Waiting for that "special someone" to magically appear in your close social circle isn't going to cut it. You need to go out and talk to people. Take matters in your hands. This is the reality for most people. Go to parties, social meetings or any place you feel like you have the courage to meet new people.

Getting To Know People

In social media you can literally be whoever you want. You can add filters to alter your physical appearance. You can delay and think your answers for as much as you like. You've living a life out of sync. Physical contact and close interaction is everything. It's straight forward. That's how humans are programmed to interact and that's how you should do it too. Observe the other person's facial expressions and body language and judge for yourself. Hear their voice, smell their scent and feel their touch. Don't be limited to using one sense instead of all 5.

Always Prefer Face To Face Interaction

This is a must. It's the base of everything. No matter what your style is, being clean and fresh is non-negotiable. Take a shower, change underwear, brush your teeth. Nobody likes to feel like smelling the inside of a septic tank everytime you open your mouth (unless they have a fetish or something wild like that, then you do you). Work on your mental health before dating, the other person is not your babysitter or your therapist. Do NOT talk about your exes, do NOT talk about your insecurities. If you must say you feel a little nervous that's ok, it can make you feel relaxed and open up.

Take Care Of Yourself Physically And Emotionally

Failing means learning and learning is good. The first times are going to feel painful. Failing at anything is unpleasant, but it's the only way to get your feedback and improve yourself. Accept rejection as a part of the process and don't fear it. Try to analyze what went wrong and where you can do better to have a different outcome next time. Failing is the main part of becoming successful at anything really.

You Will Fail. You MUST Fail.

Leave the cliché openers where they belong: in the trash. Nobody is gonna sleep with you or date you just because you said 10 words you saw on the internet. Be straight forward, be clear about your intentions and about the reason you approached the person in the first place. Leave no space for misunderstanding. It's not what you say specifically but how you say it. Be confident, believe in yourself. Keep your style and your humour because that's what you're gonna actually have in 2 or 3 months time. You can't keep faking forever.

Approaching The Other Person

Start new hobbies, read a lot of different things and generally don't stick to only doing one thing in your life. Everybody wants to have an inspiring and interesting person by their side. Being able to converse about a lot of things opens up your chances in the dating market by a A LOT, don't be a one-trick-pony because you're limiting yourself. Having common things to talk about is really important in the long run, you can't rely on small talk forever.

Be Versatile

Just because you're the one making the move doesn't mean the other person isn't afraid or stressed. Always make the other person feel as if they've known you for years. Pick up the conversation when it seems like it's dying and don't forget to let the other person speak. A person that feels they can let their inner child free is instantly a potential partner. Actively listen to the other person because it can always help you continue the conversation later and it shows you are able to care. Always face the other person as a simple human, just like you, not some kind of higher being

Understand That The Other Person Is Afraid As Well

You might be the most cultivated, the most interesting, the most "you name it" person in the world, but the other person might still not be interested in you or even find you boring. Many will also reject you for your looks. That's ok, that's great actually. Not everybody matches. They save both of you time with the honest rejection. Do not play the "friendship" card, people are not machines that you put kindness coins in them and they'll eventually love you. Take the loss because it's only a battle and not the war. Move on, no hard feelings. If the person says no, it's a no.

It's Not All About You

You've had your fair share of social interactions, you even feel like you are pretty good at communicating, but when it comes to dating or even talking to someone romantically/sexually , things don't seem to work out. Here's what might help:

Understand yourself and those around you.

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𝐑𝐞𝐦𝐞𝐦𝐛𝐞𝐫 𝐛𝐢𝐭𝐬 𝐨𝐟 𝐢𝐧𝐟𝐨𝐫𝐦𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐚𝐛𝐨𝐮𝐭 𝐚 𝐩𝐞𝐫𝐬𝐨𝐧 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐭𝐫𝐲 𝐰𝐨𝐫𝐤𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐦 𝐢𝐧𝐭𝐨 𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐬𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬 𝐰𝐡𝐢𝐜𝐡 𝐬𝐡𝐨𝐰𝐬 𝐢𝐧𝐭𝐞𝐫𝐞𝐬𝐭. 𝐏𝐞𝐨𝐩𝐥𝐞 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐡𝐢𝐠𝐡 𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐟-𝐞𝐬𝐭𝐞𝐞𝐦 𝐡𝐚𝐯𝐞 𝐥𝐨𝐧𝐠𝐞𝐫 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐦𝐨𝐫𝐞 𝐬𝐮𝐜𝐜𝐞𝐬𝐬𝐟𝐮𝐥 𝐫𝐞𝐥𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬𝐡𝐢𝐩𝐬.

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Glass is transparent, colourless and these makes it invisible even though it is valuable. This is because glass doesn't absorbWe should be like glass, shouldn't absorb any emotions, shouldn't judge anyone, letting people express themselves. This will make us valuable and we are scared of becoming invisible

Being In The Moment

Porcelain used to be the symbol of wealth and power. Ring any porcelain cup to test it and it should reverberate. If it isn't fully formed then it won't be able to transmit through the cracks and sound becomes dullWhen we are fully formed we should be able to reverberate knowledge insted of making it fall through our cracks. knowledge is wealth and power

Wealth And Power

Materials around us are the complex expression of our needs and desires. In a way they give us our identity

Identity

At atomic, nano, micro, macro, miniature and human scales the non living and living things are made of same things. The difference is the extra connection achieved by having communication across these scalesExtra communication, extra connection, extra liveliness in our lives

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A New York Times Bestseller An eye-opening adventure deep inside the everyday materials that surround us, packed with surprising stories and fascinating science Why is glass see-through? What makes elastic stretchy? Why does a paper clip bend? Why does any material look and behave the way it does? These are the sorts of questions that Mark Miodownik is constantly asking himself. A globally-renowned materials scientist, Miodownik has spent his life exploring objects as ordinary as an envelope and as unexpected as concrete cloth, uncovering the fascinating secrets that hold together our physical world. In Stuff Matters, Miodownik entertainingly examines the materials he encounters in a typical morning, from the steel in his razor and the graphite in his pencil to the foam in his sneakers and the concrete in a nearby skyscraper. He offers a compendium of the most astounding histories and marvelous scientific breakthroughs in the material world, including: <ul><li>The imprisoned alchemist who saved himself from execution by creating the first European porcelain.</li><li>The hidden gem of the Milky Way, a planet five times the size of Earth, made entirely of diamond.</li><li>Graphene, the thinnest, strongest, stiffest material in existence--only a single atom thick--that could be used to make entire buildings sensitive to touch.</li></ul>From the teacup to the jet engine, the silicon chip to the paper clip, the plastic in our appliances to the elastic in our underpants, our lives are overflowing with materials. Full of enthralling tales of the miracles of engineering that permeate our lives, Stuff Matters will make you see stuff in a whole new way.

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Technology gives huge leverage to smaller populations and groups. It removes the advantage of number. When we go down this path it makes people to have lesser and lesser interactions with other people as the technology is taking away the necessity and dependency Is there a technology that brings back the necessity of interactions ? Yep I think it's human brain

Boons And Banes Of Technology

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Technology and Human interactions 

𝐂𝐨𝐮𝐩𝐥𝐞𝐬 𝐰𝐡𝐨 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐢𝐧 𝐥𝐨𝐯𝐞 𝐬𝐩𝐞𝐧𝐝 𝐦𝐨𝐫𝐞 𝐭𝐢𝐦𝐞 𝐦𝐚𝐤𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐞𝐲𝐞 𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐭𝐚𝐜𝐭. 𝐀𝐥𝐰𝐚𝐲𝐬 𝐭𝐫𝐲 𝐭𝐨 𝐦𝐚𝐢𝐧𝐭𝐚𝐢𝐧 𝐞𝐲𝐞 𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐭𝐚𝐜𝐭, 𝐚𝐬 𝐢𝐭 𝐢𝐬 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐩𝐫𝐢𝐦𝐚𝐫𝐲 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐩𝐨𝐰𝐞𝐫𝐟𝐮𝐥 𝐭𝐨𝐨𝐥 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐚𝐭𝐭𝐫𝐚𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐚 𝐩𝐨𝐭𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐢𝐚𝐥 𝐝𝐚𝐭𝐞.

𝐀𝐦𝐚𝐳𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐅𝐚𝐜𝐭 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐬𝐡𝐨𝐮𝐥𝐝 𝐤𝐧𝐨𝐰...

Couples who are In Love Spend More Time Making Eye Contact

Without transparency of our thoughts the communications becomes a twisted mazes

Transparency

Human Interactions 

"In a society that convinces us that our parents are a hindrance and a burden. We often forget that our parents are in reality our most precious allies "

I've seen persons who are capable of abandoning their parents when they start to get old. But then, maybe it's because they had a difficult childhood, because of abusive treatment, we're not in other people's lives. And that type of situations are not concerned by my reflection. Many people say that they are in no way indebted to their parents, that they owe them nothing, that they have no responsibility towards them. And they say these words with sush pride, such disdain...it's incomprehensible.....

The Sensitive Subject : Parents

Your parents are the ones brought you up. Took care of you when you couldn't, loved you (and there's nothing purer than the love of a mother or a father). Accepted you as you are, forgiven your mistakes, guided you when you were lost. They're the ones who helped you when you fell. When you reach a crisis, they're the only ones who'll reach out to you without you even having to ask. And if you do, they won't hesitate for a second. THE ONLY PEOPLE YOU CAN TURN AND WALK AWAY FROM, WHEN YOU COME BACK THEY'LL WELCOME YOU WITH OPEN ARMS AND HEARTS. In a society that convinces us that parents are...

Only love byyyeee🌷﻿Never forget to think because the truth will never be handed to you on a silver platter.

Read, think by yourself and find the truth...

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Mindfulness

×A bit of awareness×

Complexity of interactions is filtered out by distance. Farther the distance in relationship, superficial is the conversation

When silence and communication both doesn't work only thing remaining is fight for survival

Dark Forest

Love might look like a weakness for survival however it's the only way for sustainable growth in the dark forest of universe

Ultimate Weapon

Encouraging the seeds of love towards others is a goal worth taking risk for

Worthy Goal

Hope of love is like the sun illuminating the dark forest with light

Hope

Without communication the chain of suspicion grows many levels and leads to never ending battles

Chain Of Suspicion

Soon to be a Netflix Original Series! "Wildly imaginative." —President Barack Obama on The Three-Body Problem trilogy This near-future trilogy is the first chance for English-speaking readers to experience this multiple-award-winning phenomenon from Cixin Liu, China's most beloved science fiction author. In The Dark Forest, Earth is reeling from the revelation of a coming alien invasion-in just four centuries' time. The aliens' human collaborators may have been defeated, but the presence of the sophons, the subatomic particles that allow Trisolaris instant access to all human information, means that Earth's defense plans are totally exposed to the enemy. Only the human mind remains a secret. This is the motivation for the Wallfacer Project, a daring plan that grants four men enormous resources to design secret strategies, hidden through deceit and misdirection from Earth and Trisolaris alike. Three of the Wallfacers are influential statesmen and scientists, but the fourth is a total unknown. Luo Ji, an unambitious Chinese astronomer and sociologist, is baffled by his new status. All he knows is that he's the one Wallfacer that Trisolaris wants dead. The Three-Body Problem Series The Three-Body Problem The Dark Forest Death's End Other Books Ball Lightning Supernova Era To Hold Up The Sky (forthcoming) At the Publisher's request, this title is being sold without Digital Rights Management Software (DRM) applied.

Liu Cixin is a Chinese computer engineer and science fiction writer. He is a nine-time winner of China's Galaxy Award and has also received the 2015 Hugo Award for his novel The Three-Body Problem as well as the 2017 Locus Award for Death's End. He is also a winner of the Chinese Nebula Award.

Cixin Liu

The Dark Forest

“The Code of the Extraordinary Mind” is a self-help book written by Vishen Lakhiani that explores the ways in which people can break free from limiting beliefs and societal norms in order to achieve their full potential. The book argues that most people are conditioned to live within the limits of their society’s expectations, but that it is possible to transcend these limitations and achieve greatness.

Introduction

The book is organized into 10 chapters, each of which focuses on a different aspect of breaking free from limiting beliefs and achieving success. Some key themes include the importance of questioning assumptions and challenging the status quo, the power of mindfulness and self-awareness, the importance of setting and achieving ambitious goals, and the role of positive relationships and communities in personal growth.

Final Introduction

The importance of questioning assumptions and challenging the status quo: Lakhiani argues that most people are conditioned to accept the status quo and to blindly follow societal norms, but that it is possible to break free from these limitations by questioning assumptions and challenging the status quo.

Here are a few key points from “The Code of the Extraordinary"

Lakhiani emphasizes the importance of mindfulness and self-awareness as a way to gain clarity and insight into one’s own thoughts and actions. He argues that being mindful allows people to break free from unconscious patterns of behavior and to make more conscious, deliberate choices.

The power of mindfulness and self-awareness

Lakhiani advises people to set ambitious goals for themselves and to take action towards achieving them. He argues that setting and achieving ambitious goals is a key way to break free from limitations and to achieve personal growth and fulfillment.

The Importance Of Setting And Achieving Ambitious Goals

Lakhiani argues that positive relationships and communities play a crucial role in personal growth and development. He advises people to surround themselves with supportive and positive individuals who can help them achieve their goals and to actively seek out communities that align with their values and goals.

The Role Of Positive Communities In Personal Growth

Lakhiani emphasizes the importance of cultivating gratitude and positive emotions as a way to increase happiness and well-being. He advises people to regularly practice gratitude and to focus on the positive aspects of their lives in order to cultivate a more positive mindset.

The Role Of Cultivating

Lakhiani argues that taking care of one’s physical health is crucial for overall well-being and personal growth. He advises people to prioritize exercise, nutrition, and sleep in order to maintain good physical health.

The importance of taking care of one’s physical health

Lakhiani advises people to adopt a growth mindset, which is characterized by a belief in one’s ability to learn and grow. He argues that having a growth mindset is key to achieving personal growth and success.

The importance of developing a growth mindset

Lakhiani advises people to have a clear purpose and vision for their lives, and to use this purpose and vision as a way to guide their actions and decisions. He argues that having a clear sense of purpose and direction is crucial for personal growth and fulfillment.

The importance of having a clear purpose and visio

Lakhiani emphasizes the importance of continuous learning and growth as a way to achieve personal development and success. He advises people to be proactive in seeking out new experiences and challenges in order to continue learning and growing.

The importance of continuous learning and growth

Lakhiani advises people to be willing to take risks and to embrace the possibility of failure. He argues that taking risks and being willing to fail are key to achieving success and personal growth.

The importance of taking risks and being willing to fail

Lakhiani emphasizes the importance of building strong relationships and communication skills as a way to achieve success and personal growth. He advises people to be proactive in building positive relationships and to work on developing strong communication skills.

The building of strong relationships and communication

Lakhiani advises people to be proactive and to take control of their lives in order to achieve their goals. He argues that being proactive and taking charge of one’s own life is key to achieving success and personal growth.

The proactive and taking control of one’s life'

Lakhiani emphasizes the importance of having a strong work ethic and discipline in order to achieve success and personal growth.

The importance of having a strong work ethic and discipline

In “The Code of the Extraordinary Mind,” Vishen Lakhiani argues that the key to achieving personal growth and success is to cultivate an Extraordinary Mind mindset. This mindset is characterized by a willingness to challenge assumptions and societal norms, and to strive for personal growth and fulfillment.One of the key components of the Extraordinary Mind mindset is flexibility. Lakhiani advises people to be open to new experiences and to be willing to change their beliefs and behaviors in response to new information.

Takeaway

Finally, cultivating an abundance mindset is crucial for personal growth and success. Lakhiani advises people to focus on abundance and abundance-oriented thinking in order to achieve their goals and create a fulfilling life.

Final Take

“The Extraordinary Mind is a mindset that allows you to create a life of fulfillment, rather than one of disappointment.”

Throughout the book, Lakhiani offers a variety of practical tools and exercises designed to help readers break free from limiting beliefs and achieve their full potential. He also shares stories and insights from a wide range of successful individuals, including entrepreneurs, artists, and spiritual leaders, to illustrate the principles he discusses. Overall, the key message of “The Code of the Extraordinary Mind” is that it is possible to break free from the limitations and expectations of society in order to live a truly fulfilling and extraordinary life.

Summary

We always have to be Extraordinary because we never know what people are learning and how perfect they are. I believe if I'm doing good then others are doing there best. If I walk with this mindset so I think I will be able to grow. So I feel competition is must 😇. SO GROW

NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER • What if everything we think we know about how the world works—our ideas of love, education, spirituality, work, happiness, and love—are based on Brules (bullsh*t rules) that get passed from generation to generation and are long past their expiration date? This book teaches you to think like some of the greatest non-conformist minds of our era, to question, challenge, hack, and create new rules for YOUR life so you can define success on your own terms. The Code of the Extraordinary Mind is a blueprint of laws to break us free from the shackles of an ordinary life. It makes a case that everything we know about the world is shaped by conditioning and habit. And thus, most people live their lives based on limiting rules and outdated beliefs about pretty much everything—love, work, money, parenting, sex, health, and more—which they inherit and pass on from generation to generation. But what if you could remove these outdated ideas and start anew? What would your life look like if you could forget the rules of the past, and redefine what happiness, purpose, and success mean for you? Not Just a Book, but a Movement Blending computational thinking, integral theory, modern spirituality, evolutionary biology, and humor, personal growth entrepreneur Vishen Lakhiani provides a revolutionary 10-point framework for understanding and enhancing the human self. You will learn about bending reality. You will learn how to apply unique models like consciousness engineering to help you learn and grow at speeds like never before.You will learn to make a dent in the universe and discover your quest. This framework is based on Lakhiani’s personal experiences, the 5 million people he’s reached through Mindvalley, and 200 hours of interviews and questions posed to incredible minds, including Elon Musk, Richard Branson, Peter Diamandis, Ken Wilber, Dean Kamen, Arianna Huffington, Michael Beckwith, and other legendary leaders. In a unique fusion of cutting-edge ideas, personal stories, irreverence, and a brilliant teaching style, Lakhiani reveals the 10 powerful laws that form a step-by-step process that you can apply to life to shed years of struggle and elevate yourself to exceptional new heights. The 10 Laws to an Extraordinary Life This book challenges conventional ideas of relationships, goal-setting, mindfulness, happiness, and meaning. In a unique fusion of cutting-edge ideas, personal stories, and humorous irreverence, and not to mention, humor and napkin diagrams, this framework combines computational thinking with personal growth to provide a powerful framework for re-coding yourself—and replacing old, limiting models that hold you back with new, empowering beliefs and behaviors that set you on the path toward an extraordinary life. A life of more happiness and achievement than you might have dared to dream possible. Once you discover the code, you will question your limits and realize that there are none. Step into a new understanding of the world around you and your place in it, and find yourself operating at a new, extraordinary level in every way...happiness, purpose, fulfilment, and love. This Book Is a Living, Breathing Manifesto That Goes Beyond a Traditional Publication For those who want more, The Code of the Extraordinary Mind connects to a full on immersive experience including ways for you to dive into particular chapters to unlock additional videos or training and connect with each other and the author to learn via peer-to-peer learning networks.

Vishen Lakhiani is an accomplished writer whose work has resonated with readers around the world. Vishen Lakhiani has published several books that explore a range of topics, from fiction to nonfiction, and has received critical acclaim for the ability to weave compelling narratives. Vishen Lakhiani's writing style is known for its depth and authenticity, and has earned quite a loyal following of readers.

Vishen Lakhiani

The Code of the Extraordinary Mind

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Life Changing Ideas

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Great User Interface & Experience

A pleasant surprise for any software developer. When the users praise the affordability of the product. <ul><li class="ql-align-justify">"Two dollars a week is nothing when you are benefiting yourself for a lifetime"</li><li class="ql-align-justify">"Instant lifetime subscription"</li><li class="ql-align-justify">"I used it for free but had to subscribe just to make sure devs keep it up"</li></ul>

Affordable

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