Why Dl Is Not Being Checked at Petrol Pumps?

Let me explain ; Indian petroleum comes under Indian government, There are 3 major suppliers bplc,hplc,Ioc government has major shares in these companies directly or indirectly.Think;many young age people , who used bikes they are free to full their tank in petrol pumps without checking driving license ,rc.. , helmets etc But the fine regulatory is increasing day by day , why they are selling fuels who don't have license; cause government needs money you can say if you are going to apply for dl it takes 5/6 months due to lack of slots who is responsible for this? Earning matters.

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To achieve it

We suppress our emotion because, we don't want to get hurt, the fear of being vulnerable, labelled a cry baby, defense mechanism, societal expectations etc. Therefore, as a result, we forget that concealing our emotions can have some pretty significant effects on physical and emotional health.Although, this is more common in men than in females, due to the expectations the society has placed on them (A man should be always seen as a tough and hard guy). Forgetting that If they keep hiding their emotions it could get to a stage of being self destructive causing emotional and mental breakdown.

Reason Why...

Concealing our Emotions is rather common at times. In tense or public settings, it may even seem like the best course of action.However, you wind up rejecting your own experience when you keep your emotions to yourself out of concern for other people's opinions. This may appear to be a sensible strategy to steer clear of disagreement and emotional distress, but in the end, it generally backfires.It's not always simple to learn how to communicate emotions honestly, but your loved ones or a therapist can help overcome your fear of the possible repercussions and talk more freely.

Nota Bien.

“If we start being honest about our pain, our anger, and our shortcomings instead of pretending they don’t exist, then maybe we’ll leave the world a better place than we found it.”

Understand yourself and those around you.

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Why do we suppress our emotions?

The Queen is a true example of a negative character – jealous, vindictive, selfish and cold. She is very arrogant and will do anything to get what she set her mind to, even if it requires human sacrifice.Jealous of Snow White's beauty, the wicked queen orders the murder of her innocent stepdaughter, but later discovers that Snow White is still alive and hiding in a cottage with seven friendly little miners. Disguising herself as a hag, the queen brings a poisoned apple to Snow White, who falls into a death-like sleep that can be broken only by a kiss from the prince.

Moral Of The Story?

The evil queen wants Snow White dead as she cannot accept the fact she is not the most beautiful woman in the kingdom. This vanity destroys her in the end.Vanity - inflated pride in oneself or one's appearance. Usually viewed as a negative, it is one of the Seven Deadly Sins. The framework of the deadly sins is used to help people curb their evil inclinations before they can fester, with specific focus on pride and greed, thought to be the sins that sever the soul from grace, the very essence of evil, with these two underlying all other sins.

The Danger Of Vanity

The concept of real beauty is another theme discussed in this story. The evil queen may be beautiful on the outside, but she is wicked and ugly on the inside. In contrast, Snow White is beautiful both inside and outside.Throughout the story, Snow Whites kindness and pure heart helps her defeat injustice. She doesn’t have a bit of wickedness in her, so it’s easy to deceive her because she’s a bit naive. Even so, the good people around her keep her safe, she gets her happy ending.The queen is not as beautiful as Snow White because her heart is not pure. Real beauty comes from within.

Shine Bright Like Snow White 

Famed is thy beauty, Majesty. But hold, a lovely maid I see. Rags cannot hide her gentle grace. Alas, she is more fair than thee.”

"I'm awfully sorry. I didn't mean to frighten you. But you don't know what I've been through. And all because I was afraid. I'm so ashamed of the fuss I made.”

What do you do when things go wrong? Oh! You sing a song!

Remember, you're the one that can fill the world with sunshine.

“[laughing] It’s for Snow White. When she breaks the tender peel, to taste the apple in my hand, her breath will still, her blood congeal, then I’ll be fairest in the land!”

Retells the tale of the beautiful princess whose lips were red as blood, skin was white as snow, and hair was as black as ebony.

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Retells the tale of the beautiful princess whose lips were red as blood, skin was white as snow, and hair was as black as ebony.

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Wilhelm K. Grimm

Snow-White and the Seven Dwarfs

In a world striving for perfection, Buddhist monk Haemin Sunim's wisdom shows us how only by accepting ourselves and the flaws which make us who we are, can we create compassionate and fulfilling relations with our loved ones ❤Little book of realism.This book is a beautiful treasure for your self to get lost in.

Accepting Yourself

Its ok to have flaws.How could we have lived our lives clean and untarnished like a blank sheet of paper?Instead of living a life doing nothing for fear of making a mistake, choose a life that improves through the failures and pains.Shout out to your struggling self 'I love you so much' ❤

Selfcare

No matter how good and how much you love a relationship, inevitably it will change over time.A close friend may move to another city, or a family member may pass away.Your circumstances too can and will change.But dont let this make you too sad, when one door closes, another one surely always opens.Bringing with it, new found love and joy 💫

Family

Listening is an act of love.If you come across somebody difficult for you, remind yourself of the following: <ul><li class="ql-align-justify">Just like me, they need to support their family.</li><li class="ql-align-justify">Just like me, they are thinking about their future.</li><li class="ql-align-justify">Just like me, they must be facing a hardship unknown to others.</li></ul>We hurt each other through ignorance more than out of spite. If we have hurt each other, in order to resolve, say 'I am very sorry and I have misunderstood you'.

Empathy

Its best for two people to be equally drawn to eachother. When one person likes the other too intensely, soon enough, it can become scary, burdensome and annoying.We find love and purpose in life through those who care deeply for us. After all, we are all imperfect beings in need of each other. Do not try to control or change the person you are truly drawn to. Just enjoy spending time together. The connection endures when you just enjoy their company, without attempting to possess them.

Relationships

After a negative experience, be wary of thoughts which make life seem worse than it is.Say 'so what?' to the nervous and inferior part of your self. Once you acknowledge the insecurities, you will find the courage within to overcome them.Failure is an inevitable human experience which we can learn from and become a little bit wiser and more prudent. See it as an opportunity to re-evaluate your self and grow mentally and spiritually.

Courage 

The biggest victim of your own hatred is you, if you continue to hate somebody that you feel deserves your hatred. 'The deeper the valley of hatred grows, the more it comes to feel like you are trapped in hell. Resolve to be mindful of these negative feelings, for your own sake'.The good heart that prays for the end of the sufferings of others, ends its own sufferings with such prayers. Send out blessings to family, friends, colleagues and strangers.Healing begins when we tend to our self. Breathe deeply, in and out..

Healing

5 ways to clear your thoughts and find peace in the present:<ol><li>Close your eyes and breathe deeply 10 times.</li><li>Close your eyes and listen to music that you like.</li><li>Enjoy walking without a destination in mind.</li><li>Smile as you look at beautiful scenery.</li><li>Shift your attention to your body, focus on how your shoulders and back feel.</li></ol>Your body may feel old, but your mind knows no age. It exists in the eternal now.

Enlightenment

Do you find yourself saying to loved ones 'If you love me, can't you change for me?' That is not love. Loves true face is acceptance and freedom, not restriction and control.The moment we allow ourselves to just BE, do we finally feel at peace with ourselves. When we accept ourselves, others begin to accept us too.If you live life denying yourself what you want, you may unwittingly deny the wishes of others, feeling others should live as you do. If you stop denying your self, it will become easier to accept others as they are.Labelling something a problem is often what makes it a problem.

Acceptance

Even if someone I helped in the past, or I expected greatness from, causes me grave harm, may I consider him my greatest teacher.

Silence is deep as Eternity, speech is shallow as Time.

True freedom is being without anxiety about imperfection.

Just as I wish for a swift end to my suffering, I also pray for others to quickly recover from their pain 🙏

When you hesitate to forgive someone, I pray you find the compassionate gaze inside you, as we all face our personal demons 🌟

Top Strategies for dealing with perfection paralysis and achieving your biggest goals

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Ideas picked out of each chapter of this awesome book which makes for a perfect gift to yourself or somebody else 💞

Susan Cain, New York Times bestselling author of Quiet: "The world could surely use a little more love, a little more compassion, and a little more wisdom. In Love for Imperfect Things, Haemin Sunim shows us how to cultivate all three, and to find beauty in the most imperfect of things--including your very own self." A #1 internationally bestselling book of spiritual wisdom about learning to love ourselves, with all our imperfections, by the Buddhist author of The Things You Can See Only When You Slow Down Hearing the words "be good to yourself first, then to others" was like being struck by lightning. Many of us respond to the pressures of life by turning inward and ignoring problems, sometimes resulting in anxiety or depression. Others react by working harder at the office, at school, or at home, hoping that this will make ourselves and the people we love happier. But what if being yourself is enough? Just as we are advised on airplanes to take our own oxygen first before helping others, we must first be at peace with ourselves before we can be at peace with the world around us. In this beautiful follow-up to his international bestseller The Things You Can See Only When You Slow Down, Zen Buddhist monk Haemin Sunim turns his trademark wisdom to the art of self-care, arguing that only by accepting yourself--and the flaws that make you who you are--can you have compassionate and fulfilling relationships with your partner, your family, and your friends. With more than thirty-five full-color illustrations, Love for Imperfect Things will appeal to both your eyes and your heart, and help you learn to love yourself, your life, and everyone in it. When you care for yourself first, the world begins to find you worthy of care.

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Susan Cain, New York Times bestselling author of Quiet: "The world could surely use a little more love, a little more compassion, and a little more wisdom. In Love for Imperfect Things, Haemin Sunim shows us how to cultivate all three, and to find beauty in the most imperfect of things--including your very own self." A #1 internationally bestselling book of spiritual wisdom about learning to love ourselves, with all our imperfections, by the Buddhist author of The Things You Can See Only When You Slow Down Hearing the words "be good to yourself first, then to others" was like being struck by lightning. Many of us respond to the pressures of life by turning inward and ignoring problems, sometimes resulting in anxiety or depression. Others react by working harder at the office, at school, or at home, hoping that this will make ourselves and the people we love happier. But what if being yourself is enough? Just as we are advised on airplanes to take our own oxygen first before helping others, we must first be at peace with ourselves before we can be at peace with the world around us. In this beautiful follow-up to his international bestseller The Things You Can See Only When You Slow Down, Zen Buddhist monk Haemin Sunim turns his trademark wisdom to the art of self-care, arguing that only by accepting yourself--and the flaws that make you who you are--can you have compassionate and fulfilling relationships with your partner, your family, and your friends. With more than thirty-five full-color illustrations, Love for Imperfect Things will appeal to both your eyes and your heart, and help you learn to love yourself, your life, and everyone in it. When you care for yourself first, the world begins to find you worthy of care.

Zen Buddhist teacher, bestselling author & founder of the School for Broken Hearts in Seoul.Born in South Korea and educated at Berkeley, Harvard, and Princeton, he received formal monastic training from Haein monastery, South Korea and taught Asian religions at Hampshire College in Massachusetts for seven years.He is one of the most influential Zen monks in the world, with over 1.5 million followers on Twitter, Facebook and Instagram. His first book, The Things You Can See Only When You Slow Down has been translated into more than 35 different languages and sold over four million copies.His second book, Love for Imperfect Things was the number one bestseller of the year 2016 in South Korea and became available in multiple languages in 2019.

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"TRUE LOVE NEVER HAS A HAPPY ENDING, BECAUSE THERE IS NO ENDING IN TRUE LOVE."~ALEXANDER THE GREAT#divinelove

Do you ever feel lonely and lost in your spiritual practice? These 11 revelations of divine love will help you recognize that the divine is everywhere.

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11 Types of Divine Love: How You Can Recognize Eternal Love in Your Life

<ol><li>Ignore them</li><li>Always have an exit strategy like "Sorry, I have to take one important call", etc.</li><li>Don't get drawn in</li><li>Remember you aren't at fault</li><li>Put yourself first</li><li>Stay calm and Don't get personal</li><li>Set boundaries (define things that you won't tolerate) and walk out as soon as they start abusing</li><li>Speak up and Move on without them</li><li>Avoid playing into their reality</li><li>Make yourself unavailable</li></ol>

How to deal with Toxic People?

Don't let toxic people and their mentality destroy your life and success. Stay away from them as much as possible. These tips will tell you how.

Dealing with toxic people can take a toll on your well-being. Learn how to different scenarios while protecting yourself.

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How to Deal With Toxic People: 17 Tips

<ul><li class="ql-align-justify">Be <a href="https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/basics/mindfulness">mindful </a>when you are projecting your feelings onto a partner—like being critical of them when, in reality, it’s your own self-critic that beats you up and is now beating on them. </li><li class="ql-align-justify">Seeing the person with new eyes can help one to be a better listener and to appreciate that everything about that person is special.</li></ul>

1. Try to keep seeing the person with new eyes

<ul><li class="ql-align-justify">Intimacy has been described as “into-me-see”. </li><li class="ql-align-justify">Intimacy means listening fully to someone’s heart and deepest feelings and sharing your heart and deepest feelings. </li><li class="ql-align-justify">Intimacy means trying to listen and understand when someone is hurt, and working through conflict with each other in ways that honor and respect the relationship. </li><li class="ql-align-justify">Intimacy means hanging in there and building mutual trust, safety, and heart-to-heart resonance. </li><li class="ql-align-justify">Intimacy means having self-awareness and decreased defensiveness. </li><li class="ql-align-justify">Intimacy does not seek to harm, punish, blame, attack, condemn, or criticize. It is therapeutic.</li></ul>

2. Being in love means practicing intimacy

<ul><li class="ql-align-justify">Working together to give to and uplift others is an important form of being in love. </li><li class="ql-align-justify">Many couples have children and grandchildren and tend to see the fruits of their love as something larger than themselves. </li><li class="ql-align-justify">Being in love means a loss of selfishness, pride, and ego. It seeks to make the world a little better and brighter for others. </li><li class="ql-align-justify">Being in love is humble and, temporally, exists in the right here, right now. </li><li class="ql-align-justify">Being in love is a state of mind that can include a specific beloved or become a state of living you can adopt in every moment.</li></ul>

3. Being in love means keeping the adventure alive

3 Essentials for Staying in Love

When you know your life matches your values, it’s easier to let other people’s perceptions fall to the side.

It is Okay Not To Have The Newest And The Best

Find the courage to live the lives we were meant to, not the lives others were expecting for us.

Stop Under-committing To Yourself

We can’t control others but we can control ourselves. As hard as it is, we are the gatekeepers of what we let in into our lives.

Be Confident Of Who You Are

No one can make you feel inferior without your consent”

Bring Minimalism to Your Home, Work, and Relationships Discover how to apply the minimalist mindset to every aspect of your life by changing the way you think about your home, career, relationships, family, and money. The Minimalist Way will help you take it one step at a time with simple exercises and activities. Ease into minimalism at your own pace and learn how to let go. Filled with practical philosophy and easy-to-use strategies for removing unnecessary distractions and stress, this is the essential guidebook for anyone looking to clear out their physical, mental, and emotional clutter. The Minimalist Way includes: MINIMALIST PHILOSOPHY_outlines the principles of minimalism and shows you how to define the practice to fit your life. THE MINIMALIST LIFESTYLE_teaches you how to apply minimalism to your spending, food, clothing, family, leisure time, work, and more. REAL SOLUTIONS_that help you spend time and energy wisely, including checklists, activities, and troubleshooting tips. Live simpler. Live better. Live minimalism.

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Make room for what matters: minimalism strategies for life. Discover how to apply the minimalist mindset to every aspect of your life by changing the way you think about your home, career, relationships, family, and money. The Minimalist Way will help you take it one step at a time with simple exercises and activities. Ease into minimalism at your own pace and learn how to let go. Filled with practical philosophy and easy-to-use strategies for removing unnecessary distractions and stress, this is the essential guidebook for anyone looking to clear out their physical, mental, and emotional clutter. The Minimalist Way includes: <ul><li>MINIMALIST PHILOSOPHY—outlines the principles of minimalism and shows you how to define the practice to fit your life.</li><li>THE MINIMALIST LIFESTYLE—teaches you how to apply minimalism to your spending, food, clothing, family, leisure time, work, and more.</li><li>REAL SOLUTIONS—that help you spend time and energy wisely, including checklists, activities, and troubleshooting tips.</li></ul> Live simpler. Live better. Live minimalism.

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Integrated complexity is the ability to hold multiple perspectives at once, and it’s a wonderful trait for people to have. Some have it more naturally than others, but we can all work to do more.

Integrated complexity feels like disloyalty

If you think there should be, for example, zero immigration to the United States, you can call anyone who has even mildly pro-immigrant views a traitor. On the other hand if you think there should be open borders to the United States, you can call anyone who calls for any immigration restrictions a racist.

While <a href="https://www.mickmel.com/free-change-mind/">changing your mind can be a good thing</a>, <a href="https://www.mickmel.com/you-are-what-you-value-not-what-you-believe/">your values should remain strong</a>. By taking the time to understand both sides of an issue, you’ll be better equipped to defend your position and have stronger faith in why you believe what you believe. We saw this a few months ago with <a href="https://www.mickmel.com/the-specifics-matter/">the gentleman that was firmly against Critical Race Theory</a>, but he didn’t know why. I suspect part of it was a fear of feeling disloyal if he took the time to understand why someone might be in favor of it, so he buried his head in the sand instead.

Change your mind but hold your values

Understanding the opposing viewpoint doesn’t mean being disloyal to what you believe, and will very likely help strengthen your own perspective.

Integrated complexity is the ability to hold multiple perspectives at once, and it's a wonderful trait for people to have. Some have it more naturally than others, but we can all work to do more. It's really the ability to see opposing viewpoints, and understand the "why" for both sides.…

Integrated complexity feels like disloyalty - Mickey Mellen

Imagine you get into an elevator with your dream client. The client asks you: What do you do for a living? You have 30 seconds to close the client. What would you say?

Here’s what I’d say: You know that feeling you get when you have to painfully squeeze out the last squirt of toothpaste in the tube before going to bed after a long miserable day at work? Prospect: Oh yes! That’s the absolute worst! The absolute worst! [Mirror]

So, people come to me feeling just like that when their hair turn grey because paid ads are sucking the life out of them — and their wallets.I bring a stroke of life back by helping them diversify their online traffic streams through Facebook, Google, LinkedIn, Twitter, TikTok, and Pinterest ads so that they can focus on growing their businesses instead of constantly stressing about what happens when one traffic source randomly goes dry.Prospect: It sounds like we should totally have a chat sometime. My ads are driving me crazy! Let’s exchange business cards and we can find a time that works

Let’s break it down and let’s help you craft an elevator pitch that matches your style. I don’t pitch. I have conversations. We’re all humans.

Everyone just wants to have a good time. <ul><li>Replace professionalism with kindness . </li><li>Replace presentations with conversations . </li><li>Replace the pitch deck with an elevator pitch . </li> </ul>People always try to teach us how to sell things, but nobody ever taught us how to sell ourselves. I’m the guy Bay Area startup founders call in to help organize their ideas to help them bring aspiring billion-dollar ideas to life. In other words, I sign NDAs for a living.

Maybe you feel like your elevator pitch could be sharpened a bit. Maybe you feel like you sound a bit cringeworthy when you’re talking to strangers. Maybe you’re just up for trying something new. Before jumping into your pitch, keep these two pointers in mind: <ul><li>Always tailor your words to the situation and person. </li><li>Never give an unsolicited elevator pitch. </li> </ul>

An elevator pitch needs to be prompted first. My dream client walks into the elevator. Here’s how I’d start the conversation.

I like to be super friendly and just say: Hey! I don’t think we’ve met yet, I’m ______. I listen carefully to their names and respond with a warm: Great to meet you ______!

Prompt the elevator pitch first

With a curious playful overtone in my voice, I then ask: What do you do for a living? Usually, they’re more than happy to talk about themselves whereafter they usually leave me with the golden prompt question: And you, what do you do for a living?

This is where the elevator pitch conversation comes in. Prepare the listener for the problem. Every idea’s purpose is to solve a problem. Before saying a single word about yourself, set the stage with an emotional analogy.

Humans are wired to process emotions we can relate to. Not facts. A problem is worthless if its pain points cannot be perceived. By starting with a relatable emotion, we’re making sure the person feels empathetic towards the pain points of our customer.

Show the problem. You might think here’s your opportunity to boast about what you do, but I like to stay problem-focused. I love to craft a relatable mental image of my clients next. We’re guiding the listener to step into the shoes of our customers.

Step 2: So, people come to me feeling just like that when _____

Give the emotional benefit and the solution you bring. You are here to save the day. Show benefits over features — they say. Show the emotion of the benefit — I say.

Step 3: I bring _____ by _____ so that _____ instead of _____.

Simplify what you do to an emotional level. To get to a point where you have your perfect elevator pitch conversation, I recommend following the following steps: <ol><li>Fill in the blanks. </li><li>Read the pitch out loud. </li><li>Cut what feels uncomfortable. </li><li>Practice in front of a large mirror. </li><li>Practice with co-workers & friends. </li> </ol>Let your kindness do the work.

Human connections, not sales connections.

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