You only lose what you cling to.

To find true peace and happiness, you need to detach yourself from the noise around you.Shetty explains that detachment doesn't mean you own nothing; it means that nothing owns you.You should reduce your attachment to material possessions, toxic people, and negative thoughts. This helps you stay calm and focused.

Detachment Is Key

What we think, we become.

Just like your body, the mind needs regular exercise to stay strong.Meditation, mindfulness, and positive affirmations are like workouts for your brain. Shetty emphasizes setting aside time daily to practice stillness, which can help reduce stress and increase clarity.

Train Your Mind Like a Muscle

The best way to find yourself is to lose yourself in the service of others.

Shetty highlights that true fulfillment comes from helping others.When you shift your focus from "How can I succeed?" to "How can I serve?", life becomes more meaningful.Serving others connects you to your higher self and provides a sense of purpose that material success cannot.

Finding Purpose Through Service

To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment.

People often identify themselves based on their job, social status, or relationships, but these are temporary labels.Shetty encourages a deeper understanding of who you are beyond these identities.When you let go of these labels, you open up the possibility for growth and transformation.

Identity Is an Illusion

We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then, is not an act, but a habit.

Routines shape who we become. Shetty stresses the importance of creating morning and evening routines to center yourself and set the tone for the day.Consistency in small habits builds discipline and gives you a positive mindset.

The Power of Routine

Do not dwell in the past, do not dream of the future, concentrate the mind on the present moment.

Shetty discusses how living in the present moment can significantly improve your life.Most of our stress and anxiety come from regrets about the past or worries about the future.By practicing mindfulness and focusing on the present, you can cultivate a peaceful and happy mind.

Focus on the Present

Keep your face always toward the sunshine—and shadows will fall behind you.

We all face negativity, but Shetty believes you can choose not to let it affect you.Like a monk, you can learn to protect your inner peace by being mindful of the energy you allow into your life, whether from people, media, or thoughts.

Overcome Negative Energy

The weak can never forgive. Forgiveness is the attribute of the strong.

Holding on to anger and grudges only weighs you down.Shetty emphasizes that forgiveness is not about excusing the behavior of others; it’s about freeing yourself from the emotional burden.Letting go of resentment allows you to move forward without the baggage.

Forgiveness Sets You Free

You become what you think about.

Your mental diet is just as important as your physical one.Be conscious of the information and media you consume daily.Negative news, gossip, and toxic social media can cloud your thoughts, while uplifting content can help you grow.

You Are What You Consume

Gratitude turns what we have into enough.

Practicing gratitude shifts your focus from what's missing in life to appreciating what you already have.Shetty explains that being grateful daily can improve your mood, reduce stress, and enhance your relationships.

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Jay Shetty, social media superstar and host of the #1 podcast On Purpose, distills the timeless wisdom he learned as a monk into practical steps anyone can take every day to live a less anxious, more meaningful life. When you think like a monk, you’ll understand: -How to overcome negativity -How to stop overthinking -Why comparison kills love -How to use your fear -Why you can’t find happiness by looking for it -How to learn from everyone you meet -Why you are not your thoughts -How to find your purpose -Why kindness is crucial to success -And much more... Shetty grew up in a family where you could become one of three things—a doctor, a lawyer, or a failure. His family was convinced he had chosen option three: instead of attending his college graduation ceremony, he headed to India to become a monk, to meditate every day for four to eight hours, and devote his life to helping others. After three years, one of his teachers told him that he would have more impact on the world if he left the monk’s path to share his experience and wisdom with others. Heavily in debt, and with no recognizable skills on his résumé, he moved back home in north London with his parents. Shetty reconnected with old school friends—many working for some of the world’s largest corporations—who were experiencing tremendous stress, pressure, and unhappiness, and they invited Shetty to coach them on well-being, purpose, and mindfulness. Since then, Shetty has become one of the world’s most popular influencers. In 2017, he was named in the Forbes magazine 30-under-30 for being a game-changer in the world of media. In 2018, he had the #1 video on Facebook with over 360 million views. His social media following totals over 38 million, he has produced over 400 viral videos which have amassed more than 8 billion views, and his podcast, On Purpose, is consistently ranked the world’s #1 Health and Wellness podcast. In this inspiring, empowering book, Shetty draws on his time as a monk to show us how we can clear the roadblocks to our potential and power. Combining ancient wisdom and his own rich experiences in the ashram, Think Like a Monk reveals how to overcome negative thoughts and habits, and access the calm and purpose that lie within all of us. He transforms abstract lessons into advice and exercises we can all apply to reduce stress, improve relationships, and give the gifts we find in ourselves to the world. Shetty proves that everyone can—and should—think like a monk.

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We didn’t ask for these mental barriers. They showed up. Over the years, they’ve woven themselves deep into our minds, subtly but consistently pulling the strings. They hold us back, keeping us from the success we crave.Did you ever feel like your motivation evaporates the second you get angry? Or did you ever find yourself paralyzed by decisions you should’ve made days ago?

We didn't ask for our mental barriers!

Does it sound familiar? You’re not alone.These invisible forces — overthinking, anxiety, stress, laziness, sadness, anger, and burnout — sabotage our progress daily, derailing us when we least expect it.And here’s the worst part: if you don’t fight back, they’ll win. But if you learn to crush these barriers, you’ll stop being a victim of your mind. Instead, breaking them will become another part of your daily routine.In this article, you’ll discover seven brutally effective strategies to break down those barriers. Ready to stop letting them rule your life?

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Everyone has mental barriers, but few people realize how much they shape their reality. Some of us overthink everything, while others crumble under pointless decisions. The cruel irony? Most of us don’t even have a strategy for fighting back. Instead, we surrender. We let these barriers define us. We make excuses, telling ourselves "That’s who I am." But that’s a lie. Your mind is under siege by your thoughts, and instead of fighting back, you’re letting them run the show.It is time for a change. If you're reading this, you are ready.

The 7 Mental Barriers That Hold You Back

Anger is more than an emotion. It’s a ticking time bomb, a mental trap that strengthens when you let it win. When I was younger, I had no control over my rage. It would flare up, and I’d lash out, hurting the people closest to me.If you don’t master it, anger will destroy you from the inside out. It strips away your motivation, snuffs out your creativity, and leaves you with nothing but a desire to tear everything down. Worst of all, it makes you lose control — and that’s when things get dangerous. For you. For everyone around you.So, how do you stop this ticking bomb before it blows?

1 — Anger

If anger feels like a daily battle, therapy is a game-changer. But if you’re not at that stage yet, here’s a trick you probably won’t believe — until you try it.Next time you feel anger boiling up, sing.Yes, sing.It sounds ridiculous, right? But the moment you start singing, you’ll catch your brain off guard. Your mind won’t know what to do, and you’ll be too distracted to stay angry. For the first few minutes, it will feel awkward. But keep going for 5–10 minutes, and that anger will vanish. Trust me, it works.

How to Break Anger

Burnout isn’t being tired. It’s a full-on collapse of your motivation, creativity, and purpose. You start feeling unstoppable, working late into the night, riding on that initial surge of passion. But over time, the cracks show up. The inspiration fades, and your energy drains. And one day, you realize you’ve hit a wall.Burnout makes you feel like you’ve run out of ideas — like you’ve said everything worth saying, and now you are empty. But you’re not out of ideas. You sank into the noise of a cluttered mind, and you’ve forgotten how to find your way back.

2 — Burnout

Are you waiting for the burnout to fix itself? Good luck with that. The longer you sit in that state, the deeper you sink.So, what’s the escape route? One simple, powerful move: take a walk. When you walk, your brain enters a free-flowing state, generating new ideas naturally. You’re not forcing inspiration; you’re inviting it. Sure, some ideas will be duds, but you only need one great thought to snap out of that mental block.So, don’t sit around waiting for it to lift. Step outside, move, and let your mind wander. It might be the reset button you’ve been waiting for.

How to Break Burnout

Overthinking is a slow poison. It creeps in when you’re excited about something — a new project, upcoming trip, or big decision. At first, everything feels promising. Then the questions start.You overthink until you bury your excitement under a mountain of doubts. Overthinking doesn’t ruin your mood; it kills your momentum. You end up paralyzed, unable to decide, let alone enjoy the moment.You miss opportunities because you’re stuck in your head, obsessing over every detail, every possible outcome.

3 — Overthinking

The <a href="https://cosmopolitanmindset.substack.com/p/10-common-overthinking-mistakes">power of overthinking </a>comes from one place: your mind keeps spinning because everything stays trapped inside. Want to break the cycle? Get it out of your head — and onto paper.Writing is your weapon against overthinking. When you write down your thoughts, something incredible happens: you can see how absurd most of them are. Suddenly, those swirling doubts and “what-ifs” lose their grip on you. So, grab a pen the next time your mind goes into overdrive. Write down every ridiculous, anxious thought. You will realize its weakness once it's out in the open.

How to Break Overthinking

Anxiety is a brutal thief. It steals your confidence, peace of mind, and ability to live in the moment. I know it too well.Back in school, my social anxiety was so intense that I convinced myself everyone was watching and judging me. It didn’t matter if they were or not — in my mind, I was the center of their negative attention.Anxiety doesn’t stop there. It feeds on your insecurities, twisting them into fears that trap you in your head. You second-guess everything, avoid new experiences, and slowly shrink into a smaller version of yourself.

4 — Anxiety

If anxiety runs your life, you need professional help. There’s no shame in that. But for those moments of creeping anxiety that hit you out of nowhere, here’s a quick, effective fix: breathing exercises. The first time I tried it, I was desperate. I couldn’t concentrate and calm my mind - so I gave it a shot. Breathing exercises were the first step toward breaking free. Here’s how it works: anxiety ties to your nervous system. And when you control your breath, you hack into that system. With 10 minutes of mindful breathing, you can dial down that overwhelming panic.

How to Break Anxiety

Stress is everywhere. A 2018 study showed that <a href="https://www.mentalhealth.org.uk/explore-mental-health/statistics/stress-statistics">74% of people feel overwhelmed or unable to cope with stress </a>- odds are you’re in that camp, too.The worst part? Stress sneaks up on you. You could handle a dozen things, but suddenly, one more tiny responsibility tips the scale, and now everything feels impossible.Stress is tricky because it doesn’t always come from one source. You can’t point to one thing, cut it out, and move on. Sometimes, even if you know what’s causing it, you can’t escape. Your job, your responsibilities, your life — these aren’t things you can walk away from.

5 — Stress

Have you ever noticed what happens to your body when you are stressed?Your muscles tighten, your breathing gets shallow, and you feel like a coiled spring. That physical tension only makes your stress worse. What’s the fix? You already know it — exercise.Exercise is like a reset button for your body and mind. When you work out, you burn calories and stress. Your muscles release tension, and your brain floods with endorphins, the body’s natural stress reliever. You become too exhausted to stay rigid and stressed. And you’ll relax without even trying.

How to Break Stress

It’s normal to feel down once in a while. But when sadness lingers, it becomes a thief. It drains your motivation, drive, and sense of purpose.It starts small — maybe a bad day — but then it sticks around, making it harder and harder to get out of bed. Most people don’t deal with their sadness. They distract themselves. They bury their feelings in social media, mindless activities, or endless Netflix binges.Sure, distractions help you feel better — for a while. But sooner or later, you’re right back where you started, facing the same sadness again.

6 — Sadness

Sadness won’t go away because you ignore it. You have to face it head-on. And gratitude is the best way to do that.I was stuck in a constant loop of sadness. I wanted to build confidence. But they gave me something powerful. They made me realize I had accomplished a lot. But I couldn't recognize it.So grab a piece of paper and list what you’re grateful for. It will rewire your brain.Start with your achievements in education, work, or personal life. Look at the progress you’ve made, the people who care about you, the things you have right now that others would dream of.

How to Break Sadness

Laziness is the silent killer of dreams. It sneaks up on you when you feel uninspired, overwhelmed, or unsure of where to start. And suddenly, you procrastinate, find excuses, and watch the days slip by as your goals sit on the back burner.But do you know what’s the worst part?It feels comfortable. You know you should be doing more. Yet, doing nothing is easier.But make no mistake — laziness isn’t harmless. It’s the enemy of progress. Every time you let it win, you lose momentum. And the more you procrastinate, the harder it becomes to get back on track.

7 — Laziness

You need a hard reset. And nothing shocks your system like a cold shower.Cold showers are an instant jolt to your senses. When that icy water hits your skin, your brain flips into survival mode. All your excuses, your hesitation, your laziness — they disappear.It’s uncomfortable, sure, but that discomfort is what you need to shake off the lethargy and jumpstart your motivation. Once the water stops, you’ll feel alive, energized, and ready to take action. So, the next time you catch yourself sinking into laziness, skip the snooze button and head for a cold shower. It’s brutal, but it works.

How to Break Laziness

Sometimes, simple mental barriers hold us back for so much time. Sometimes, they even become serious problems we don’t know how to fix.Anger, overthinking, laziness — they are all mental barriers that forbid us to live a comfortable life. But they also give us the opportunity to improve.So, this week, use all these simple tricks I shared with you every time you experience on of these seven mental barriers.[DOWNLOAD THE <a href="https://cosmopolitanmindset.substack.com/p/7-mental-barriers-holding-you-back">FREE TRACKING INFOGRAPHIC</a>]

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Loving an introvert can be a profoundly rewarding experience. While the dynamics of a relationship with an introverted partner may differ from those with an extroverted one, understanding and appreciating these differences can lead to a deeper, more meaningful connection. Here’s a closer look at what it means to love an introvert and how to nurture that relationship.

Loving an Introvert

Introverts are often characterized by their preference for solitude and deep reflection. They recharge by spending time alone and tend to feel drained after prolonged social interactions. This doesn’t mean they don’t enjoy being with others; rather, they thrive in environments where they can engage in meaningful conversations and connect on a deeper level.

Understanding Introversion

Depth of Connection: Introverts often seek quality over quantity in relationships. When you love an introvert, you may find that your conversations are rich, thoughtful, and profound. They value emotional intimacy and are likely to share their innermost thoughts and feelings with you. Thoughtful Communication: Introverts tend to think before they speak, which can lead to more intentional and meaningful discussions. They often express themselves through writing or other creative outlets, allowing for deeper insights into their feelings.

The Beauty of Loving an Introvert

Shared Moments of Solitude: Introverts appreciate quiet moments and often find joy in simply being together without the need for constant conversation. This shared silence can create a sense of comfort and connection that is unique to introverted relationships. Supportive Partners: Introverts are often great listeners and empathetic partners. They tend to be observant and sensitive to their partner’s needs, providing a nurturing environment where both individuals can grow.

Respect Their Need for Space: One of the most important aspects of loving an introvert is understanding their need for alone time. Encourage them to take the space they require without taking it personally. This will help them recharge and ultimately strengthen your bond. Engage in Meaningful Conversations: Introverts thrive on depth. Instead of small talk, try discussing topics that matter to both of you—your dreams, fears, and passions. This will foster a deeper connection and allow your introverted partner to open up.

Nurturing Your Relationship with an Introvert

Create a Comfortable Social Environment:When socializing is necessary, try to create low-pressure situations where your introvert can feel at ease. Small gatherings with close friends or quiet outings can be much more enjoyable than large, boisterous parties. Encourage Their Passions:Introverts often have hobbies or interests they are passionate about. Show genuine interest in these activities and encourage them to pursue what they love. This support can help them feel valued and understood.

Be Patient: Introverts may take longer to process their thoughts and feelings. Give them the time they need to articulate what’s on their mind without rushing them or pressing for immediate responses. Celebrate Their Strengths: Acknowledge and celebrate the unique qualities that make your introverted partner special. Whether it’s their creativity, thoughtfulness, or ability to listen, recognizing these traits can strengthen your bond.

While loving an introvert can be fulfilling, it may also come with challenges: Misunderstandings:Others may misinterpret an introvert’s need for solitude as aloofness or disinterest. It’s essential to communicate openly about your relationship dynamics to avoid misunderstandings. Social Anxiety: Some introverts may struggle with social anxiety, making social situations particularly challenging. Being supportive during these moments can help ease their discomfort.

Challenges in Loving an Introvert

Different Social Needs:You may have different social needs than your introverted partner. Open communication about how much social interaction each of you requires is key to finding a balance that works for both.

Loving an introvert is about embracing the beauty of deep connections, thoughtful communication, and shared moments of solitude. By understanding their unique needs and celebrating their strengths, you can cultivate a relationship that is both fulfilling and enriching. The journey may require patience and adaptability, but the rewards of loving an introvert—intimacy, understanding, and profound connection—are well worth the effort. In a world that often values extroversion, loving an introvert can reveal a depth of relationship that is truly special.

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Staying hydrated is essential for maintaining good health. Water aids digestion, regulates body temperature, and helps flush toxins out of your system. Aim for at least 8 glasses of water a day to keep your body functioning optimally.

1. Drink Enough Water

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Sleep is the body's natural way of repairing itself. Getting 7-8 hours of restful sleep every night can improve concentration, reduce stress, and boost your immune system. Try maintaining a consistent sleep schedule to ensure you wake up refreshed every day.

2. Prioritize Sleep

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Physical activity is key to a healthy lifestyle. Whether it's a brisk walk, yoga, or hitting the gym, incorporating at least 30 minutes of exercise into your routine can enhance cardiovascular health, build muscle, and improve mental well-being.

3. Move More

Health is not valued till sickness comes.

Your body thrives on nutritious food. A balanced diet rich in fruits, vegetables, whole grains, and lean proteins provides the energy and nutrients necessary for optimal health. Avoid processed foods and sugary drinks, and opt for home-cooked meals as often as possible.

4. Eat a Balanced Diet

The greatest wealth is health.

Mindful eating means paying attention to what you eat and how you feel during meals. Chew slowly, savor the taste, and avoid distractions like screens while eating. This practice can prevent overeating and improve digestion.

5. Practice Mindful Eating

Chronic stress can lead to various health issues like heart disease and depression. Incorporating stress-relieving activities such as meditation, deep breathing, or spending time in nature can help you stay calm and improve mental health.

6. Manage Stress

Strong social connections can contribute to better mental health.Surround yourself with supportive friends and family, and engage in meaningful conversations. This not only boosts your mood but can also help reduce the risk of anxiety and depression.

7. Stay Socially Connected

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If you live under a bridge, dopamine makes you want a tent. If you live in a tent, dopamine makes you want a house. If you live in the most expensive mansion in the world, dopamine makes you want a castle on the moon. Dopamine has no standard for good, and seeks no finish line.

1.	Dopamine’s Role in Desire2.	The Difference Between Wanting and Liking3.	The Evolutionary Function of Dopamine4.	Dopamine and Motivation5.	Dopamine and Creativity6.	The Dopamine Loop in Addiction7.	Dopamine and Relationships8.	The Science of Love and Desire9.	How Dopamine Drives Innovation10.	Dopamine in Politics and Society11.	The Impact of Dopamine on Consumer Behavior12.	Dopamine and Mental Health13.	The Role of Dopamine in Risk-Taking14.	Dopamine and Social Media Addiction15.	How Dopamine Affects Long-Term Satisfaction

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Dopamine is the brain’s chemical responsible for anticipation and desire. It keeps us striving for more, always pushing us toward new goals but rarely letting us feel fully satisfied. 	“Dopamine isn’t about pleasure—it’s about seeking.”

Dopamine’s Role in Desire

Dopamine is linked to wanting, not necessarily liking. It drives us to pursue things but doesn’t guarantee we’ll enjoy them once we achieve them. 	“We’re wired to chase, but not necessarily to enjoy what we catch.”

The Difference Between Wanting & Liking

Dopamine helped early humans survive by driving them to seek food, shelter, and mates. Today, it still pushes us to innovate, explore, and seek out new experiences. 	“Dopamine was the fuel that kept our ancestors moving, searching, and evolving.”

The Evolutionary Function of Dopamine

Dopamine is the key driver of motivation. It encourages us to chase goals, whether they’re realistic or not, creating an internal reward system for progress. 	“Without dopamine, there is no ambition—just inertia.”

Dopamine & Motivation

Dopamine enhances creativity by fostering new ideas and connections. It drives curiosity and fuels the desire to explore unknown territories, sparking innovation. 	“Creativity thrives on the unpredictable sparks of dopamine.”

Dopamine & Creativity

Addiction hijacks the dopamine system, creating an endless loop of craving without satisfaction. The brain becomes focused on the next hit, whether it’s from drugs, food, or social media. 	“Addiction is the constant chase for dopamine’s promise, without ever finding fulfillment.”

The Dopamine Loop in Addiction

In relationships, dopamine fuels the excitement of new love but diminishes over time, often leading people to seek novelty elsewhere or fall into dissatisfaction. 	“Dopamine drives passion, but its fleeting nature leaves us searching for a new thrill.”

Dopamine & Relationships

Dopamine sparks the initial phase of love, full of excitement and desire. Over time, oxytocin and other chemicals take over to foster long-term attachment and comfort. 	“Love starts with dopamine’s fire, but lasting relationships are built on something more enduring.

The Science of Love & Desire

Dopamine makes us innovators, constantly seeking improvement. It fuels the desire to solve problems, create new technologies, and push the boundaries of what’s possible. 	“Innovation is dopamine-driven curiosity at work.”

How Dopamine Drives Innovation

Dopamine influences societal behaviors by driving ambition, leadership, and the desire for change. Leaders, entrepreneurs, and revolutionaries are often those with high dopamine sensitivity. 	“Dopamine-driven individuals shape society by relentlessly pursuing what could be.”

Dopamine in Politics & Society

Marketing taps into our dopamine system, making us crave new products. Advertisers create the promise of future satisfaction, keeping consumers hooked on the next purchase. 	“Consumerism thrives on dopamine’s allure of more.”

The Impact of Dopamine on Consumers

Imbalances in dopamine levels can lead to mental health issues such as depression, ADHD, and schizophrenia. Too much or too little dopamine disrupts emotional regulation and motivation. 	“Dopamine is a double-edged sword—too much or too little, and the mind suffers.”

Dopamine & Mental Health

Dopamine drives risk-taking by making the potential reward seem irresistible. Entrepreneurs, gamblers, and thrill-seekers often have heightened dopamine activity. 	“Risk-takers are dopamine-fueled adventurers, always chasing the next big payoff.”

The Role of Dopamine

Social media platforms exploit the dopamine system by offering constant novelty and instant gratification, leading to compulsive scrolling and a cycle of unfulfilled desire. 	“Social media feeds are dopamine traps, designed to keep us hooked.”

Dopamine & Social Media Addiction

While dopamine is great for sparking action, it rarely leads to long-term satisfaction. True happiness comes from serotonin and oxytocin, which promote contentment and bonding. 	“Dopamine keeps us chasing, but lasting satisfaction requires other forces.”

How Dopamine Affects Long-term Satisfaction

To manage dopamine effectively, balance its drive for more with mindfulness and contentment. Recognizing dopamine’s power allows you to use it constructively without becoming a slave to it. 	“Master dopamine, or it will master you.”

Managing Dopamine

1.	Dopamine fuels desire: Always striving for more.	2.	Wanting vs. Liking: Dopamine drives the chase, not the enjoyment.	3.	Evolutionary role: Helped early humans survive and innovate.	4.	Dopamine and motivation: Pushes us to achieve.	5.	Creativity: Sparks new ideas and innovation.	6.	Addiction: The endless loop of craving.	7.	Relationships: Drives passion but fades over time.	8.	Love and desire: Starts with dopamine, ends with attachment.

9.	Innovation: Driven by the quest for more.	10.	Politics and society: Leaders are often dopamine-driven.	11.	Consumer behavior: Craving novelty.	12.	Mental health: Dopamine imbalances can lead to disorders.	13.	Risk-taking: Heightened dopamine encourages bold decisions.	14.	Social media addiction: Exploits the dopamine loop.	15.	Long-term satisfaction: True contentment requires more than dopamine.	16.	Balanced life: Master dopamine for a healthier existence.

Discover how dopamine shapes our desires, creativity, addictions, and even our daily choices

Why are we obsessed with the things we want only to be bored when we get them?  Why is addiction perfectly logical to an addict?  Why does love change so quickly from passion to indifference?  Why are some people die-hard liberals and others hardcore conservatives?  Why are we always hopeful for solutions even in the darkest times—and so good at figuring them out?  The answer is found in a single chemical in your brain: dopamine. Dopamine ensured the survival of early man. Thousands of years later, it is the source of our most basic behaviors and cultural ideas—and progress itself.  Dopamine is the chemical of desire that always asks for more—more stuff, more stimulation, and more surprises. In pursuit of these things, it is undeterred by emotion, fear, or morality. Dopamine is the source of our every urge, that little bit of biology that makes an ambitious business professional sacrifice everything in pursuit of success, or that drives a satisfied spouse to risk it all for the thrill of someone new. Simply put, it is why we seek and succeed; it is why we discover and prosper. Yet, at the same time, it's why we gamble and squander.  From dopamine's point of view, it's not the having that matters. It's getting something—anything—that's new. From this understanding—the difference between possessing something versus anticipating it—we can understand in a revolutionary new way why we behave as we do in love, business, addiction, politics, religion—and we can even predict those behaviors in ourselves and others.  In The Molecule of More: How a Single Chemical in Your Brain Drives Love, Sex, and Creativity—and will Determine the Fate of the Human Race, George Washington University professor and psychiatrist Daniel Z. Lieberman, MD, and Georgetown University lecturer Michael E. Long present a potentially life-changing proposal: Much of human life has an unconsidered component that explains an array of behaviors previously thought to be unrelated, including why winners cheat, why geniuses often suffer with mental illness, why nearly all diets fail, and why the brains of liberals and conservatives really are different.

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