In a small village, Ed, a humble young man, met Rose, the daughter of the wealthy Duke. Despite their different backgrounds, they fell in love under the blossoming cherry trees. Their love was forbidden, for the Duke had promised Rose to a prince from a distant land.

Chapter 1: The Encounter

Ed and Rose continued to meet in secret, their love growing stronger with each stolen moment. They shared dreams of a future together, away from the constraints of society. However, their happiness was short-lived as the Duke's spies caught wind of their forbidden romance.

Chapter 2: The Secret Meetings

Fearing for their lives, Ed and Rose decided to flee the village under the cover of night. With nothing but each other, they embarked on a perilous journey through dark forests and treacherous mountains. Their love was their guiding light, leading them to a new beginning where they could be together, forever free.

Chapter 3: The Escape

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Love & Relationships

The Forbidden Rose

Sometimes, simply being there for someone provides more comfort than any advice you can offer.

Presence Speaks Louder Than Words

Being present regularly creates a sense of security and reliability in relationships.

Consistency Builds Trust

The little moments—shared meals, random conversations, or silent support—often mean the most.

Small Moments Create Lasting Memories

Just being available during someone's struggles shows care and understanding without the need for solutions.

Support Doesn’t Always Need Action

Physically or emotionally showing up fosters deeper connections and strengthens bonds over time.

Presence Strengthens Relationships

Life moves fast, and being present ensures you don’t miss out on what truly matters.

You Can’t Rewind Time

Your presence can be a powerful reminder to others that they are not alone in their journey.

Being There Shows You Care

Fully engaging in the moment helps you experience life more deeply and meaningfully.

Presence Cultivates Mindfulness

Simply being present can ease someone's loneliness and give them a sense of belonging.

Emotional Support is Priceless

Success and growth often come to those who make the effort to be present and engaged.

Opportunities Happen When You Show Up

Sometimes, all that’s needed is your willingness to listen, share a moment, or simply exist together.

Your Presence is Enough

"In a world that’s always rushing, the greatest gift you can give is your presence."

Why Showing Up Matters More Than You Think

Understand yourself and those around you.

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You Just Need to Be There: The Power of Presence in Life

For many, compliments are paradoxically both uplifting and unsettling. A kind word about our achievements, talents, or even our appearance can feel undeserved or insincere. This discomfort often stems from deep-rooted insecurities or the nagging voice of imposter feelings, which convince us that we aren’t as competent or worthy as others perceive.Psychologists attribute this discomfort to cognitive dissonance—the mental tension that arises when our self-perception doesn’t align with how others see us.

Why Compliments Make Us Squirm

If you’re your own worst critic, hearing “You’re incredible at this” can feel jarring because it contradicts the narrative in your head that says, “I could have done better.” This clash often leads to knee-jerk reactions, like deflecting (“Oh, it was no big deal”) or dismissing (“They don’t really mean it”). While these reactions might ease our initial unease, they also prevent us from fully embracing the positive impact of kind words.

The Lightning And Thunder Of Kind Words

Research suggests this struggle is particularly pronounced for women, who are often socialized to be modest and to focus outwardly on others. Compliments, then, can feel like spotlights exposing imagined imperfections. Layer on the pressure of perfectionism that women often feel, and even a well-meaning “You’re amazing!” can feel like a reminder of our perceived shortcomings.

For Some People, A Compliment Is A Throw Into The Spotlight

Accepting compliments isn’t just about boosting our ego—it’s about fostering connection. Compliments are small acts of kindness that say, “I see you. I value you.” By brushing them off, we unintentionally dismiss the giver’s thoughtfulness and vulnerability. Moreover, learning to accept praise can help us rewrite those internal scripts of self-doubt. When we practice embracing positive feedback, we affirm not only our worth but also the relationships that give life its richness.

Why Learning to Accept Compliments Matters

If compliments make you squirm, remember you’re not alone—but there’s good news: You can train yourself to accept them with grace. Here are three practical strategies:<ol><li>Say “Thank You” and Pause</li><li>Resist the Deflection Trap </li><li>Reflect and Let It Sink In</li></ol>

How to Get Better at Receiving Compliments

The simplest way to respond to a compliment is with genuine gratitude. A heartfelt “thank you” shows you value the kind words without deflecting or diminishing them. Resist the urge to explain or downplay—just let the compliment land.Example:Compliment: “You did an amazing job on this project.”Response: “Thank you! That means a lot to me.”

1. Say “Thank You” and Pause

It’s tempting to redirect a compliment with phrases like, “Oh, it was nothing,” or “It was really a team effort.” While these responses may feel modest, they can unintentionally diminish the compliment and make the giver feel dismissed. Instead, try owning your contribution.Example:Compliment: “Your presentation was so relevant.”Deflection: “Oh, I just got lucky with the timing of the topic.”Better Response: “Thank you! I’m glad you found it valuable.”

2. Resist the Deflection Trap

Compliments often feel fleeting, but you can make them last. Take time to reflect on kind words, letting them settle in your mind. Writing compliments down can help, too—a “compliment journal” can remind you of your strengths on tougher days.Example:Compliment: “Your advice really helped me.”Reflection: Later, remind yourself, “My perspective made a difference.”

3. Reflect and Let It Sink In

One way to shift our mindset is to view compliments as gifts. When someone offers kind words, they’re sharing their positive experience of us. Accepting a compliment graciously is like saying, “Thank you for this gift—I’ll treasure it.” This reframing can help us stop seeing compliments as judgments about our worth and start seeing them as bridges of connection.

Reframing Compliments as Gifts of Connection

The next time someone offers you a kind word, try to embrace it—not just for your own benefit, but for the connection it creates. Compliments remind us that our actions and presence have meaning to others.Accepting kindness may feel awkward, even unnatural at times, but it’s an opportunity for growth. When we let compliments sink in, we’re not just acknowledging our own value—we’re also honoring the person who offered them. In doing so, we create space for deeper connection, greater joy, and more confidence —not just for ourselves, but for everyone around us.

Acknowledging Ourselves And Honoring Others

“Thank you for this gift—I’ll treasure it.” When we let compliments sink in, we’re not just acknowledging our own value—we’re also honoring the person who offered them.

Why do compliments make us squirm? Uncover the psychology behind this discomfort and learn how embracing kindness can boost confidence and build stronger connections.

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Teamwork

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Kind Words, Weird Feels: The Psychology of Compliments

"You don’t have to control your thoughts. You just have to stop letting them control you."

<ul><li class="ql-align-justify"> Accept all emotions, both positive and negative</li><li class="ql-align-justify">Stop fighting or resisting your feelings</li><li class="ql-align-justify">Allow yourself to experience emotions fully</li></ul>

Embrace your feelings

<ul><li class="ql-align-justify">Shift from overthinking to feeling</li><li class="ql-align-justify">Focus on your direct experience rather than beliefs or opinions</li><li class="ql-align-justify">Connect with your emotions in your body</li></ul>

Move from mind to heart

<ul><li class="ql-align-justify">Love yourself as you are, including your flaws</li><li class="ql-align-justify">Stop comparing yourself to others</li><li class="ql-align-justify">Embrace your unique qualities and experiences</li></ul>

Practice self-acceptance

<ul><li class="ql-align-justify">Forgive yourself for past mistakes</li><li class="ql-align-justify">Learn from past experiences without dwelling on them</li><li class="ql-align-justify">Focus on the present moment</li></ul>

Let go of past hurts

"Talk to yourself like you would to someone you love."

<ul><li class="ql-align-justify">Replace negative thoughts with loving ones</li><li class="ql-align-justify">Speak kindly to yourself</li><li class="ql-align-justify">Celebrate your achievements, big and small</li></ul>

Cultivate positive self-talk

<ul><li class="ql-align-justify">Allow room for all parts of yourself, even the ones you dislike</li><li class="ql-align-justify">Be willing to explore uncomfortable feelings</li><li class="ql-align-justify">See challenges as opportunities for personal development</li></ul>

Create space for growth

<ul><li class="ql-align-justify">Understand that you have everything you need within you</li><li class="ql-align-justify">Stop seeking external validation or salvation</li><li class="ql-align-justify">Trust in your ability to love and care for yourself</li></ul>

Recognize your inner resources

<ul><li class="ql-align-justify">Be open to experiencing love for yourself</li><li class="ql-align-justify">Commit to loving yourself as much as you can</li><li class="ql-align-justify">Be willing to be the source of love for yourself and others</li></ul>

Practice willingness

<ul><li class="ql-align-justify">See emotions as signposts pointing to important lessons</li><li class="ql-align-justify">Learn from your anger, fear, and other strong feelings</li><li class="ql-align-justify">Use emotional experiences to deepen self-understanding</li></ul>

Use feelings as guides

"You yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection."

<ul><li class="ql-align-justify">Make self-love a daily practice</li><li class="ql-align-justify">Be patient with yourself as you learn and grow</li><li class="ql-align-justify">Recognize that loving yourself is a lifelong journey</li></ul>

Commit to ongoing self-love

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Mental Health

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Books

Gay Hendricks

Learning to Love Yourself

"Every event has a reason, and every adversity teaches us a lesson. I’ve learned that failure, whether personal, professional, or even spiritual, is necessary for personal expansion. It brings inner growth and countless psychic rewards. Never regret your past. Accept it as the teacher that it is." p. 22

Embrace Failure as a Teacher

"But I’ve learned that self-control and taking care of one’s mind, body, and soul are essential to finding one’s higher self and living the life of our dreams. How can you take care of others if you don’t take care of yourself? How can you do good if you don’t even feel good? I can’t love if I don’t know how to love myself." p. 35

Self-Care as the Foundation of Love and Success

"Only when you master the art of loving yourself can you truly love others. Only by opening your heart can you reach the hearts of others. When you feel centered and truly alive, you’ll be in a good position to become a better person." p. 40

Self-Love as the Key to Loving Others

"Almost all of us have the same raw materials since we took our first breath; what separates those who achieve more or are happier is how they use and refine those materials. When you commit to transforming your inner world, your life quickly moves from the realm of the ordinary to the extraordinary." p. 44

Transforming Your Inner World

"There are no mistakes in life, only lessons. There is no negative experience, only opportunities to seize in order to progress on the path of self-mastery. Strength emerges from struggle. Even pain can be a great teacher." p. 49

Lessons In Every Experience

"It's a good way to look at it. No matter what happens in life, you have the ability to choose your reaction. When you make it a habit to seek the positive in every circumstance, your life will rise to its higher dimensions. It's one of the most important natural laws." p. 50

The Power Of Choosing Your Reaction

"...don’t judge events as positive or negative. Simply experience them, celebrate them, and learn from them. There is a lesson to be learned in everything." p. 50

Learn from Everything

"To overcome pain, you must first experience it." p. 50

Overcoming Pain

"Most people have brought out the best in themselves through the most challenging and suggestive experiences." p. 50

Growth Through Struggle

"Jonas Salk said it best when he wrote: 'I have had dreams and I have had nightmares. I overcame my nightmares thanks to my dreams.' Dare to dust off your dreams, John. Start loving again." p. 52

Dreams Overcoming Nightmares

"...words are the verbal embodiment of power." p. 52

Words as Power

"The mind is a magnificent servant but a terrible master. If you only think negative things, it’s because you haven’t cared for your mind and haven’t dedicated the necessary time to train it to think positively." p. 53

The Mind

"All lasting change requires time and effort. Perseverance is the mother of personal change." p. 54

Perseverance As The Mother

"The fact that you have a desire or a dream means that you possess the ability to make it happen." p. 55

The Power of Desire

"My friend, saying that you don’t have time to improve your thoughts is like saying you don’t have time to refuel because you’re too busy driving." p. 60

The Importance of Refueling

"When you learn to focus your thoughts on the present, your energy will be limitless, regardless of the time on the clock." p. 69

Present Focus

"Tonight, I will open my heart and reveal everything I know, for it is my duty to do so. I just want to make sure you understand how important it is that you pass this wisdom to all those seeking guidance. We live in a troubled world. Negativity invades everything, and in our society, many people float like rudderless ships, tired souls in search of a lighthouse to keep them from crashing against the rocks of the shore. You must act as the captain." p. 72

Be the Captain of Your Life

"...the true source of happiness can be summed up in one word: fulfillment. Lasting happiness is achieved by consistently working towards your goals and moving in the direction you've set." p. 73

The True Source of Happiness

"...it's impossible to hit a target you cannot see. People spend their lives dreaming of being happier, living with more vitality, and having abundance of passion and dynamism. But they fail to see the importance of investing even just ten minutes a month to write down their goals and reflect on the meaning of their lives, their dharma. Setting goals will radically change your life. Your world will become fuller, more enjoyable, and more magical.". p. 77

Set You

"My advice is this: never do anything because you have to. The only reason to do something is because you want to and because you know it is the right thing to do." p. 84

Your Right Choice

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Wisdom to Create a Life of Passion, Purpose, and Peace This inspiring tale provides a step-by-step approach to living with greater courage, balance, abundance, and joy. A wonderfully crafted fable, The Monk Who Sold His Ferrari tells the extraordinary story of Julian Mantle, a lawyer forced to confront the spiritual crisis of his out-of-balance life. On a life-changing odyssey to an ancient culture, he discovers powerful, wise, and practical lessons that teach us to: <ul><li> Develop Joyful Thoughts, <li> Follow Our Life's Mission and Calling, <li> Cultivate Self-Discipline and Act Courageously, <li> Value Time as Our Most Important Commodity, <li> Nourish Our Relationships, and <li> Live Fully, One Day at a Time.</ul>

Robin Sharma is one of the world’s premier thinkers on leadership, personal growth and life management. The bestselling author of The Monk Who Sold His Ferrari, Who Will Cry When You Die? and The Saint, the Surfer, and the CEO and four other books on self-transformation. Robin Sharma is in constant demand internationally as keynote speaker at the conferences of many of the most powerful companies on the planet including Microsoft, Nortel Networks, General Motors, FedEx and IBM. He is a resident of Ontario, Canada. (Barnes and Noble)

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The Monk Who Sold His Ferrari

Sometimes, if you stop paying attention, or don't show attention, they will think they can't get to your feelings and hurt you. This can cause them to stop.

Ignorance

You can attempt to talk them out of bullying with a commonly known method better known as "kill them with kindness."

Talk To Them

Just let them do what they wanted, but didn't show any sign of stopping. In other words, be a punching bag. Like all punching bags, they get boring and you then find a better task. This primarily takes longer, but can work well.

Let Them

How to defeat bullies with information from experience, teachers, and logic.

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Communication

How to Stop a Bully

Chasing universal approval drains your energy and distracts you from your true self. Embrace authenticity, and attract those who genuinely appreciate you. Focus on being real, not liked.

Not Everyone Will Like You, and That's Okay.

Life's challenges are inevitable. Embracing suffering enables you to find meaning and build resilience. Viewing hardship as an opportunity for growth transforms adversity into purpose, fueling your journey.

Life is Suffering, but You Can Find Meaning in It

Believing you are inherently special can hinder growth. Embrace humility, work hard, and let achievements define your worth, Success is earned through dedication, not entitlement. Welcome merit-based progress.

You Are Not as Special as You Think

Failure is not the end, but a step towards success. Each setback offers valuable lessons, guiding you to refine strategies and strengthen resolve. Embrace failure as a catalyst for learning.

Failure is an Opportunity for Growth

Taking complete responsibility for your life is empowering. Blaming others limits your potential. By owning your actions and choices, you unlock the power to transform and achieve your goals.

You Are Responsible for Everything in Your Life.

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Philosophy

5 Harsh Truths That Will Improve Your Life

Highlights:<ul><li>20 Quran-based principles</li><li>Practical advice from the Prophet</li><li>Modern research findings</li></ul>

Principles for a Successful Marriage

Topics include:<ul><li>Preparing for Marriage with the Right Attitude</li><li>Maintaining Harmony Once Married</li><li>Navigating the Inevitable Challenges of Marriage</li><li>When Necessary, the Etiquette of Ending a Marriage in the Best Way</li></ul>

As humans we will often fall short, however we will find success when we rise, redirect, and refocus on the principles sent to us in a Book without flaw.

The irony of life is that every path you choose will contain its own challenges.
You may find it difficult to live by the principles of this book, but it is even harder not to.

The Challenge of Choosing a Path in Life

Minor day-to-day issues were never entirely eradicated, even from the household of the Prophet PBUH.This is simply the reality of life.This book seeks to address the overall principles that bring harmony to marriage and to guard against the most serious issues that threaten to destroy the marital bond.

Manage Your Expectations

Our lives will not be perfect, and human conduct will always be marred by shortcomings.So for the smaller niggles of life.. We must overlook such trifling annoyances and be patient in order to preserve the bigger picture.

View marriage as one part of a wide support network.No human relationship should be relied upon to fulfill your every single need. While your spouse will inshaAllah bring you much relief and solace, it is crucial to recognize that relying solely on one person to fulfill all of your needs can lead to unmet expectations, disappointment, and potential strain on the relationship itself.

Marriage Support Network

It is important to have a network.<ol><li>Friends can provide emotional support and a sense of belonging and companionship outside of the marital relationship.</li><li>Family relationships can provide a sense of heritage, tradition, and connection to one's roots.</li><li>Community relationships can provide a sense of purpose, shared values, and a sense of contributing to something larger than oneself.</li></ol>

The Importance of Having a Network

People have diverse needs and desires that extend beyond the scope of any single individual.We have emotional, social, intellectual, and spiritual dimensions that require nurturing and fulfillment. By cultivating relationships with family, friends, and the wider community, we open ourselves up to a variety of experiences, perspectives, and a source of joy.

Nurturing Our Diverse Needs

Participating in a life partnership with your spouse carries an immediate practical benefit of providing you with a wholesome outlet for physical desire.In a world of hypersexualization, the simple act of enjoying intimacy with your spouse will protect you from countless external harms that exist in wider society.

The Benefits of a Life Partnership

You should seek to acquire a heart which thanks Allah, a tongue which remembers Allah, and a believing wife who will assist you with regard to your Hereafter.

<ol><li>Weakening sense of individual responsibility as people not held accountable for their actions.</li><li>Breakdown of the family structure contributed to loss of values and morals, resulting in a more self-indulgent focused society.</li><li>People seeking pleasures that became increasingly violent and immoral, leading to a decline in societal standards.</li><li>Excessive taxes and government control hindered economic growth and stifled individual freedoms, causing frustration and resentment.</li><li>Decline of religion meant the moral compass and values holding society together were weakened, leading to breakdown in social order.</li></ol>

5 Main Causes of the Decline of the Roman Civilization

'Our Lord, grant us from among our spouses and offspring, comfort to our eyes, and make us an example for the righteous.

Married Ever After is a guide through the marriage process based on 20 timeless Qur'anic principles, insightful Prophetic examples and contemporary research on maintaining successful relationships. We know all relationships involve struggle, and challenges are an inevitable part of a believer's life. Married Ever After teaches us how to pick the struggles that are worthy, rewarding and lead to the greatest pleasure. Whether you are preparing for marriage, already in a marriage or contemplating ending one, Married Ever After is your companion, reminder and compass back to Divine pleasure at every stage. Rooted in Islamic principles, we learn how our spiritual health impacts the wellbeing of our human relationships. The goal of Married Ever After is more important than ever. Learn how to revive the contentment at home, because successful thriving families are at the heart of a successful thriving Ummah.

Married Ever After

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How to Stop a Bully

5 Harsh Truths That Will Improve Your Life

Married Ever After

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