On separate pieces of paper, write your answers to the following questions. Don't help each other or share your responses until the end.

1. What makes your partner happy? How do they act when happy? Are there words or gestures they use to indicate their mood?
2. What makes your partn...

The secret to a successful relationship, whether you're the couple that agrees 99 percent of the time or the couple with seemingly nothing in common, is EMPATHY. Now you have the skills to brew some up in your relationship.

You develop empathy within a relationship by regularly listening to each other's thoughts and feelings.

Seeing the world from your partner's point of view helps to build closeness as well as respect

A long term relationship has to be based on more than shared likes and mutual dislikes.

You and your partner may agree 99% of the time, but it's that 1% that can spell disaster if there's no empathy between you.

1. What activities does your partner enjoy? Are they good at what they do? Do they need to excel, or are they content just doing it?
2. What does your partner like about you? What do you think they find irritating?
3. What do you think you could say or do to enhance your partner's lif...

What you need to create empathy is to listen - REALLY LISTEN - to your partner when they speak.

Listening doesn't mean waiting for your turn to talk. It means :

• asking questions if you're unclear about something they have said,