Six Stoic Ways to Effectively Use Silence

When someone is coming to you for advice, you have to listen, with intent. You are not supposed to jump into a conclusion and start dishing out advice.

Usually, people just want someone to listen to their problems.

• Subtly nod, respond non-verbally and maintain eye contact while listening.
• Paraphrasing what the person is saying is tricky as it can lead to misjudgment.
• Encourage the person to speak more, elaborating on what is meant. 

In a social gathering or a serious discussion:

• Have control over what you say. 
• Slow down.
• Instead of blurting out whatever comes to your mind, take a pause and evaluate.

Instead of a standard reaction based on our egoistic state, it is far better to be silent when we hear something we don't like. The best answer to anger is silence.

If one is faced with an emotional, irrational person, one should not engage, stooping to their level, but maintain calm.

Stay silent but if you have to talk, it should not be ordinary small talk.

Meaningful talk and quality words are infinitely better than wasting breath on the weather and other common topics.

When we're young, we say what we feel like, not caring or not knowing about the consequences.

As we grow older, going through the roller coaster of life, we tend to become silent, owing to the wisdom that comes with the experiences of life.