It's a method of looking at things in ways that create less stress and promote a greater sense of peace and control. It means changing the way you look at something and thus changing your experience of it.

Cognitive Reframing

Educate yourself about thinking patterns that may exacerbate your stress levels (for example, being aware of common cognitive distortions).This process is important for laying the groundwork for understanding and change.

Learn About Thinking Patterns

Become more mindful of your thoughts, as though you're an observer. Once you become more of an observer, it's easier to notice your thoughts rather than remaining caught up in them.

Notice Your Thoughts

An effective part of reframing involves examining the truth and accuracy (or lack thereof) of your negative thoughts.Instead of seeing things the way you always have, challenge every negative thought, and see if you can adopt thoughts that fit your situation but reflect a more positive outlook.

Challenge Your Thoughts

Look for the 'gift' in each situation, and see if you can see your stressors on the more positive edge of reality.When you're looking at something negative, see if you can change your self talk to use less strong, less negative emotions. When you're looking at a potentially stressful situation, see if you can view it as a challenge versus a threat.

Replace Your Negative Thoughts 

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When facing potential stressors, the way we view what we're experiencing can exacerbate our stress - or minimize it. Cognitive reframing is a time-honored, psychologist-recommended method of looking at things in ways that create less stress and promote a greater sense of peace and control. If you don't already use this stress relief strategy regularly, you may want to consider it.
<h3> What Exactly is Cognitive Reframing? </h3>
Reframing is a way of changing the way you look at something and, thus, changing your experience of it. It can turn a stressful event into either a major trauma or a challenge to be bravely overcome. Or, it can depict a really bad day as a mildly low point in an overall wonderful life. Or, it can see a negative event as a learning experience.
Reframing is a way that we can alter our perceptions of stressors and, thus, relieve significant amounts of stress and create a more <a href="https://www.verywellmind.com/how-to-use-a-positive-reframe-for-stress-management-3144885">positive life</a> before actually making any changes in our circumstances.
<h3> How Reframing Affects Stress </h3>
Using reframing techniques can actually change your physical responses to stress because your body's stress response is triggered by perceived stress, more often than actual events.
If you perceive that you are threatened - physically or psychologically - by a situation, your <a href="https://www.verywellmind.com/what-is-the-fight-or-flight-response-2795194">fight-or-flight response</a> will kick in.
Your stress response can be triggered by events ranging from annoying to frightening and can remain triggered long after the triggering event has passed, especially if you're not practicing relaxation techniques. Reframing techniques are a way of minimizing the <a href="https://www.verywellmind.com/what-are-stressors-3145149">stressors</a> you perceive in your life, thus easing the process of <a href="https://www.verywellmind.com/relaxation-tips-for-stress-relief-3145192">relaxation</a>.
<h3> How Reframing Works </h3>
Using reframing techniques can be simple and easy, especially with practice.

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Learn About Thinking Patterns. The first step in reframing is to educate yourself about some of these negative thinking patterns that may exacerbate your stress levels. See these common <a href="https://www.verywellmind.com/cognitive-distortions-and-stress-3144921">cognitive distortions</a> to see which ones, if any, may come into play in your life. Also, read about <a href="https://www.verywellmind.com/about-explanatory-styles-3145110">negative explanatory styles</a> to learn the particular way that pessimists view their life experiences; since pessimists tend to experience more stress and less success than <a href="https://www.verywellmind.com/the-benefits-of-optimism-3144811">optimists</a>, it's important to understand how they think and work to adopt a positive explanatory style instead. Educating yourself about thinking patterns and how they affect people is important for laying the groundwork for understanding and change.</li>
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Notice Your Thoughts. The next step is to catch yourself when you're slipping into overly negative and stress-inducing patterns of thinking. Being aware of them is an important part of challenging and ultimately changing them. One thing you can do is just become more mindful of your thoughts, as though you're an observer. When you catch negative thinking styles, just note them at first. If you want, you can even keep a journal and start recording what's happening in your life and your thoughts surrounding these events, and then examine these thoughts through your new 'lens' to get more practice in catching these thoughts. Another helpful practice is <a href="https://www.verywellmind.com/mindfulness-meditation-techniques-for-stress-relief-3144772">meditation</a>, where you learn to quiet your mind and examine your thoughts. Once you become more of an observer, it's easier to notice your thoughts rather than remaining caught up in them.</li>
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Challenge Your Thoughts. As you notice your negative thoughts, an effective part of reframing involves examining the truth and accuracy (or lack thereof) of these thoughts. Are the things you're telling yourself even true? Also, what are some other ways to interpret the same set of events? Which ways of seeing things serve you better? Instead of seeing things the way you always have, challenge every negative thought, and see if you can adopt thoughts that fit your situation but reflect a more positive outlook.</li>
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Replace Your Thoughts With More Positive Thoughts Have you ever been to a hospital and noticed that the nurses often ask people about their 'discomfort' rather than their 'pain'? That's reframing in action. If the patient is in searing pain, the term 'discomfort' becomes annoying and seems to reflect a disconnect in understanding, but if the pain is mild, reframing it as 'discomfort' can actually minimize the experience of pain for many patients. This is a useful reframing trick that we can all put into practice. When you're looking at something negative, see if you can change your self talk to use less strong, <a href="https://www.verywellmind.com/how-should-i-deal-with-negative-emotions-3144603">less negative emotions</a>. When you're looking at a potentially <a href="https://www.verywellmind.com/top-stressful-situations-3145007">stressful situation</a>, see if you can view it as a challenge versus a threat. Look for the 'gift' in each situation, and see if you can see your stressors on the more positive edge of reality: see them in a way that still fits the facts of your situation, but that is less negative and more optimistic and positive.</li>
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That's the gist of reframing, and you can do it as often as you'd like. Most people are surprised at what a big impact reframing can have on their experience of stress-changing the way you look at your life can truly change your life.
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When facing potential stressors, the way we view what we're experiencing can exacerbate our stress - or minimize it. Cognitive reframing is a time-honored, psychologist-recommended method of looking at things in ways that create less stress and promote a greater sense of peace and control.

4 Steps to Shift Perspective and Change Everything

Cognitive Reframing

Learn About Thinking Patterns

Notice Your Thoughts

Challenge Your Thoughts

Replace Your Negative Thoughts

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