The people you surround yourself with and work with will define your Net-worth in 2022. Always remember, Network is your Net-worth. It doesn’t matter if you are a corporate employee or a freelancer, the only way to earn more is through networking.

Your Network Is Your Networth!

<ul><li>People will network with you when they realize what value you can bring to the table.</li><li>Learn from the experienced and valuable people around you.</li></ul>

Be a Person of Value

<ul><li>In the first meeting with a successful person, go with no Agenda.</li><li>Focus on the bonding.</li><li>Implement the ‘No asshole’ rule.</li><li>Be a friend, then break the ice.</li></ul>

Meeting Hacks

<ul><li>It’s Okay to give more importance to others and learn from them.</li><li>Don’t hesitate to ask questions.</li><li>Demonstrate curiosity.</li><li>It will help you find more opportunities in different industries.</li></ul>

Always be curious

<ul><li>Always send an appreciation message/email after your first meeting.</li><li>Focus 50% on bonding and 50% on discussing career/business perspectives.</li><li>It will help you know if you can work with the person for a longer period.</li></ul>

Appreciation

<ul><li>Always execute fast after the meeting regarding what has been discussed in the meeting.</li><li>It shows your interest and how focused you are on making things happen.</li></ul>

Fast execution strength

<ul><li>Collaboration is the key to growth.</li><li>LinkedIn and Twitter are the Networking weapons of 2022.</li></ul>

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These ideas are the spot on ways to increase your network and eventually your network is your networth.

The people you surround yourself with and work with will define your Net-worth in 2022. Always remember, Network is your Net-worth. It doesn’t matter if you are a corporate employee or a freelancer, the only way to earn more is through networking. In this blog, I will discuss Networking hacks to use in 2022 to

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23 years in the FBI taught Agent LaRae Quy how to spot deception when it counts.

An FBI Agent's 8 Ways to Spot a Liar

Come across as empathetic in conversation, and you'll get the person to open up more than when you are cold and accusatory.

1. Build rapport.

A deceptive person will try to anticipate your questions, so that their answers sound instinctive and natural. They may even practice answering specific questions ahead of time.Ask them something they don't expect, and they'll stumble.

2. Surprise them.

Liars tend to speak more than truthful people in an attempt to sound legitimate and win over their audience. They will also use more complex sentences to hide the truth.

3. Listen more than you speak.

"No" is a key word to observe if you suspect someone is trying to mislead you.A person is often demonstrating deceptive behavior when they:·       say "no" and look in a different direction;·       say "no" and close their eyes;·       say "no" after hesitating;·       say "noooooooo," stretched over a long period of time;·       say "no" in a singsong manner.

4. Pay attention to how they say "No."

A subtle change in a person's deportment can be a strong sign of deception.Be careful if a person:·       exhibits lapses in memory at critical times (despite being alert in earlier conversation);·       answers questions with very short answers, refusing to provide details;·       begins speaking more formally (this is a sign the person is getting stressed);·       uses extreme superlatives or exaggerated responses (everything is "awesome" or "brilliant" instead of good).

5. Watch for changes in behavior.

Truthful people tend to add details and remember more facts as they repeat their story. Liars, on the other hand, memorize their stories and try to keep them the same. (If they add details, they often don't add up.) If you suspect someone is being deceptive, ask the person to recall events backward rather than forward in time.For example, start at the end of a story and ask them to explain what happened right before that point. And then, before that... and so on.For truthful people, this makes recall easier. Liars often simplify the story to avoid contradicting themselves.

6. Ask for the story backward.

Don't get me wrong, there are genuinely nice people in the world. But watch out if someone is trying too hard to make a good impression.Agreeing with all of your opinions, constantly offering praise, and laughing at all of your jokes are signs that one lacks authenticity and sincerity.

7. Beware of too many compliments.

Of course, none of us want to be lied to. But it's important to remember that people are uneasy with certain questions due to personal embarrassment, or because they are extremely dependent on the outcome of the conversation.If you're puzzled by a response, explore with follow-up questions. When in doubt, continue to ask discerning questions. In time, you'll be able to spot deceit like a pro.

8. Ask follow up questions.

“To find out if she really loved me, I hooked her up to a lie detector. And just as I suspected, my machine was broken. ”-Dark Jar Tin Zoo

Funny Lie Detector Quote

23 years in the FBI taught this entrepreneur how to spot deception when it counts.

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Workplace stress is increasingly becoming a larger part of the conversation since the pandemic.Reports indicate that the number of people seeking help with stress or anxiety has increased by 55%, according to a study by a mental health services provider in the United Kingdom.In 2021, 822,000 workers in the U.K. suffered from work-related stress, depression, or anxiety.

Workplace Stress

Stress is our body's response to pressureOften a sign you've pushed yourself too far without making time to consider whether what you're doing is sustainableAs ambitious high achievers, we ultimately want to go the distance, but going the distance is impossible when struck with migraines, low moods, anxiety, and irritability

The Root Cause Of Stress

<ul><li>Stress is unique to each person. For some, stress is incapacitating, while others actually need a bit of stress to keep them motivated.</li><li>It's easy to slip into the idea that if you take your foot off the pedal, even for one second, everything will come crashing down.</li><li>The issue with this thinking is that you are denying yourself an opportunity to refuel, despite being on a marathon of the mind for years on end.</li></ul>

Take A Break: Things Will Work Without You

<ul><li>Dealing with strain becomes significantly easier when we are fulfilled as people.</li><li>Managing stress becomes a possibility when we've invested the time to become bigger versions of who we are.</li><li>Life as a high achiever comes with challenges, greet those challenges as someone who has been given every possible opportunity to cope with it.</li></ul>

A Bigger Version Of Ourselves

<ul><li>Leaders need to address the responsibility of leaders in the fight against work-related stress</li><li>Creating an environment that prioritizes flexibility, mental and physical well-being, personal growth, and open channels of communication are steps toward combating stress for high achievers.</li></ul>

What Leaders Can Do

For high-achieving professionals working in competitive fields, it’s important to find the best way to preserve your mental resilience.

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How to deal with stress while working in a demanding industry

<ul><li>A person who is in state of flow is at his maximum potential & productivity , can complete task faster than any other time of day.</li><li>In martial arts , "State of flow/State like water" is when a person's body do work or reacts without thinking i.e. instinctively.</li></ul>

What Is Flow Of State

<ul><li>When you are doing your best work & are in a total state of flow, where there is no separation between you and your work you're doing, you're having NO THOUGHTS in the moment.</li><li>And if you're having thoughts, it's just FLOWING RIGHT THROUGH you without you having to thing about it.</li><li>In other words, for humans "the state of peak performance is state of non-thinking"</li></ul>"Think less, work more"

How To Achieve It? 

<ul><li>As there are no wrong or right keys on piano , there are only decisions or "keys" that are more pleasant than others.</li><li>Similarly , do tasks in "STEP-WISE Linked" manner; means</li></ul><ol><li>Start the task.</li><li>Break it in parts (link every completed part with upcoming part).</li><li>Complete one-by-one part till finishing the task</li></ol>

How To Know What To Do Without Thinking? 

"Anxiety is thought without control,Flow is control without thought"

"The State of FLOW"  or non-thinking is when our productivity is at maximum & provides happiness, this is how to achieve it👇🏻

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The State of "FLOW" or "Zero THOUGHT" 

There are both practical and psychological reasons why a colleague might try to go above you, says Adam Galinsky, a professor at Columbia Business School and coauthor of "Friend and Foe: When to Cooperate, When to Compete, and How to Succeed at Both". Practically speaking, they may want a different answer or outcome than you’ve given. Psychologically, it’s possible that they’re keen to show they have more clout or authority than you do. It could also be that they’re conflict averse and afraid to address the issue with you directly.

What The Experts Say

Webb suggests you start by considering what you actually know. You may think your coworker went over your head to spite you, but perhaps you’re misreading the situation. Look at only the facts and avoid snap judgments. For example, rather than thinking, “He completely disregarded my authority,” tell yourself, “He had a conversation with my boss about the initiative he’s working on.”

Question Your Assumption

If you don’t know all the facts of the situation – perhaps you just heard about the conversation through the office rumor mill – try to find out what really happened, says Webb. You might go to your boss and ask in a neutral way about what transpired: “Hey, I heard you and Carlos were talking about his new idea.” Take care to maintain a casual, non-accusatory tone so that your boss doesn’t think you’re trying to start a feud.

Find Out More

Ask your coworker if the two of you can talk — preferably in a private room. Keep an open mind as you enter the conversation, says Webb. “Don’t go into the conversation with the intention of sticking it to your coworker. Instead think about the importance of your working relationship.” Focus on your ultimate goal, whether it’s to restore trust or to protect your authority. And be ready to hear what he has to say about the situation and why he did what he did.

Approach Your Colleague

Begin by saying what you know in a “straightforward” way, says Galinsky. Explain why you’re disappointed, but stay away from words like “angry” or “betrayed,” Webb adds. That may be how you feel, but it’s going to put your coworker on the defensive. You might say something like: “I heard you talked to Roger about your initiative after we discussed it and that made me feel a bit concerned that we’re not communicating well.” Then ask for — and listen to — his perspective.

State Your Position 

Once you’ve shared your views with one another, decide together how to remedy the situation. “Try asking them for their thoughts first, then build on their suggestions. Research shows that people feel far more attachment to any idea that they’ve had a hand in shaping,” explains Webb.

Problem-Solve Together 

You should also discuss how you’ll handle similar situations in the future. Ideally, you and your colleague will agree that she should come directly to you next time. But if she’s not immediately on board with that plan, try to show her that going over your head is not only hurtful; it’s also ineffective, says Galinsky. Explain that you and your boss are in regular contact, so you’re going to find out if someone goes over your head. You might say, “I meet with Roger regularly to discuss our group’s priorities and he usually lets me know if he gets requests from other teams.”

Clarify The Lines Of Communication 

This breach in the chain of command may have annoyed your boss or caused her to question your ability to do your job. And, if she failed to redirect the colleague to you, you might be ticked off at her. So, once you’ve settled things with your colleague, make sure to also sit down with your manager to talk about what happened, why it happened, and how to avoid similar situations in the future. Again, lay out what you know and how it made you feel, then listen to her perspective: “I heard that Carlos talked to you about his initiative and that made me concerned that I might be out of the loop.

Repair Your Relationship With Your Boss

<ul><li>Keep an open mind and be willing to hear your coworker’s side of the story.</li><li>Avoid words like “angry” or “betrayed.” Even if authentic, they will put your coworker on the defensive.</li><li>Talk to your boss to be sure your reputation isn’t damaged.</li></ul>

Principles To Remember Do's 

<ul><li>Make assumptions about why your colleague went over your head.</li><li>Rely on rumors and hearsay. Instead, find out the true facts of the situation.</li><li>Leave next time up to chance — ask your boss to redirect your coworker to you.</li></ul>

Principles To Remember Don'ts 

What can you say and do when someone tries to sidestep you?

What to Do When a Coworker Goes Over Your Head

The after-hours unwanted struggles of a salaried employee in 21 Century.Every one of us has received that one annoying email on a day off that we dreaded opening. With the advent of technology and the transition of our workplace from brick and mortar structure to that little corner in our house, there is no clear defining line where work ends. For a long time, many have let those after-hours communications slide but major changes are coming to ensure the grunts of your boss don’t reach your home, well at least not after hours.

Is there a Right to Disconnect?

All around the world, disgruntled employees have made it very clear that they do not wish to receive any work-related communication post-work. Governments are trying to table laws to please the common populace while employers have already either started falling in line or are working around the clock to circumvent the proposed changes by using diverse interpretations of the legal words.How does it concern you?If you are an employee and your workplace values you and your mental wellbeing, they should already have a written policy. Even if you are an employer then the reasons are same.

What's happening?

The new laws/policies, commonly referred to as the Right to Disconnect are been drafted but their implementation has been largely limited to countries in the European Union and a few South American nations. In some countries, especially in Europe, the right to disconnect is somehow incorporated into the law, but it may also be included in the policies of many large corporations. Many countries have tabled and passed bills of similar nature like Chile, Peru, and Canada (Ontario’s Bill 27), whereas others are struggling to pass the draft beyond the committee levels like the City of New York.

What’s happening across the globe?

<ul><li>If companies cannot negotiate an agreement with employees on the use of information and communications technology, they are required to adopt an employer-created “charter”.</li><li>It is not made with the new Hybrid & WFH (work from home) routines and is centred around the traditional workday.</li><li>It can not be applied feasibly to sectors where a routine workday can not be defined like healthcare workers.</li><li>These policies may make employers take a strict line with employees forcing them to take time off to attend to personal matters during work hours and work later without overtime pay.</li></ul>

What is not clear:

<ul><li>The act of contacting an employee in case of emergency can not accurately be defined as to what is considered an emergency and under what context would it be compensated.</li></ul>While the laws are surely a step in the right direction and aspirational, it doesn’t clearly differentiate between different job types, and sectors. It is open to interpretation and the possibility of future amendments. Further research on this ever-changing job market is required to implement future amends and provide employees with a healthy balance so they can exercise their right to rest, and privacy.

What's Not Clear:

The after-hours unwanted struggles of a salaried employee in 21 Century.

Every one of us has received that one annoying email on a day off that we dreaded opening. With the advent of technology and the transition of our workplace from brick and mortar structure to that…

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if you fail 5 times,6th time, you will be better.JUST DO NOT STOP. -kunal shah, CRED

<ul><li>think big </li><li>act small. </li><li>start now! </li></ul>

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Most people overestimate what they can do in a day, and underestimate what they can do in a month

"The more refined and subtle our minds, the more vulnerable they are"

you do not need to be successful every time you try to solve a problem, but the key thing is to learn something from it and improve on your self-knowledge on the topic.

What is easy to do is also easy not to.

In an age of mental gluttony, meditation is fasting for the mind. Before paying a therapist to listen to you, listen to yourself. Before clearing your inbox, clear your mind.

If you assimilated five ideas and made them your life and character, you have more education than any man who has got by heart a whole library.

Your fears are as real as you make them.

calm the stomachmove the bodyrest the mind+ my additions[fuck the object(objective)improve the process]

I could watch a piece of grass grow for 20 years.I am a patient mother fucker. I am like a monk.

Understand yourself and those around you.

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The old school method of job progression is dead for two reasons:<ul><li>Job security is dead, no more staying at the one company forever.</li><li>The internet and technology has created the means for much more flexible work styles.</li></ul>

The Death Of Job Security

Entrepreneurship is like dating – failures are unavoidable and are a part of learning. What matters most is resilience.If the pursuit of a risky dream imparts useful business skills along the journey, then even in the worst case, the pursuer ends up learning useful skills.

That Risky Dream

<ul><li>Street smarts & practice, where you’ve learned it “in the real world” and know how to apply it. Only learned by doing it.</li><li>Theoretical, abstract knowledge you get from books and school that doesn’t have a tie to your experience and the real world. Harder to apply.</li></ul>

Two Kinds Of Knowledge

Impact requires venturing into the unknown (whose risk most people avoid) and leadership (which acts as a multiplier of impact).Four steps:<ul><li>Get financial stability: Get rid of debts, and have some savings.</li><li>Create room for experimentation: Figure out a job schedule which allows for experimentation</li><li>Begin experimentation: Use money from step 1 to experiment around (while keeping the source of money around)</li><li>Strike out on your own: Either as a part of the current organization or on your own, follow the direction set by a successful experiment from step 3</li></ul>

Making An Impact: On Your Own

Two powerful questions for making connections and providing value to people:<ul><li>What’s most exciting for you right now in your life/ business?</li><li>What’s challenging for you in your life/ business right now?</li></ul>

The Two Questions

Great networking is not about the back-and-forth, it’s about giving with no expectation of anything in return.There are two basic ways to find great connections<ul><li>Find people with great future potential and help them in reaching their goal</li><li>Add some value to the life of someone who is already established (common areas being personal finance, relationships, health, hobbies, and causes or a specialized skill which could be of use to the receiver) or connect them to someone where a connection could create a win-win potential for both parties</li></ul>

Making Worthwhile Connections

The general perception of marketing is that it’s sleazy and manipulative, the reality is that good marketing is making your potential customers know about you (or your company).A lot of businesses fail because they are not able to reach out to the right customers.

Marketing: Don't Let Your Company Remain Obscure

People don’t talk about the best-writing author; they talk about the best-selling author.

<ul><li>One can get better at a particular craft but being able to sell oneself is equally important (successful people in a craft are not always the best individuals of that craft).</li><li>Success is a skill – it consists of the skill of marketing, the skill of sales and skill of leadership.</li><li>Sales are about knowing what customer needs and if you have a good solution/product, offering it.</li><li>Leadership is about being able to influence (not manipulate) people not control them.</li></ul>

Sales As A Leadership Skill

Learning as an adult: Adults need a reason to learn something, they are involved in planning as well as evaluation, more interested in subjects having immediate relevance, more interest in problem-oriented (as oppose to content-oriented), and prefer more self-directed education (as oppose to taught).

Investing for Success: Learning

Your brand is what people think about when they hear your name.One should have a website under his/her name to establish the brand.<a href="http://scobleizer.com/">Robert Scoble</a> started blogging when there were ~200 blogs in the world. Worked in NEC sales dept, eventually hired by Microsoft and that did not go well. Currently, working as the public face of Rackspace. His biggest credential being able to build his professional presence at the right time.

Building Your Brand

<ul><li>An entrepreneurial mindset focuses on contribution, outcome and moves towards big decisions even without authority.</li><li>The employee mindset, on the other hand, focuses on entitlement, output, and turns away even from small decisions.</li><li>Entrepreneurs see current circumstances as temporary, but employees seem them as permanent.</li></ul>

Entrepreneurial vs. Employee Mindset

Entrepreneurial mindset people carve out their path as oppose to working on the path carved out by someone else.<a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/C%C3%A9sar_Ritz">Caesar Ritz</a> started as a waiter, but he looked at himself in a waiter role, as a transitional point, to hotel manager one day.<a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Louis_Marx">Louis Marx</a> fought hard with his employer (Ferdinand Strauss) to shut down the retail business and focus solely on toy manufacturing. He failed, so, he left and started his own company (Louis Marx and Company) which became the largest toy manufacturer in 1920s.

Work Yourself Out Of Your Job, To Take A Bigger Role

Move out of that bad job and do something on our own.

Some of the smartest, most successful people in the country didn’t finish college. None of them learned their most critical skills at an institution of higher education. And like them, most of what you’ll need to learn to be successful you’ll have to learn on your own, outside of school. Michael Ellsberg set out to fill in the missing pieces by interviewing a wide range of millionaires and billionaires who don’t have college de­grees, including fashion magnate Russell Simmons and Facebook found­ing president Sean Parker. This book is your guide to developing practical success skills in the real world: how to find great mentors, build a world-class network, make your work meaningful (and your meaning work), build the brand of you, and more. Learning these skills is a necessary addition to any education, whether you’re a high school dropout or graduate of Harvard Law School.

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Some of the smartest, most successful people in the country didn’t finish college. None of them learned their most critical skills at an institution of higher education. And like them, most of what you’ll need to learn to be successful you’ll have to learn on your own, outside of school.Michael Ellsberg set out to fill in the missing pieces by interviewing a wide range of millionaires and billionaires who don’t have college de­grees, including fashion magnate Russell Simmons and Facebook found­ing president Sean Parker.This book is your guide to developing practical success skills in the real world: how to find great mentors, build a world-class network, make your work meaningful (and your meaning work), build the brand of you, and more. Learning these skills is a necessary addition to any education, whether you’re a high school dropout or graduate of Harvard Law School.

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The Education of Millionaires

Offices come with multiple benefits, including enabling colleagues to feed off each other's energy.Having an office space where you have good light and a good environment can just make you feel a little inspired, and enables you to be a bit more brave.

An Ode To The Office

<a href="https://www.pwc.com/gx/en/issues/workforce/hopes-and-fears-2022.html">11% of US workers would prefer to work full-time in the office, and 62% said they’d like to spend at least some</a> time there. More than half (51%) of managers are also confident their <a href="https://www.goodhire.com/resources/articles/the-great-return-manager-survey/">employees would be keen to return to the office full-time</a>.The motivations may vary – some long for the sociability of the office, while others prefer a clear boundary between work and home. Companies will need to work out how to accommodate the needs of people who want to be in offices as well as those who don’t, as they map out their post-pandemic working models.

The Hidden Story: People Want To Come To Office

While many people love the flexibility that remote work brings, for others the loss of an office environment and the social contact it provides can be a major blow.Not having a routine where you get up, leave the house, and socialize and interact with other people throughout the day can massively <a href="http://www.bbc.com/worklife/article/20220616-is-remote-work-worse-for-wellbeing-than-people-think">affect your mental health</a>. Not to leave your house for long periods of time isn't good for you.

In Favor Of Commuting To Office Daily

In a survey of full-time remote workers, two thirds are concerned about missing out on development opportunities by being based at home.Only 40% of UK workers surveyed by employment and HR specialists are confident that office-based and home-based staff will be rewarded equally in the next 12 months.

Office Equals The Work Mode

Working in an office to learning at a university campus.Your brain automatically switches to a ‘work mode’ when you're surrounded by colleagues who are hard at work. The smell of ink from the printer, the silent tapping on the keyboards, the quiet chatter in the coffee room, all of that truly helps. It's the atmosphere of the place that puts you in the working mood and raises your productivity.

The Campus Analogy

Companies need to create a culture of communication and flexibility to meet employees’ needs. For those businesses requiring people to work remotely, that includes creating more opportunities for staff to connect via company-wide socials, regular check-ins from line managers and turning video calling into the default mode of catching up rather than email.It encourages employees to stay connected and helps reduce loneliness and fatigue.

What Companies Can Do

The loudest voices may be remote-work advocates, but plenty of other people can’t get back to the office fast enough.

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The people who hate working from home

The mass exodus of nearly 48 million workers in 2021, known as the Great Resignation, is turning into regret as people realise that the pastures are not greener on the other side. However, people aren’t willing to grovel before their ex-employers or continue to be unsatisfied. Most people are tired of transactional businesses. They want their work to be meaningful. That’s why it would be wise to cultivate a level of trust that connects your team members deeply and create stronger relationships.

People desire meaningful work

We all carry emotional baggage but tend to be less compassionate when we are unaware of what others are carrying. Cultivating intimacy at work means understanding and honouring each other’s tender spots. It requires vulnerability and openness. Try a simple exercise with your team where everyone shares one emotional thing. You set the tone, so go first and share some challenging moments in your life. You may be surprised to see how many people want to open up.

Unpack issues as a group

If a stranger approached you and asked why you work for your company, what would you say? Most employees would say that they had some early success or that it was their first job. However, these answers are either tied to what is unique about the person nor does it connect to the company’s mission. Lead by example: Figure out your “why” and share it with your team. People want to work with others who feel they truly belong.

Find your why

There is value in sharing your story that explains why you do what you do. Think back to the time you first felt unsafe, then consider what you did to feel safe again. That’s your superpower that you probably used to find your way to success.  Giving people the freedom and safety to share their stories will create a positive domino effect. You’ll see your employees be more creative, innovative and confident. They’ll be more willing to take risks at work. This will cause them to realize their personal and professional growth.

Unearth a shared story

Cultivating a sense of intimacy and connection at work

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