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Observe if those you’re speaking to are moving toward or away, by asking what that person wants.
If they start listing things they don’t want (they don’t want to fail, they don’t want to be stuck in the same dead-end job) or talking about what they do want (a family, to succeed at their job) then you’ll know how to direct the conversation.
If you’re looking to be persuasive with someone, you want to see things through their eyes and communicate in a way they can relate to.
Part of establishing trust, or being able to convince someone, is sensing the different needs of different people.
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Cutting the ties for good when it’s over puts you on a faster path to healing.
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Coping with the end of a relationship is a little bit like a 12 step program. You will reach acceptance far sooner by staying away from that person.
Don’t over-analyze what could have been different. Your mission now is to get to the place where you aren’t battling with yourself about the way things are. Do this with compassion and don’t beat yourself up.