7 Emotionally Intelligent Ways To Navigate Ego.

The pitfalls of ego-driven leadership depend on whether your ego is over or underinflated. When it's overinflated, you may seek personal glory over the team's well-being. As the description suggests, leaders with overinflated egos take up lots of space, dominate the conversation, believe they are always right and create environments where team members feel unheard, undervalued and unappreciated.

On the other hand, leaders whose egos are underinflated may hold back, delay and lack confidence in making decisions, creating an environment without a clear direction and causing confusion for the team.

Both lead to decreased productivity, disillusioned employees and high turnover—a disastrous recipe for any organization.

This is where emotional intelligence comes into play.

Emotional intelligence empowers us by increasing our self-awareness and social awareness, helping us scan for signals and triggers. Like radar, it increases our sensitivity to subtle behaviors that could otherwise be missed. This awareness increases our perceptiveness to emotions, helping us navigate both our own and others' egos.

1. Listen, listen and listen some more.

2. Acknowledge your imperfections.

3. Give credit where it's due.

4. Lead by example.

5. Encourage different perspectives.

6. Develop your team's talents.

7. Ask for feedback.

A leader who listens has a much better chance of understanding their team's concerns, ideas and aspirations. But beware of listening with your ego interfering. If you have a point of view and are listening to your teammates while thinking of the answer or your next question, then your ego is actively at play.

To listen without ego, suspend both judgement and agenda. Listen from a place of curiosity and openness. Not only will your team members feel adequately heard and valued, but you are also opening up possibilities for innovation and transformation.

No one is a superhero. By admitting your mistakes and vulnerabilities, you are owning up to being human and making yourself more approachable and relatable. You are also creating an environment where admitting mistakes, being transparent, learning and continuously improving is okay.

Celebrate your team's successes and acknowledge them for their contributions. One of the most motivating things a leader can do is recognize and thank their team. It creates a sense of unity and commitment, which drives a team towards outstanding performance.

Develop your capability to manage your emotions, especially when your negative ego is triggered. Appropriately expressing your feelings inspires confidence and will help your team weather the storms.

If your team is overly agreeable, that is a sign many egos are at play. Encourage diverse opinions and open dialogue, and be sure you respect differing viewpoints and ensure everyone gets heard. Exploring this way may take a bit more time, but it leads to sounder decision-making in the long run, ultimately saving time and potentially money too.

Empower your team members and build their confidence through delegating responsibility and encouraging autonomy. People who are empowered feel a much greater sense of ownership for making results happen and are far more likely to excel in their roles. Another benefit to you of developing your team is freeing up your time so you can step up and be more strategic.

Complacency is another way our ego can hold us back. Counteract this by being open to learning and asking your team, peers and seniors for feedback. This is probably the most powerful tool for self-improvement, helping you identify your strengths and blind spots.

In conclusion, remember that ego can be both friend and foe. By utilizing your emotional intelligence, you can effectively navigate the turbulent waters of leadership while keeping your own and others' egos in check.

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