Life is strange, so many things happen unexpectedly; mere resistance will not solve any problem. One needs infinite pliability and a single heart

We love on our own terms, making love a marketable thing. We have market mentality and love is not marketable, a give-and-take-affair. It's a state of being in which all man's problems are resolved

To see and be aware of one's thoughts make one intensively sensitive, pliable and alert. Don't condemn or judge, but be very alert. Out of separation, out of the dross comes pure gold

One must be very clear within oneself. Then I assure you everything will come right; be clear and you will see that things will shape themselves right without your doing anything about it

Outward beauty can never last...We cultivate the outer, paying so little attention to the things inside the skin...it is the worm inside the apple that destroys the freshness of the apple

Humility is simplicity, but the cultivated humility is another form of worldliness

Things may not be easy, but more one asks of life, the more fearful and painful it becomes. To live simply uninfluenced...to be without varying moods and demands is not easy, but without deep quite life all things are futile

The stillness of the mind is the freedom from duality

Whatever happens, don't let the body shape the nature of the mind - be aware of the body, eat right, be by yourself during the day for some hours. Don't slip back and don't be a slave to circumstances. Be tremendous - be awake

Life is a strange business. Happy is the man who is nothing

Some of the simple, profound and yet powerful enlightening quotes from the book "Happy is the Man who is Nothing" by Jiddu Krishnamurti.  As stated by Pupul Jayakar in this book it is the compilation of the letters written to a young friend who came to him wounded in body and mind. Letters written between 1948-1960.

One of the great teachers of the twentieth century shows a more intimate side in this collection of letters, written to a young person who was suffering in both body and mind. "Life is a razor's edge and one has to walk on that path with exquisite care and with pliable wisdom"  - J Krishnamurti Between 1948 and the early 1960s, Krishnamurti was easily accessible and many people came to him. On walks, in personal meetings, through letters, the relationships blossomed. He wrote the following letters to a young friend who came to him wounded in body and mind. The letters, written between June 1948 and March 1960, reveal a rare compassion and clarity: the teaching and healing unfold; separation and distance disappear; the words flow; not a word is superfluous; the healing and teaching are simultaneous.

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Books

Jiddu Krishnamurti

Happy Is the One Who Is Nothing

Thoughts are like dogs. Your pet likes it when you give it what it wants; it's like you're listening to it. After training, they become organized, attentive, and they listen to you.
When you get a thought, hear it, nurture it, tell the thought what you want, and let it pass. There will be more space left in your mind to do more productive tasks throughout the day

I Love Dogs And Thoughts

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Productivity

Understand yourself and those around you.

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Personal Development

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Motivation & Inspiration

What to do with negative thoughts?

“How dare I play small. How dare I don’t go as big as I possibly can.” – Trav Bell When we play small, we are living our life in a state of fear. Our actions become motivated by our low self-worth, the need for outside validation, desire for temporary comfort, and avoiding those influences at all costs that cause us distress and trepidation.Playing small is being indifferent and living in existence without passion. It is settling for a life that is ok but not great, existing but not feeling fulfilled.

What Does Playing Small Mean?

We’ve all done it. We’ve all dimmed our light and given our power away. It leaves the bitter taste of self-betrayal in our hearts. And it creates a false foundation for connections with others. The truth is that when we’re playing small, we give the green light to others to do the same. We show others that it’s not safe to believe in ourselves, and it’s selfish to explore our greatness. But what kind of legacy does this create? reading these words, are one of the game-changers. The change begins with each of us. And so, let’s break down why do we play it small in interactions with others.

3 Uncomfortable Truth about Playing Small

One of the biggest reasons for playing small is a desire to be loved, accepted, and understood. We emphatically feel what others want from us, and we give it to them, hoping it will bring us something. All this is masked as innocent. But let’s take a closer look at what happens here.

1. Desire to Be Loved and Accepted

The subconscious mind holds a belief that if you just figured out what others need or expect from you, you’ll be safe and loved. When we’re too big, too shiny, the mind sends us a signal that it’s too much. We’ve crossed an imaginary border, and it can remove the love or acceptance of others, so now we have to retreat into our shells.But here is the truth, you can’t make others like you by being out of integrity with yourself. Others aren’t attracted to how small you can become – and if they do, then run and run fast. Others are attracted to that which makes you, you.

Playing small is a subtle form of manipulation. Because when we play small in relationship dynamics, the truth is we want or need something from others. And we don’t know how to fulfill those needs on our own. So we project that need onto somebody else, raising them on a pedestal while shrinking ourselves. When we become someone else to get something from others (approval or even to avoid a conflict), we manipulate them by projecting a false image of who we are. Covering up the truth, which we believe isn’t good enough.

2. Playing Small is Manipulative

By being kind, small, and submissive, the subconscious programming tells us we can get our needs met. But it’s time to stop playing small and step into your greatness. Playing small isn’t a good foundation for any relationship. If being in your power means that someone gets upset with you, withdraws their love, then it isn’t a real bond between you and them. It’s built on illusions that are so fragile that the truth can burst them into dust.

There is that pervasive collective belief that you have to suppress yourself continually to be enlightened. But this is not so. Because through suppressing the self, we can’t find the true self. Thus the ego keeps us in a vicious loop. When you know thyself, the false image of self falls away. It has no other option but to do just that. And so, when we’re playing small, we can sometimes fall victim to the ego’s idea that it’s spiritual. This false modesty and kindness are being projected onto others because we actually are afraid to dive deep to find out what we’re made of.

3. It Isn’t Enlightened, It’s an Ego

This life is about finding inner alignment with the language of the soul. When we are connected to the center of our being, we know who we are and walk our path with integrity. Playing small limits the actual expression of the soul and give space for the shadow to rise. Where do you play it small in your life?What are you afraid would happen if you stepped into your full soul’s expression?Which relationships would be shaken if you stepped into your power?What might you be unconsciously trying to protect from by playing it small?

Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, and fabulous? Actually, who are you not to be? Your playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people will not feel insecure around you. We are all meant to shine. It is not just in some of us; it is in everyone, and as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give others permission to do the same.

By contrast to playing small, playing big is living a NO Regrets Life. It is existing in a state of high performance where we live to our true capability and aspirations. It is the willingness to face short-term discomfort head-on, knowing there will be risk and uncertainty but persevering nevertheless — It is the very definition of being Passion Struck. “Playing big is living a NO Regrets Life. It is existing in a state of high performance where we live to our true capability and aspirations.” – John R. Miles

What Is Playing Big?

It is feeling so passionate about your life and having the willingness to choose to pursue it and implement the steps it takes to achieve it. It is that feeling of being alive, experiencing a great love of self and others, and a sense of accomplishment and confidence. It ends up bringing feelings of greater freedom and a deep understanding of self.

So how do we start playing Big? How do we take those steps we need to becoming passion struck?

How Do You Play Big?

Envision the experiences you want most in your life — to feel accessible, alive, loved, connected, and have peace of mind. Envision how you will feel when your vision becomes your reality, and let the experience along the way be in service of this. Don’t think of your plan in a linear sense. Be willing to change your plan through your experiences.

Envision the Experience

we need to face whatever obstacles and fears are holding us back.It is vital that we stop pointing fingers at others and instead focus on how we will change. We must acknowledge our problems, ask ourselves what we want, then take action.

Face the Brutal Reality of Whatever you are facing

Once you envision the experiences you want in your life, you need to start prioritizing them. No one does everything on their bucket list or life-plan in a day or a week. It is about action stacking. By prioritizing your actions, you can sequence them in a way that allows you to progress on them. You can sequence them based on what is most important, on momentum, or whatever it may be.

Prioritize Your Plan

We live in a frantic state of mind instead of taking the time to calm down our state of mind. The movie called Sound of Metal about a heavy metal drummer who loses his hearing. One of the things that silence finally brought him was the ability to calm his state of mind. It is a choice between our old life and our new normal.

Stop Living For the Urgent

How often do we develop life-changing ideas and aspirations only to burn them down through our actions? Whether intentionally or unintentionally, we create fires that burn down the very hope and aspirations we want out of life. This comes in many forms. It can be self-doubt, continually changing our plan, allowing beliefs to cloud our judgment, or losing focus on keeping the main thing the main thing. All of these are signs we are being a visionary arsonist to living a no regrets life.

Don’t Be a Visionary Arsonist to Your Dreams

We are responsible for our own happiness. No one will create it for us, and if we think that is the case, we will forever be dependent on others to bring us fulfillment. This is a powerless, victim mentality. Instead, put the focus on what you truly want and take personal responsibility for achieving it. This likely means you will need to audit out many of the people, influences, and habits that are keeping you stuck.

Take Personal Responsibility

This starts with being kind to yourself. It’s a giant trap to attach our self-worth and well-being to our accomplishments and the judgments of others. When we have a negative self-image, it can create self-doubt and negativity that destroys everything we care about. It is vital to understand that your important relationship is with yourself. This is why it is so vital to be your own best ally.

Love Yourself Unconditionally

Let go of that idea that you will enjoy your bucket list “someday;” it is up to you to alter your mindset and live your life-plan now. It’s time to tap into the brutal reality that your past doesn’t define you and that you are part of something larger. Joseph Campbell, an American professor of literature, said it best: “The privilege of a lifetime is being who you are.” Stop listening to your inner critic and start playing big.We only get one shot at this life. It is time for you to make a choice, do the work, and step into your sharp edges.

If You Find Yourself Playing Small

There is no passion to be found playing small - in settling for a life that is less than the one you are capable of living.

A universe where if you set your mind to it, you can achieve anything. Realize your life is NOT based on short-term discomfort. Rather, it is the sum of your hopes, dreams, goals, and aspirations. Slow down. Relax. And be grateful for what you have in life.

Do you live with no regrets? Or do you play small? Playing small is dismissing that passion struck life for one filled with security, acceptance, or control.

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Mental Health

WHY DO WE KEEP PLAYING SMALL?

Behold now, bhikkhus, I exhort you: All compounded things are subject to vanish. Strive with earnestness!

Don't let behaviour of others destroy your inner peace

Radiate boundless love towards the world!

Wise men don't judge – they seek to understand.

What the superior man seeks is in himself;what the small man seeks is in others

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Parenting

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Reading & Writing

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Famous Quotes by Monks

If you say the phrase ‘virtue signaling’ nowadays, the chances are you’ll be met with people becoming increasingly defensive, claiming that everything has to be picked apart and overanalysed. However, that’s not the case. This article is going to unpack what exactly virtue signaling is, discuss why it’s so dangerous, and offer some examples of everyday virtue signaling from both the wider public and public organisations.So, what is virtue signaling?

I'm pretty awesome!

Virtue signaling is defined at the act of publicly expressing opinions in order to demonstrate that you are a good person. However, this has become muddied with placing more importance on the appearance of moral correctness, than the correctness itself.There are of course some instances in which claiming that a person or organisation is virtue signaling is untrue, however there are many cases in which good is only done at the bare minimum level, and it’s only done in order to receive praise. This is dangerous virtue signaling.

Oh, that's the name of that annoying thing people do?

A social injustice cannot be truly understood if someone is only looking at it in terms of how they can utilise it to boost their public image. When good deeds become more about self-promotion, are they really good deeds anymore?The argument to be made that whatever the motive, doing good will be beneficial to someone, somewhere, however all too often when virtue signaling is involved, it’s likely that only the bare minimum of support is being given.When virtue signaling is normalised, so too is minimal level of effort. It doesn’t take long for this level to become the accepted standard.

Boost or bust? 

Social media is a massive culprit for opening the door to mass virtue signaling in the greater public. With offering support being as easy – and requiring very little thought – as sharing someone’s Instagram story, or re-tweeting something on Twitter, feeds have been flooded with posts that stand up against social issues.While this is great and is a vital step towards affecting change, it’s telling how quickly the support fades.

Look at all these soapboxes!

Take the <a href="https://immigrationnews.co.uk/black-lives-matter-uk/">Black Lives Matter movement</a> of 2020, and the Sarah Everard case of this year as examples. For weeks after the horrendous events that triggered these social movements, social media was overflowing with support for those affected by racial or gendered discrimination and abuse.But, for as quickly as the support came, it disappeared just as fast. Social media has made virtue signaling trendy, which ultimately offers no help to those who need it.

All lives matter! (says the privileged ones)

Countless companies have been accused of virtue signaling in one form or another, with arguably the biggest being greenwashing. Younger generations are taking on the burden of trying to resolve our planet’s climate crisis, and are standing up to anyone who is falsely advertising their efforts to help.Greenwashing is when false information is provided on how environmentally friendly a company or person is. Given the current climate emergency, greenwashing has got to be one of the worst forms of virtue signaling around.

Grab the pitchforks

Quorn foods have come under fire for misrepresenting their carbon footprint as smaller than it is; numerous cleaning product companies have been challenged on their claims of products being ‘non-toxic’ while containing ingredients that are harmful to people, animals, and the environment; and Nestlé chocolate have been confronted over their claims of producing ‘sustainably sourced chocolate’, while their cocoa supply chain has been shown to have virtually no environmental standards in place.No one should be able to get away with pulling the wool over others’ eyes by way of virtue signaling.

How dare you! 

There are a number of reasons why virtue signaling is dangerous, not least because it encourages a climate of reduced empathy and understanding of others, the motives behind acts become warped, and it creates a world in which the bare minimum becomes the accepted standard.Doing a good deed to help another should come from a place of empathy and compassion. But, when it is done to serve a selfish desire for public praise, this understanding for others is shallow at best.

Why is it so dangerous?

“Virtue is not the ability to tell right from wrong, virtue is the capacity to pursue the inconvenient right defying the comfort of the convenient wrong.”

Cue the bat signal. I'm gonna show how awesomely supportive and tone deaf I am!

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Look at how AWESOME I AM! Why Virtue Signaling is dangerous.

In today's fast-paced generation, it is essential to keep up if you don't want to be left behind!

SOD (Skills On Demand)

Therefore, I will discuss about some skills which will act as an ace up your sleeves in the future.

Necessary Skills

We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then, is not an act, but a habit.

Whether you want to be a creator or web developer or something else,you need the help of Ai at some point in your life. After Chatgpt was introduced,ai has taken major part in our economy. Now the choice is up to you whether you want to be a mere bystander or an emerging rebel!!

AI Tools

Branding involves developing a compelling, positive and lasting image of your business that creates an emotional connection with your customers. It is an essential skill in today's time. Whether take a job or be an entrepreneur, it is a must to have this in your arsenal.

Branding

Sales is not only about selling products,it is much more than that. You're selling to your client,selling to your family,selling to your child. Hence,you must acquire this skill!!

Sales

The journey of a thousand miles begins with a small step.

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Corporate Culture

Most Priceless Skills in 2023

Everybody that you fight is not your enemy and everybody that helps you is not your friend. And that’s what life taught me.

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"Tractatus Logico-Philosophicus" is a philosophical work by Ludwig Wittgenstein. Here are five invaluable lessons or key ideas from the book:
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<li>The Limits Of Language</li>
<li>A Proposition Is A Picture Of Reality</li>
<li>The Idea Of Solipsism</li>
<li>What Goes Around May Not Come Around</li>
<li>Where One Cannot Speak, There One Must Remain Silent</li>
</ol>

Tractatus Logico-Philosophicus

The limits of language are the limits of our world. Meaningful language can only describe what can be logically represented, and what falls outside this realm should remain unsaid.

The Limits Of Language

Language functions as a picture of reality. Words and propositions are like pictures that represent the facts of the world, and the meaning of language lies in its ability to mirror these facts accurately.

A Proposition Is A Picture Of Reality 

Solipsism – the view that only the self exists while the external world is an illusion – grasps at something true but can't be meaningfully articulated. Solipsism represents the inexpressible nature of self and world – philosophy's task isn't to speak the unspeakable, but to acknowledge language's limits through logical analysis, avoiding profundity, and sticking to what can be stated.

The Idea Of Solipsism

Ideas like karmic causality and universal justice offer only reassuring myths that impose moral order on an underlying reality that’s likely indifferent. They describe statistically useful patterns and project hopeful narratives instead of the purposeless machinery of existence. We imaginatively mythologize order from chaos because the alternative is profoundly unsatisfying. But reality simply is.

What Goes Around May Not Come Around

There are limits to what can be expressed in language, and some aspects of reality, particularly profound or mystical ones, are beyond the reach of linguistic representation. Our words subtly attest to language's limits by using its logical structure in meaningful ways.

Where One Cannot Speak, There One Must Remain Silent

My key learning’s from Tractatus Logico-Philosophicus by Ludwig Wittgenstein

This carefully crafted ebook: &quot;Tractatus Logico-Philosophicus (The original 1922 edition with an introduction by Bertram Russell)&quot; is formatted for your eReader with a functional and detailed table of contents. The Tractatus Logico-Philosophicus is the only book-length philosophical work published by the philosopher Ludwig Wittgenstein in his lifetime. It was an ambitious project: to identify the relationship between language and reality and to define the limits of science. It is recognized as a significant philosophical work of the twentieth century. Wittgenstein wrote the notes for Tractatus while he was a soldier during World War I and completed it when a prisoner of war at Como and later Cassino in August 1918. It was first published in German in 1921 as Logisch-Philosophische Abhandlung. Tractatus was influential chiefly amongst the logical positivists of the Vienna Circle, such as Rudolf Carnap and Friedrich Waismann. Ludwig Josef Johann Wittgenstein (1889 – 1951) was an Austrian-British philosopher who worked primarily in logic, the philosophy of mathematics, the philosophy of mind, and the philosophy of language. He published few works in his lifetime, including one book review, one article, a children's dictionary, and the 75-page Tractatus Logico-Philosophicus (1921).

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Religion & Spirituality

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Leadership & Management

Ludwig Wittgenstein

Tractatus Logico-Philosophicus (The original 1922 edition with an introduction by Bertram Russell)

Hey there, fellow deepstashers! 🚀I'm not your average 21-year-old. Nope, I'm the kind of person who doesn't just set goals; I conquer them. I have one unwavering focus, and that's pursuing my dream of getting into IIT JAM MS. You might wonder how I stay so committed, so let me share my secret with you.First things first, I'm not plagued by the mythical creature called procrastination. While others may struggle to get started on a task, I dive right in. I don't let boredom or distractions get the best of me because I'm on a mission. My mind is like a laser beam, locked onto my goal.

The Journey Is On

I have this unique superpower - I can't multitask. But here's the twist: I don't want to! Why spread myself thin across multiple tasks when I can pour all my energy and attention into one? When I focus, I immerse myself completely, and that's when magic happens. What keeps me going, you ask? It's the thrill of chasing my dreams, the rush of motivation that courses through me as I inch closer to my goal. I don't just do things for the sake of doing them; I do them to excel. It's like a rollercoaster ride of accomplishments, and I'm addicted to that feeling.

My Unique Superpower 

The secret sauce to my success is dopamine. Every time I make progress, it's like a shot of this feel-good neurotransmitter that fuels my passion. It's addictive, in a good way. It's what makes me wake up each day with a fire in my belly, ready to conquer new challenges. Another thing about me is that I'm a perfectionist. Once I take on a task, I don't just complete it; I perfect it. I give it my all until it shines brighter than a diamond. And the beauty of it is that even if I revisit the same task later on, it's still as flawless as ever. That's the level of dedication I bring to the table.

The Secret Sauce To My Success

So, there you have it - my journey to IIT JAM MS is fueled by my unwavering focus, my resistance to procrastination, my love for single-tasking, and my addiction to the sweet taste of accomplishment. This is my strength, and it's what sets me apart on the road to success. Join me in this exciting adventure as I chase my dreams, one task at a time, and remember: Stay focused, stay motivated, and never underestimate the power of a little dopamine rush along the way! 💪🌟🚀

Summarizing What I Wanted To Share

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Strategy

Sharing my journey to IIT

Feeling adrift in life, uncertain of your path, and unsure about your future is common. Regret for the past and fear of the unknown can be overwhelming.
How do you differentiate between a temporary feeling of being lost and a sign to embark on a journey of self-discovery? 7 Transformative Journeys:
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<li>The Journey of Self-Reflection</li>
<li>The Journey Of Letting Go</li>
<li>The Journey Of Adventure And Exploration</li>
<li>The Journey Of Learning And Growth </li>
<li>The Journey Of Connection</li>
<li>The Journey Of Self Love And Acceptance</li>
<li>Journey Of Purpose</li>
</ol>

Navigating Uncertainty: Is It a Moment or a New Journey?

The journey of self-reflection is often the first step in understanding why you feel lost.
It’s about taking time to pause and look inward, to examine your life with honesty and courage.
It’s about understanding your past, analysing your present, and envisioning your future.
After all, once you start understanding yourself better, you’re already one step closer to finding your way.

#1 The Journey of Self-Reflection

Letting go doesn’t mean giving up.
It means freeing yourself from burdens that no longer help you.
It’s about making peace with the past so that you can welcome new possibilities and experiences into your life.

#2 The Journey Of Letting Go

The adventure journey doesn’t always mean traveling around the world.
It can be as simple as trying a new hobby, learning a new skill, or pushing yourself beyond your usual boundaries.
The key is to be open to new experiences because they often bring the best lessons and most transformative moments.

#3 The Journey Of Adventure And Exploration

Life is a never-ending classroom, filled with lessons waiting to be learned and wisdom waiting to be discovered.
If you’re feeling unfulfilled or stagnant, embarking on the journey of learning and growth might be just what you need.
This journey is about embracing the opportunity to expand your knowledge, develop new skills, and deepen your understanding of yourself and the world around you.
It’s about becoming a lifelong learner, open to new insights and eager to grow.
In ancient Greece, philosopher Socrates declared, “I know that I know nothing.”

#4 The Journey Of Learning And Growth

In today's hyper-connected world, many of us paradoxically feel isolated and disconnected. If you're experiencing this disconnection, it's time to embark on a journey of reconnection, both with others and yourself.
For me, it involved journaling, mindfulness, and nature to reconnect with my inner self.
This journey underscored the value of meaningful relationships and staying connected to oneself.
While technology connects us globally, nothing replaces the warmth of genuine human connection.

#5 The Journey Of Connection

This journey is about learning to embrace yourself, flaws and all.
It’s about acknowledging your strengths, accepting your weaknesses, and realizing that you are enough, just as you are.
It’s about treating yourself with the same kindness and compassion that you would offer a dear friend.
Because at the end of the day, the most important relationship you have is with yourself.

#6 The Journey Of Self Love And Acceptance

Discover your values, passions, strengths. Align your life with what truly matters. 
Make a unique, meaningful impact. It's not about a destination or status; it's fulfillment in living authentically and positively impacting the world

#7 Journey Of Purpose

Each of these journeys has the power to profoundly change your life and serve as a guiding light during moments of uncertainty.

We all have moments in life where we feel like we're drifting without a clear direction, where the path we once knew becomes shrouded in uncertainty.

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Travel

7 transformative journeys to embark on if you’re feeling lost in life

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