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We want to suffer a little bit

If you’re thinking of leaving a partner, ask yourself if things are bad because it really is all their fault? If it is: leave them. If it’s not, you may be experiencing the bitterness of life alongside another person, not because of another person. 

Can you be sure that your suffering won’t come with you into the next relationship or into your singe life?

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