Compared to our ancestors, we’re living in a world of opulence. On the bright side, constant access to all resources and remarkable amenities creates a world of opportunities. On the other hand, this way of living turns many people into dopamine addicts.

You’re likely one of them. After all, who isn’t? With so many temptations being a click away, it’s hard not to fall into the trap of overconsumption. 

Checking our phone 24/7 , drinking and eating all the unnecessary edibles just for the sake of pleasure, spending valuable time and money gambling, or avoiding human contact in favor of porn, are just a few of the symptoms.

So how can one break this vicious cycle? Anna Lembke ‘s Dopamine Nation  has the answers. By learning how the pain-pleasure reaction works in the brain and how to spot the root cause of your desires, you too can overcome dopamine addiction.

1. Misery turns humans into pleasure addicts who can’t deal with discomfort.
2. Our brains build resistance to dopamine over time, and that’s a bad thing. 
3. Ironically, pain can help us tap into our dopamine reserves. 

Let’s discuss them to reveal some interesting insights!

Going through life, there’s plenty of misery and unhappiness we’ll face, just as there are many happy and beautiful moments we’ll witness. However, it seems that we’re not too good when it comes to dealing with pain, so we try to cover it up with small, but effective doses of pleasure.

Frankly, everyone has an addiction. If you feel bored , chances are you’ll turn to your phone for a quick distraction. When you feel numb or sad, you can always drown that feeling in alcohol or other drugs, just like you can treat anxiety and stress with just a pill. 

Dopamine is a constantly surrounding temptation, so in order to stop the overindulgence, you’ll have to restrict your access to these stimuli.

If you’re on your way to school or work, try not listening to music or to your podcast for a change. Instead, let your thoughts run free and enjoy the present. 

If you feel like you’re becoming stressed, just deal with the feeling. Listen to your inner voice and try to find what it is that your mind is trying so hard to cover up. Find your source of distress or misery and cure it. 

If you learn to tolerate slight discomforts and deal with your emotions instead of tuning out and reaching for the quickest source of dopamine, you’ll train your brain to become stronger. To become more independent and emotionally aware, you’ll have to go through certain unpleasant moments in life and face them directly.

Just like a drug addict, we go back to our sources of dopamine every time we need a new dose of pleasure. However, as we consume more of them, our brain starts to get used to the feeling and builds resistance.

Thus, more of that source of dopamine is required to maintain the level of pleasure. This process is called neuroadaptation , and it can lead to serious addiction.

One of the major downsides of a dopamine addiction is the pain that comes with it. As we build resistance, we find that we can’t live without dopamine, so we start to have cravings that may look like crankiness, moodiness, anxiety, or even physical imbalances.

Moreover, as we consume the things that give us pleasure, we find that they no longer fulfill our needs like they used to. Pleasure isn’t free, as it is followed by pain. However, if we fight the cravings and the rest of the symptoms, our brain starts to go back to its normal state.

The balance between the mind, body, and spirit can be restored, as long as the damage hasn’t occurred for too long and the dopamine source wasn’t too harmful. Pornography or video games are considered harmful, but low-risk activities. Consuming drugs, on the other hand, can be life-threatening.

By now you already know that pleasure is inevitably followed by pain, and that too much of it can cause high levels of damage to our brain and body.

However, used the other way around, pain can help us achieve pleasure and increase our dopamine levels. Ironic, isn’t it? Let me break it down for you in a simple explanation!

If you like going to the gym, or you’re a sports person, you know how hard it is to get up and stick to your routine, and even while doing your exercises, how that muscle pain feels like.

After all, you’re subjecting your body to a short-term traumatic event . However, the benefits that come afterward are tremendous.

Not only does it enhance your dopamine levels, but it also promotes a healthier body in the long run. The same goes for intermittent fasting, cold showers, and many other examples.

Subjecting your body to such activities increases its resistance and builds up a stronger natural immune system in time. As such, pain that is followed by pleasure is a healthy, healing option for us, but not so much the other way around.

Dopamine Nation explores how overflowing sources of dopamine can become a burden to carry. Although the constant availability of resources looks like a good thing from the outside, it can lead to serious problems and the avoidance of discomfort in our society.

However, by learning to use pain to our advantage and fighting the urge to indulge in the nearest dopamine source, we can become balanced individuals who live healthy, addiction-free lives.

The 30-year-old gambler who wants to fight his addiction, the 35-year-old person who is looking to better themself and create a healthier routine in their life, or the 40-year-old life coach who is looking to learn more about the root causes of misery and how to fight them, so as to deliver better advice to their customers.