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When we think of influence, we don’t generally tend to think about the influence we naturally have, which is why we probably have more influence than we think.
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Basing your happiness on comparisons isn’t helpful because we are hopeless at setting reliable benchmarks for those comparisons”
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Everyday people have more influence than they give themselves credit for.
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The Invisibility Cloak Illusion: Tendency to (incorrectly) believe that you notice people more than they notice you
We almost always underestimate how many people are paying attention to us
The Spotlight Effect: Tendency to overestimate how much others notice aspects of one’s appearance or behavior
The Barry Manilow T-Shirt Experiment: People don’t actively notice your flaws as much as you think
The Liking Gap: Tendency to underestimate how much a conversation partner enjoyed the conversation and how much they liked you afterwards.
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We unfairly judge ourselves on the specifics of the conversation while we judge the other person on warmth and friendliness.
Based on the referenced study, the actual likeness is about 12% higher than the perception.
Audience Tuning Effect: Tendency to adjust our language and context based on who we are talking to
Saying is Believing Effect: When we take audience tuning too far, we begin to muddy our own reality, memory, and opinions
Thanks, but No Thanks Experiment: We overestimate how awkward it is to receive a compliment and we underestimate how good a compliment makes us feel
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