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Relationship struggles make perfect sense these days.
It’s not fair and realistic to expect your partner to be your only source of stress relief:
You have to take care of yourself to be able to take care of others.
Make a plan for how you’re going to handle as a team everything that you have to do.
Create a shared calendar with all of your tasks and responsibilities, and block specific hours for when you’re going to do them. Take the time for weekly meeting, to plan the week ahead.
Your partner is going through the same emotions that you are. It can be useful to stop and ask each other questions like:
Spending all that time together with your partner may lead to tensions. Set some healthy boundaries:
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