The 6 Not Self-Determined Reasons Why - Deepstash

The 6 Not Self-Determined Reasons Why

  1. I feel anxious when I'm with others.
  2. I don't feel liked when I'm with others.
  3. I can't be myself around others.
  4. I regret things I say or do when I'm with others.
  5. I feel uncomfortable when I'm with others.
  6. I feel like I don't belong when I'm with others.

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Being with others only makes us happy if we do it by choice; when choice is taken away, whether we are social butterflies or lone-wolfs, extraverts or introverts, matters little to our happiness; togetherness and aloneness can make us equally unhappy. Let’s choose what we need to be happy.

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