<p>Schedule a time with your supervisor to break the news. Be aware that sharing the news with the office grapevine might cause the news to leak prematurely before you formally give notice.</p><p>It's best to have important conversations in person. Make sure you meet all exit notice, confidentiality, non-compete and other guidelines that are required.</p>

Following protocol

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<p>Your supervisor will probably ask you why you are leaving.</p><p>Make sure your reason for leaving is opportunity-focused and aspirational and not because you are running away from something. Reasons may be taking on a more prominent role, learning new skills, working in a new industry or relocation.</p>

Your future-focused "why"

<p>Research found that while 58% of employers extend counteroffers, the average employee who accepts them stays less than two years in a company. </p><p>Keep the focus on your new opportunities and suggest that you remain in touch and explore the chance to return at a future time.</p>

Weighting counteroffers

<p>Your departure is likely going to affect more people than you realize. Try to make the move as easy on them as possible to maintain good relationships.</p><ul><li>Make sure all outstanding deliverables and responsibilities are effectively transitioned.</li><li>Ensure all essential documents are available to those who need them most.</li><li>Consider giving key people the license to call you for any vital follow-up questions.</li></ul>

Thorough and thoughtful

<p>Refrain from mentioning all the things their company does wrong in your opinion. It will not be helpful, especially if you have not mentioned it previously.</p><p>It is also possible that your supervisor might be angry or resistant to your departure. Try and understand the situation from their point of view and act calmly to preserve relationships.</p>

Giving feedback

<p>Trade contact information with coworkers and supervisors to have a method to stay in touch. You will be in a better place to stay abreast of their career changes. You never know when you will meet with them again.</p>

Maintaining your network

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<p>Employees are quitting their jobs-often.</p>
<p>The <a href="https://www.bls.gov/news.release/jolts.nr0.htm">July 2018 BLS Job Openings and Labor Turnover survey</a> found that 3.6 million people quit their jobs in May, the highest rate since April 2001. In a separate Robert Half survey of HR managers, <a href="http://rh-us.mediaroom.com/2018-07-09-44-Percent-Of-Workers-Would-Quit-Their-Job-For-A-Bigger-Paycheck">83% said the way someone quits affects their future career opportunities</a>.</p>
<p>"And as you accelerate your career and your progress, from point to point, just the way the world works today you will consistently need to interact with, hear about, hear from, the people in all of those different jobs," says <a href="https://www.shefaliraina.com/">New York City-based executive coach Shefali Raina</a>.</p>
<p>In today's connected world, the way you quit your job could follow you for years to come, Raina says. So, if you're getting ready to leave, take these steps to part ways in the best possible way.</p>
<h2>Follow protocol</h2>
<p>The first step is to get the housekeeping details right. Schedule time with your supervisor to break the news, Raina suggests. And be careful of the office grapevine-you never know who will inadvertently or otherwise share your news if you disclose it to them before you formally give notice, she says. "This is not the time to play fast and loose with information-plan and block time appropriately to speak with bosses, stakeholders, mentors, peers, and team members based on what is appropriate in your organization," she says. It's best to have key conversations face-to-face, but the company culture as well as the location of your supervisor and coworkers with also be determining factors in how you relay the news.</p>
<p>"As you plan your exit, make sure you meet all exit notice, confidentiality, non-compete and other guidelines that are required," she says. Plan to give proper notice, which may be more than two weeks, depending on the seniority of your position.</p>
<p><strong>Related:</strong>  <a href="https://www.fastcompany.com/90205067/here-are-six-signs-that-its-time-to-quit-your-job">Here are six signs that it's time to quit your job</a></p>
<h2>Make your "why" future-focused</h2>
<p>Your supervisor is likely going to ask why you're leaving. "Make sure you have a clear, compelling, and comprehensive response, and that it is focused on the growth and potential in the new opportunity-that it is about moving toward something new and not running away from something here," Raina says.</p>
<p>Those reasons may include taking on a bigger role, learning new skills, getting to work in a new industry or discipline, relocation, or others. Whatever the reason, list your reasons for leaving as opportunity-focused and aspirational. After all, it's easy to accept and support the fact that someone wants to leave for a new opportunity.</p>
<p>Avoid making the conversation about an increase in salary, says Paul McDonald, senior executive director at Menlo Park, California-based staffing firm <a href="https://www.roberthalf.com/">Robert Half International</a>. If you make the conversation about money, then the company might make a counteroffer.</p>
<h2>Think twice about counteroffers</h2>
<p>If that counteroffer materializes, consider carefully before accepting it. Recent Robert Half research found that, <a href="https://www.roberthalf.com/blog/management-tips/counteroffers">while 58% of employers extend counteroffers</a>, the average employee who accepts them stays less than two years. So it's not a great long-term retention strategy, McDonald says.</p>
<p>But the offer may give you the opportunity to depart with the possibility of returning to the company at some point, if you wish to do so, says Todd Davis, chief people officer at <a href="https://www.franklincovey.com/">FranklinCovey</a>, a Salt Lake City-based performance and leadership firm, and author of <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Get-Better-Practices-Effective-Relationships/dp/1501158309"><em>Get Better: 15 Proven Practices to Build Effective Relationships at Work</em></a>. Keep the conversation focused on the new skills or experience you'll be developing in the new role, and suggest that you remain in touch and explore the opportunity to return at a future time, he says.</p>
<h2>Be thorough and thoughtful during the transition</h2>
<p>Your departure is likely going to affect more people than you realize, including your coworkers, management team, and others. Try to make the move as easy on them as possible to maintain good relationships, Raina says.</p>
<p>"Go above and beyond in your transition process-make sure all outstanding deliverables and responsibilities are effectively transitioned, and ensure all important documents are available to those who need them most. Also, consider giving key people the license to call you even after you have left the company for any important follow-up questions," she says. "When you make it easy for others to take on parts of your role, you will ensure everyone is a well-wisher and supporter in your future career."</p>
<p><strong>Related:</strong>  <a href="https://www.fastcompany.com/90202971/why-quitting-your-job-without-a-backup-plan-can-help-your-career">Why quitting your job without a backup plan can help your career</a></p>
<h2>Be measured in your feedback</h2>
<p>Now isn't the time to deliver a detailed critique of all the things the company does wrong in your opinion, Davis says, especially "if you haven't done that in previous conversations, one-on-one." If you have constructive criticism or suggestions that could help the company, share them in a positive, helpful way. But saving up your negative criticism or complaints for when you're giving notice or having your exit interview usually isn't helpful, especially if the information is new to the employer.</p>
<p>And if you sense that your supervisor is angry or resistant to your departure, keep your cool. Davis emphasizes the importance of empathy when having these conversations, even if you have legitimate complaints. By putting yourself in the other person's shoes, you may be better able to avoid escalating the situation and preserving the relationships.</p>
<h2>Maintain your network</h2>
<p>Connect on <a href="https://www.linkedin.com/">LinkedIn</a> or trade contact information with coworkers and supervisors to have a method to stay in touch. That way, you'll be able to keep in touch and stay abreast of their career changes. You never know when you're going to cross paths with someone again, Raina says. <a href="https://www.fastcompany.com/40520003/three-better-ways-to-network-in-2018">Building and maintaining your network</a> can be an exercise that pays off down the road.</p>
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