings!) Still, for me, getting even 50% of my resolutions to stick is pretty good.
So take it for what it's worth. But if you've been frustrated with resolutions in the past, consider applying my Unscientific 5-Step Recipe:
<h2>1. Dial it back</h2>
Don't be too ambitious. Like, do you really want to run a marathon? I mean, you've seen people at the end of marathons, right? They look pretty tired.
Seriously though, we have a culture of intense expectations, and many of us are too hard on ourselves. It's okay to dial back your goal and make it more doable. Resolving to read 500 books is admirable... but resolving to make (or maintain) a daily reading habit is also great.
<h2>2. Make it very specific</h2>
My "Exercise more" resolution is a prime example of way-too-vague. "Run every day" is better, "Run around the park in the morning" is better still. Best of all would be something like "Exercise every day, ideally running in the morning, but other forms of exercise and other times of day are also cool." You get the idea.
<h2>3. Add the magic words "for at least ten minutes every day"</h2>
If you decide ten minutes a day is enough to count, you'll find it way easier to do it every day. And if you do it every day, it's way easier to keep the habit.
<h2>4. Do it every day for a month</h2>
Don't think about all 365 days at once. If you make it through January (or any 30 consecutive days), there's a pretty good chance the habit will stick for the year. If you don't believe me, <a href="http://lifehacker.com/281626/jerry-seinfelds-productivity-secret">ask Jerry Seinfeld</a>.
<h2>5. Be nice to yourself if you miss a day or two</h2>
Just start again. In fact, if you miss a day or two but get right back on it, you don't even have to count it as breaking your 30-day streak. I hereby grant you permission!
Who knows, your small habit might set the foundation for bigger things. But don't worry about it in January. Be kind to yourself as you maintain the rhythm, and let the good things happen. They will.
Now go write yourself a nice doable resolution. Good luck, fellow slacker-you got this!
For other, smarter people's posts on New Year's Resolutions, read <a href="http://gretchenrubin.com/happiness_project/2014/12/going-to-make-a-new-years-resolution-consider-these-5-tips/">this post by Gretchen Rubin</a> and/or <a href="http://charlesduhigg.com/have-resolutions/">this post by Charles Duhigg</a>. </div>

My Unscientific 5-Step Recipe My New Year's Resolutions used to fail every time. For example, I set a resolution to "Exercise more." I vaguely imagined running marathons and wearing headbands. Then in January, I took a two or three long runs and forgot about the resolution. It was sorta like that every year.

The Slacker's Guide to New Year's Resolutions That Stick

GRETCHEN RUBIN

One Step Daily

Keep It Practical

Be Specific

10 Minutes

Trial Period

Be Nice to Yourself

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