9. Learn Each Individual’s Love Language. - Deepstash

9. Learn Each Individual’s Love Language.

❌You need to stop asking what motivates people in the abstract and instead ask: What motivates a person?

In relationships, replace “Do unto others as you would have them do unto you” with “Do unto others the way they want to be treated.

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